"SHOULD I EXPECT A DOUBLE INTEREST"?
That was a message which popped up on his screen the moment he picked up his phone ,whilst he was preparing a night snack...his bowl full pf coco pops just fell right there ,and he didn't take much notice on it,it felt like a threatening message, I would have got terrified too! I mean who wouldn't?😂
He replied…
"Fuck! Who's this"?
A minute after: (reply)
"Blood sucker! I want my money or else I'm coming to your parents"!
"Oww fuck"! He replied.
Thats when he called Isha asking her to come to the kitchen.
"Bra! You remember that money we borrowed from the loan shark shit of a woman? She wants her money back now!
What do we do now"!? He asked.
"Dammit! And I forgot about that too! By the way it was R1500.00 right? Hell it was why am I even asking that?
"Seems like we gotta make an illegal plan dude o don't see a way out...just notify Nicole ,Teddy isn't owing right?he'll yes she isn't! She had money last time I remember. Its you, me and Nicole! Shit!
We so fucking great! Hiding tattoos for so long without mom and dad finding out...we geniuses "! He said
Just as Isha turned back...their mom was behind them, by their door .
"I'm sorry what"?
She had frowned with confusion, anger, her eyebrows were lowered and pulled closer together,her eyelids squinted, eyes bulged,her lips were curled inwards,she was furious!
"What"?
Yazan asked with a surprised facial expression, he was trying to gather up thoughts, trying to make up something.
"You have hidden tattoos since when "? She had her arms folded like an investigator.
"Ma! Are you okay?what you talking about exactly ? That was Anaisha. Let me get you a glass of juice so you can calm down".
"Hey! Don't make me a fool! Do you hear me! Do not! Don't test me! Cause I know exactly what I heard "! Her face was reddened.
"Ma! You know very well that eavesdropping is very rude,very rude,the rudest thing I've ever come across! Its actually considered as a breach of etiquette! It's actually illegal to eavesdrop in Canada mom"!
He really tried to push the topic away.😂
"Shut up! Shut up! You disgust me with your statistical laws! This is Swaziland and I'm to fucking parents dammit! You are in my house I have to know whatever you talking about,and I've been observing you two...you are so weirdly close lately, you pushing illegal tenders huh "?
She asked whilst getting close to them.
"Anyways I want to see this tattoos right now"!
She was ready to pull up a hot slap right there and then.
"Show me" ! She went ballistic about it.
And they did! They never had a choice, fuck! They weren't just exposed but all of them were! Teddy,Nicole too! They did this together .
She dragged the both of them with their ears straight to their dad.
"Can you deal with them....they'll confess what they did!
"What? What happened" he took off his glasses and put them on the coffee table,you can imagine the scene what's about to happen!🤣
"Kia"!!! He hung his hands with confusion.
"Nothing dad ma just eavesdropped and got shit that she wasn't meant to discover"! Anaisha angrily expressed herself.
Well Meri jaan....our kids have tatoos"!
"Kia! Since when? How and let me see"! He quickly pulled up Yazaan's tees and boom!
There it was! Again boom! On Isha's thigh,they were deaf meat! He even told them.
"Did you even think of Allah when you decided to do this rubbish? This is hell, this is hell!
Satanism itself, you permitting the devil to come into this house!dammit!!! You disgust me!
I feel like puking right now! Who gave you the permission to do this?huh? And tattoos are expensive hoe did get the money"?
He asked them with their faces down,full of fear,nervousness.
"Dad! We are 16"!
Anaisha almost received a hot slap from saying that...it was almost a minute to that but she slipped away, Yazaan stepped back too because the scene was about to get hot!
"Fuck 16! Fuck 16! You cannot even wash dishes or mop the floor then you telling me you 16!?😳
You two must have lost your marbles...tomorrow first thing in the morning, I'll call your class teachers to request her about your late coming because we are going straight to the fucking tatoo thing to remove that! And get a refund"!
He was angry, with his eyebrows pulled down,his nose rinkled his upper lip pulled up.
"What !? A refund? where ? How and for what exactly"?😳
"Refund for those tatoos! They'll take them off! He said.
"But there's no Refund" Yazaan answered.
"Do I look like I give a fuck about that shit? I don't give a fucking shit! They'll plug an iron or whatever to remove it! Refund or no refund you wearing that off in 8 hours"!
He pushed them aside and went to bed.
They looked at each other and laughed silently 😂😂 I would have laughed myself you know.
They both went to Yazaan's room to laugh, they laughed so hard,the "iron line" really tickled them so hard cause they couldn't stop laughing.
"Let's call Teddy and Nicole we'll make a group call"🤣 Isha unlocked her phone to call them whist Yazaan led up some cigars.
They told them the whole story and they couldn't stop laughing, they didn't leave the "iron part",that one almost killed Nicole ,she was already on the floor because of laughter!
Well...Teddy was excited about her day, being made by Matte, she felt like she was in a new planet, new continent and new place.
Remember When Rose (played by Kate Winslet) jumped out from a life boat to be with Jack Dawson (played by Leonardo DiCaprio) in the sinking Titanic, this is the remotest prefiguratiou that she is in true love.
This scene from the film Titanic is epic because it shows what happens when a girl is in love. If we are to take note...the feelings of a girl when she is in love, we have to say that she is actually ready to cease with her man.
Falling in love is a heavenly feeling or a magical trance that makes everything in life better, brighter and more beautiful.
