I farted the first day I visited Hubby while we were courting.
It was my first time at his place, and, unfortunately, my stomach wasn't cooperating that day.
I was experiencing some uncomfortable bloating; perhaps it was just gas.
Trying to maintain my composure as a refined lady, I attempted to hold it in, but then… the air escaped with an undeniable sound.
My goodness, did I just fart?
He was relaxing, but he definitely heard it. I was sinking in embarrassment, but then he said, chuckling, "Hmmm, you don bring Isoko mess come Benin!"
His lighthearted response immediately put me at ease.
Instead of staying silent and making me feel awkward, he joked about it, and I felt so relieved.
There's a valuable lesson here. After that moment, I realized how free I felt with him.
Being in his presence , I could simply be myself — imperfections and all. I didn't feel any less of a woman; I felt comfortable, accepted, and appreciated.
When you're with someone who lets you be your true self without feeling the need to put on an act, you've likely found the right person for you.
Stay with someone that makes you feel like the woman you are.
I pray you meet your heartthrob.