Although not absolute, this proportion exceeds 90% of rural families. However, these children have a significant advantage - they are diligent and seldom make excuses, generally within the tolerable range.
Most of the children who receive praise are from business families. They are lively and have a strong interactive ability with the senior employees during the internship. Some families, who are not short of money, can even invite the senior employees to dinner, and some can come up with new ideas to solve problems. They are the type that won't be disliked and are the group that receives the most praise.
Then there are the children whose parents are government officials. Their greatest strengths are that they are polite, articulate, not likely to be abrupt, and have a good sense of judgment with a relatively good personal temperament. However, sometimes they tend to be a bit sly, but due to their young age, it is easily detected by the elders, and the evaluations are mixed.
There are five or six children from intellectual families. Without exception, after working for a period of time, these children are not favored by the internship departments. There are several reasons: First, they lack a sense of judgment. Second, they have a relatively good self-perception, but sometimes they do not know how to distinguish the occasion and the age difference with their words, saying something stubborn and causing embarrassment to the internship department. One girl left a deep impression. Her parents are middle school teachers, and she has a good self-perception. She complained about the errands assigned to her and contradicted everyone. The internship department strongly refused to keep her, which was very annoying. Finally, there was no other way but to let her inspect the fire-fighting equipment. Later, because she thought it was hard and unfair, she came to talk to me. Finally, I gave the answer: If you are not willing to accept it, go back to school. Later, she came late every day and finally quit the internship on her own. She was the first and the only one to do so. She has a very strange personality. Later, I learned that after graduation, this girl stayed in the provincial capital and did not return to her hometown. She also did not find a formal job. It seems that she worked in a cake shop for a while, and then went to set up a street stall. Later, she has been taking the postgraduate entrance examination. There is no more news about her.
In contrast to this girl is a boy. He is quite tall and a little chubby, and he likes to laugh, laughing all day long. This guy initially requested to be the lobby manager. Because his surname is Qi, according to the custom, he is called Qi Xiaopang. When I said that the lobby manager is a tiring job, he still insisted, saying that he could lose weight and take care of the female classmates. Then he said that he is too fat to do meticulous work. Haha, this little guy told me what it means to "familiarity is a treasure" and what it means to always smile is definitely right. This child comes from a well-off family. His parents run a decent home furnishing store. Of course, this little guy is also a good student. He came to the provincial capital from a second-tier city to go to university. This child has an interesting personality. You can joke with him, and he will never be annoyed. He smiles at everyone. Although this child failed to stay and work in the bank in the end, because of his good personality and flexibility, and with the support of his family's financial condition, during his six-month internship at the bank, he got to know everyone well. Finally, because of his internship at the bank, he opened a company, mainly to install ATMs for the bank. Because this industry is a scarce industry, once you get in, it is difficult for others to replace. Within a year, the little guy bought a house, got married, and also calls me from time to time. Because he wanted to do this at that time, he discussed it with his father. Because he is familiar with me, his father specially came to see me and invited me to dinner. It was at this dinner that his father taught him, and also me, an important life lesson: "Familiarity is a treasure." Naturally, there were a lot of flattering words during the meal. Then, after drinking some alcohol, he talked about how he managed to build a furniture city despite being uneducated. At that time, I thought that Xiaopang's father should have some thinking ability. He told me: Xiaopang studies well and is a good child. He probably wants to stay in the bank, but the family has no connections. However, since he has the opportunity to intern at the bank, and I have no influence in the provincial capital, I hope this child can find something to do from the subordinate related businesses of the bank. I have never heard that the bank will default on its debts, right? This idea really opened my eyes at that time... At that time, I listened patiently to Xiaopang's father. It is not so much that this child Xiaopang is good, but rather that Xiaopang's father is really good. The following is the plan that Xiaopang's father gave to Xiaopang.
