There is someone who always cares about me.
She is very special to me, she always believes in me and loves me.
She is an important person not only for me, for other people too.
She is the beginning and the strong root of a huge tree.
She is the nucleus.
The nucleus is the oldest person that I have ever met. She has a lot of experience and knowledge about life though she was born in ancient times, her thoughts and some ideas haven't been stuck in the past. Also, she has been worrying about me since I was a child; she always talks with me and asks me if I feel good no matter if I look good or bad. She is proud of me and my achievements, she sees me like I am, with my flaws and my qualities.
I admired her because she was and is very strong, elegant, smart, courageous, and funny.
She thinks that I'm perfect, but that doesn't make me feel stressed because she knows that it is because of my effort, and also she thinks that I can be better. I love to listen to her anecdotes because all of them show how much she worked to improve.
Someone like her is irreplaceable.
She's the first person that I admired.
She taught me about good manners, how to be perseverant, to be good with animals, and more things like that. Also, she usually talks to me like a friend and gives me advice about everything.
She's a mentor, she's an example of perseverance. She's a mediator and a leader.
There could be lots of problems but she never chooses aside, she finds a solution for both sides or stays neutral.
Time for an anecdote but not mine, hers:
She got married two times. First, when she was a bit young; the second, she was young but mature and she had a daughter.
Her second husband wasn't a good person, he was a hypocrite, a liar, a cheater, and more but that's her children's opinions; she said the same but also she said that he was a good carpenter and a self-sufficient person. She didn't regret to marry him or have children with him.
She told me that near the end of his life, she took care of him despite his many lovers, she was the only one with him until he died.
He had a terminal illness and he was old so she and the rest of her family were taking care of him for many months. When he got worse, he had to stay in the hospital and she always visited and stayed with him.
A few days before he died, he said to her:" Sorry, I did a lot of mistakes, and I put you through a lot of trouble. Please, forgive me. I'm going to change, we can travel and visit different places after this." She forgave him and accepted the apology because she never hated him.
The next week, when she was visiting him, he got worse than before and he died between her arms. She was the only one first and at the final, she was also the only one.
She knows how to forgive and does not hold grudges against anyone.
Time for another anecdote but this is mine: Good manners, friends, ladies, and talks.
One day that we were talking when I was a child, she taught me some good manners because I was going to be a lady:
.Don't take more than two sweets or snacks from each tray that the host invited you, at a party or a reunion.
She said: "Cassiopeia, taking more than two sweets or snacks is impolite because there are more different snacks and others have to eat too."
. Don't fill your cheeks with foods and don't blow your mouth when eating.
She said: "Cassiopeia, people look like squirrels when they fill their cheeks with food and look like pigs when they blow their mouths so eat properly, eat calmly."
. Don't rattle the spoon in the cup when you are stirring the sugar.
She said:" Cassiopeia, you have to stir the sugar quietly, you don't want to broke the cup."
That day, she said to me more good manners for different occasions like parties, theater, dinners, and more. It didn't bother me or make me feel frustrated because they were easy to do and she wasn't very strict and didn't make her words sound like commands. Besides, they are very useful now that I grow up.
About my question as I said, she has been always worrying about me since I was a child.
She cares about my feelings, she takes into consideration my thoughts. She loves me and accepts me as I am. Though we don't see each other always, I tried to visit her as much I can.
Time for an anecdote: A visit, a call, lunch.
My school was near to her house so when I walked to my home, I always walked near there.
One day, I wanted to visit her so I went to her house after school, it was a decision at the moment so I called my house and I ask for permission to stay with her: "Can I eat lunch here? I will go home after one hour.", they agreed because her house isn't too far of my house and I didn't usually eat lunch with her, I usually went to eat a sandwich or drink tea before dinner.
She is an amazing cooker so the food was very delicious. While we ate, we talked about school, what she did yesterday, the recent news, and many different topics. After we finished eating, we continued talking and seeing her tv series, later I went to my house after I promised her that I was going to visit her on Saturday.
She can talk about everything and she has her opinions, but furthermore, she respects someone else's opinion. She talked and listen to what they think respectfully.
She is an open-minded person, though that is only since ten or fifteen years ago because she had an idea of the type of person that she wanted for her grandchildren in her mind. The wives and husbands of her grandchildren weren't like she wanted for them but she started to know them well and she saw that they were good people to her grandchildren and her great-grandchildren were perfect for her, she loves them a lot and no matter what could happen in the future, that fact isn't going to change because her love is forever.