Mind to Behave, in a sense to control the mind is to train it to behave. Before we can control the mind, we must study it. Mind your manners ", that means to behave in a polite and proper way.It's often used to tell someone to speak and act in an acceptable way so as not to offend others. To make a special effort to be polite. Answer act to manage the actions of oneself in a particular way, to conductoneself in a proper manner. The state of remembering or to be remembered.we have to seize this unstable mind and drag it from its wanderings and fix it on one idea, over and over again this must be done. By power of will we must get hold of the mind and make it stop and reflect upon the glory of God.The easiest way to get hold of the mind is to sit quiet which is impossible and let it drift, where it will for while identify yourself! Picture the mind as a calm lake stretched before you go as bubbles and breaking on its surface,like circles. This circles process widen out increasingly and we have to reverse the process and make it narrower until at last we fix the mind on one point and make it stay there. As we started to reflect on everyday life the identification of yourself with thought and feeling will grow.
When we started to figure out and realize the potential of the mind, and also the turbulent thoughts started to increase it became vigorous but disciplined. And this should continue as the mind needs to be taught how to behave and observe as one. We notice that when our mind is in at disturbed state, our breathing becomes faster and irregular.
Many use to say quieting the mind is to regularize the breathing, regular practice of deep breathing helps to develop a stable state of mind and process in a orderly plus behaviour. But for me mathematics and strategy games appeals the ability to concentrate on deep subject matter.
Usually our conditions that we forced to concentrate our mind on certain things. They are attraction in objects which compel our mind to become fixed on them. In this way we become slaves to those tempting objects. The true position however we put our minds on things at will, this things should not be able to force our minds on them. Learning to do this is a mistake important step in controlling the mind.
Taming the mind is like double entendre, to be able to practice the disciplines leading to control of the mind, we need to create a favorable inner climate by conscious aspecting certain inevitables of life, and this should continue as long as the mind needs to be taught how to behave.