You should not have to convince someone that you are worth their time. If you are worth it, they will make time for you, and really care. You should not have to convince someone to love you. It is not fair to you. Why do you keep beating yourself up about this? They just did not deserve you. You should not have to convince someone to love you. They should love you for you, not because they are being "forced" to. You deserve true love. You deserve to be loved for you. They should not play you or lead you on. If they actually cared they would have told you straight up. You shouldn't have to convince someone to love you... That is not worth it to you... You need someone who knows your worth. Who treats you right. Someone who knows what they want. They lost someone amazing. It is their loss, not yours. They are going to wish they kept you. You might not feel like it because you think they are "the one." But if they were "the one" they would already be with you in your arms. They would not be "loving" someone else only you...