When Xiaopang started his internship at the bank, his father was very happy. When asked which department he wanted to intern in, he briefly told his father. Although his father did not understand the bank, after hearing what Xiaopang said, he immediately felt that the most important thing about an internship is to get familiar with people. Just stand in the lobby, so that the bank leaders can see you often. This is the guidance of Fat Dad. It is estimated that the bank leaders may not be able to see you every day in other departments. Later, because the internship period was long, Xiaopang also heard that only a few people would be left in the end. When he went home again and talked about this problem with his father, Fat Dad said: We have no connections, and those in charge of the bank job probably don't care about the gift money from our family. I don't have the ability to keep you, but can we change our thinking? The bank is also a unit and needs to cooperate with others. Xiaopang, think about what external liaison companies provide services to the bank. If possible, this is how life is. Everyone has their own destiny. Don't just think about staying in the bank. Try to find out what business the bank needs in this half year and try to find one. Xiaopang's thinking turned quickly and he accepted his father's advice. From then on, Xiaopang started from office supplies, fire-fighting equipment, camera installation, paper sales, and so on. Finally, he found the ATM installation. The cost for each installation is not low, but different people are replaced each time. With this thinking in mind, he told his father. His father came here in a few days and invited me and Xiaopang's supervisor for dinner, giving gifts and having a meal. When the whole thing was understood, two months before Xiaopang's graduation, he spent 200,000 yuan to set up a company for Xiaopang. Because his father has the qualification of a furniture city and decoration, he quickly found me and Xiaopang's supervisor through Xiaopang, and then found the vice president of the supervisor. With the company and the qualification, he contracted the ATM business of our bank at a price 500 yuan cheaper than the original for each installation. At the same time, because of the interaction between banks, we also introduced cooperative banks to Xiaopang. Because of this relationship, Xiaopang often comes to see me. I once asked Xiaopang why he listened to his father so much. Xiaopang said that in his hometown, among the neighbors, relatives, and friends, his father is considered to be very successful. His father has no education, but he can lead dozens of employees. He thinks his father is very capable since he was a child. Another thing is that Xiaopang likes to say a mantra, which is self-awareness. It is also what Fat Dad often says: We must have self-awareness. Xiaopang has a good father who can give money, find business opportunities, and make Xiaopang a small boss. Just as his father said: I gave birth to him and I know him. He is quite suitable to run his own business. We must also have self-awareness. If we can't enter the bank, we can cooperate. Being a small boss in the provincial capital is better than being a boss in a lower-level place. One must have self-awareness and seize any opportunity. This is the story of Xiaopang and his father.
Zhouzhou's Work
After these children have been working for a month, most of them began to vaguely know that only a few people in this group may be left. Because during the internship here, they more or less understand the salary and treatment of the commercial bank, which is still very attractive compared to other units, and so it began. There are very few rational people like Xiaopang. Of course, this rationality comes from the knowledge, ability, economic strength, and life wisdom of their parents. There are very few such children, just one. Most children, including us adults, will strive and fight for a vague hope, hoping that they are lucky. It is from these children that I have obtained a very valuable thinking. If you have the ability, you must strive for it. Since everyone says this thing is good, and since the secular perception considers it good, then it must be good. Don't think that you can Fight out another world by yourself. If you comprehensively measure and find that you cannot get this piece of cake, you must immediately change your thinking and don't do things that are beyond your ability. Because if you work hard and strive, but your conditions are not met, in the end, you will be the one who is sad. This is very important, very important.
I don't know whether it is out of kindness or something else. Almost every child began to know that I have a few places in my hand. Of course, only I and the vice president know about this matter. There are only two to three places. From that day on, my office and my phone started to get busy. At the beginning, several children who were about to be taken away naturally pulled their parents and colleagues from the bank to ask me to dinner again and again. This is natural and human nature. I know my own limited power. I only have two places. I don't want to offend anyone, so I have been dragging it out. I found a reason to tell the person who called me: I don't have this power. I also have to listen to a lot of how good this child is. Maybe he is the best child in the world.
Then, some parents of the children began to directly find my home, carrying things. Haha, considering my limited power, I cannot accept these gifts. Even if I could, I don't want to, because I think if I determine a child, it means that another child has to go for interviews all over the world. I can't bear it, haha...
At this time, when there are more wolves than meat, a law is fully reflected: How the little wolves are depends entirely on the big wolves.
Zhouzhou is a local girl whose mother is a department-level cadre in a certain price department. This girl has a good upbringing, is fashionable in her dress, and has a good temperament because she has learned ballet. She has a kind of very girlish feeling and is very polite. My biggest impression of this girl is that she must have a very good upbringing and is always so unhurried. When this news spread to Zhouzhou, I understood such a truth: A good child is only a very insignificant condition. It is an absolute hard condition that the father or mother is very good.
In the third month of the internship, I received a call from the bank president, the top leader. He told me that Zhouzhou performed very well and I must write a good internship report for her. At this time, I played a little smart and asked the president: I have no impression of this girl. Is she with long hair or short hair? Which one is she? The president said, That one, the girl Zhouzhou. Anyway, it's either long hair or short hair. Just remember to make her internship report well!