Yes, if you wish, you can do it. You can come out of your shell and do anything you want. And that came up from the mind of an introverted guy who never looked beyond his comfort zone. But as you grow, you realize that you can not stay within the boundaries of your inner cycle. You must come out and witness the challenges provided by the world. Sometimes, we don't even have the slightest idea what we are gonna do? or how will things unfold?
But nature always sets things on track. Let yourself loose, and the essence of the universe will take you on your desired path, but you have to keep your balance and never lose what you possess. After all the flaws in you, it is what makes you unique. I should tell you a poem in that matter. After all, the overall concept of this part of the story is self-discovery;
Sedulous!
Don't be afraid,
Of the fall.
Remember always,
Never to halt.
Every setback you face now,
Nervous you are!
I know how.
But remember always ,
There would be better days.
Never should you ever stop,
There's always a way,
To reach the top.
Always be humble,
No matter the struggle.
Always have hope
For better days,
Work hard in silence,
Awaiting better days.
The secret to face,
The beautiful days,
Is never to stop or put to rest,
Only the god knows what's best.
Never give up,
On your dreams.
It's only up to you,
To fulfil your dreams.
I realized after coming to the university that the only way to move forward in your life is to accept the change. Learning to let go is difficult and a hard task, but this is necessary for an individual to find himself at that point in life. It's funny to say that I belonged to a pure science background, and once I aspired to become a great scientist like Albert Einstein, I am now doing BBA. I have changed myself inside out. Trying to be a better human. Learning new career skills. I'm totally ignoring the old, shy, and quiet guy that I used to be, back in my school days and throughout much of my college days. But that doesn't mean I converted into an outgoing person, but rather now , I am able to mix with people and talk with strangers quite effectively.
And this journey wasn't easy for me. It was a journey of self-discovery and transformation. The newly found sense of purpose that began to take form within me acted as a driving force behind it. As an elder brother, I should tell you guys something. When you come out of your shell, the world outside your comfort zone would be intimidating, yes it will scare you, cause you a great deal of trouble, but it will make you the man you want to be.
When you open your eyes and set your goals and strategies for personal growth, you start to engage in external activities that you had never even thought of doing. As for me, yes, thanks to some of my university friends, I started to develop my soft skills in public speaking and networking with other people and corporate officials as we went in during industrial visits. And especially when organizing mega events, leadership roles come into play. The old, shy, and quiet guy was slowly fading into the background and was replaced by someone who was confident and eager to seize opportunities.
But you have to realize that this kind of transformation doesn't happen overnight, and it requires patience and hard work. It takes time for a caterpillar to turn into a butterfly. If you are looking for an overnight miracle, then just go home. It is a slow and challenging process. There were moments when I just wanted to quit and ran away . But something was holding me back from being consumed by my self-doubt. It was an unconscious mind, something that was telling me to go forward without worrying about all the uncertainty and questions.
As I sought to broaden my boundaries, I decided to learn new skills that aligned with my interests. I actively took an interest in photography and cooking and would regularly practice them. Practice makes a man perfect. Keep note, everyone, it will come in handy in the long run. And as for me, my artworks, my stories were getting attention from all over the world. Yes, it wasn't that significant if I were to showcase it in front of the whole world, but it was good enough to understand that, yes, I was going in the right direction. And it made me happy. Anything that keeps happiness to your heart and doesn't possess any harm to society is good for you.
I should really appreciate someone or some situations for the path that brought me here. I realized that it was her presence in my life, my first true love. She became my motivation behind my self-discovery and improvement. I realized it was her, my first true love. She became my motivation behind my self-discovery and improvement.As I reminded myself each day, about the moments we shared, I understood that my journey to develop myself and to change myself was deeply affected by my childish desire to become the man of her dreams, someone worthy of her affection.
With every step I took toward, for my own personal growth, I kept her memories by my side, which was cheering me on. The shy, uncertain version of myself that fell in love with her and whom she had known was gradually being replaced by a person who had a deep and compassionate heart, a mind full of confidence and determination. It is through this phase of my life, that I realized that my journey wasn't just about becoming a better individual for my own sake, but also for the person who had touched my heart so deeply. Yes, she wasn't with me, but the memories will always push me ahead. Perhaps it's time for me to embrace the wings of change and embark on a new journey.