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Chapter 20 - how not to be insecure

What is the root of insecurity?

Low self-confidence, or insecurity, involves feeling inadequate or not good enough. Everyone experiences it from time to time, but it usually doesn't last forever. Insecurity can stem from a variety of factors. These include: childhood experiences, comparison to others, trauma, uncertainty, and discrimination.

signs of a deeply insecure person, according to psychology

1) Constant need for approval. ...

2) Apologizing excessively. ...

3) Overcompensating. ...

4) Avoiding eye contact. ...

5) Difficulty accepting compliments. ...

6) Overthinking and second-guessing. ...

7) Fear of confrontation. ...

8) Negative self-talk

How does an insecure person act?

Insecurity can drive negative self-talk and self-criticism in some, but it can also manifest as things like jealousy, clinginess, approval-seeking behaviors, avoidance, bragging, competitiveness, guilt-tripping, bullying, and aggression toward others

10 tips to overcome insecurities

Confront your feelings. ...

Set achievable goals. ...

Prepare yourself for setbacks. ...

Embrace yourself as you are. ...

Challenge your negative thoughts. ...

Surround yourself with encouraging people. ...

Listen to other people's stories about overcoming insecurities. ...

Try new things.

Signs of insecure relationship

Lack of trust

Emotional distance

Need for constant reassurance

Jelousy

Low self esteem

Feeling isolated

Controling behaviour

Doubting partner loyalty

Overly relying on partner

How to reduce insecure feelings in relationship

Identify the root cause

Open communication with Ur partner

Be mindful of Ur thoughts

Improve emotional intelligence

Focus on the present

Build self compassion

Stop asking for reassurance

Consider professional help