The feeling is always exciting, overwhelming and equally surreal for all. It doesn't matter if you've fallen in love once or multiple times, there is always something magical about falling in love for the first time, and we always say "you know what? This is the first time I've felt this way "? Don't we?😂 anyways let me mind my business.
Anyone who hasn't had a crush over a guy or a lady? I thought so, we've all had right? And am certain a lot of us currently have. It's not a bad thing I must say, it's normal!
Weird thing about this crush or infatuation thing is that it's stupid, yes it is and I'll say it again, "ITS DUMP"! You want to know why?
Let me tell you, a crush is a very strong but brief feeling of love. Being strong means you may find yourself having done serious and foolish stuff in the name of love that isn't even real, ask me I know, am a living testimony.
Sometimes you may even get to lose what's more valuable in your life all because of a crush, people do fight with their wives and husbands over a 'crush' you know what am saying.
The usual case is that we normally view beauty in what's new, in what we've just seen, then we lose interest in the old, that's a fact.
Butterflies, chemistry, vibes, that feeling of being tingly all over—there are many ways to describe infatuation. We've all had crushes, from the very first moment we locked eyes on that guy or girl in the playground.
All it takes is that special someone to make our palms sweaty and our hearts pound.
Your happiness has no bounds when you see such a perfect (only to you) human being in front of you.
Although you have no clue what they think about you and if what YOU think even matters, you can't help but compare them with your exes in everything they do.
Nobody likes to be a stalker but it's not a choice in this case.
You spend most of your time looking at that person at school/office/college/street or stalk them on social media.
You spend less time in thinking of ways to approach that person because looking at them makes your day anyway.
You often get delusional about how it would be if you start dating that person. You don't like to regret (because that's exactly how it should be for all of us). So that's the brief moment when you gauge all the courage to talk to them.
No seriously, you suddenly go the dumb way when they walk up to you or vice versa. You're unable to speak, forget asking them out.
His/her aura is too intimidating for you to handle. And all that is left is - you blabbering and making a complete fool out of yourself.
By the end of each day, your anxiety kills you. "Will I ever get to talk to this person? What if she starts dating and I regret not talking to her all my life? Am I in love?
Aaaahhh.....
The part you're forgetting here is - that's a 'crush' you're talking about.
Panicking about accidentally entering a 'friend-zone'. You keep yourself from doing things you don't want to with this person but that doesn't mean, you make them your friend.
You try your best NOT to make that person your friend and if you do, a few months down the line, you wonder WITH them how it would've been if you guys had dated and THAT secretly pisses you off.
Ditching your friends.
It becomes a habit to drop everything, every plan, and running to your crush if he/she asks you to hang out at the coffee shop.
At the same time, you have butterflies in your stomach that makes you throw up.
No matter how much you've stalked this person, if he/she messages you or shows any kind of interest in you, you act really confident, a little too confident, which may or may not be good for your future plans, Constant restlessness.
"Does she like me, does she not?"
And so binge eating AND drinking becomes a habit.
You certainly forget how you need to stay fit to increase the possibility of getting a positive response from your crush. So the stress makes you eat, drink, cry, imagine and PASS OUT.
You analyse each and every move of that person - the man of your dreams."He ignored me. Does that mean he also has a secret crush on me."
Over-excitement if they say 'yes' (for anything).
"Can I take you to dinner sometime?" A yes to this question drives you crazy.
Waiting for her text. Waiting for her to come online on Instagram.
"Does she like me, can she like me?"
Crushing on someone can be really harmful that way.
You tend to forget that he/she is just your crush. So, whenever they talk about their past with any other girl, it makes you super jealous and it is VERY OBVIOUS.
As God commanded nature into all that we sighting at this moment....The sunrise,sunset and how the day unfolds into what we call a day...
The stars vanished, the sun showed up with resemblance that it was indeed another day and hell it was. It straight hit up the window with its brightness and boom! It was another day that the Lord had made...
EXCESION TATOO REMOVAL DAY!
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Wow! Let's see how the day folds and unfolds.
Anaisha was the first to feel the sun, she quickly woke up and dashed to wake up Yazaan so they can shower quickly and quietly, head to school before their dad woke up and started going on about last night's shit.🤣
It was 05:05am when she woke up Yazaan,they both dashed to shower in the name of killing time, they really did their best on sneaking, but almost got caught when Yazaan opened the fridge for an apple and plate of food almost dropped down because it wasn't secured so well, they never even had breakfast, there was not time for that at all!
By 05: 27 ,they were outside the gate walking with a very high pace, praying that their parents don't find them along the way. There was no transport or taxis....nothing at all!
Yazaan called Liam, telling him they had to come chill in his house a bit,they'll make some silly excuse of their visit and they did.
He opened the gate for them, they were kinda sweaty already, they all said their 'Hi's and Hey's, Nicole chilled with Anaisha a bit when the guys had a chat too.
It was a thrilling moment when Nicole went back to the tatoo story, she couldn't stop laughing about it.
"You know Nic....come to think of it....since our parents caught us with this thing...it's a high probability that your parents might find out soon...I mean soon! Plus Teddy! And boom! We all caught! What do we do? How do we contain this dilemma "?
Anaisha got a little stressed out because she couldn't stop thinking of her dad,they were not going to hide forever.
"Yooh bra! Yooh! Liam....we are dead meat"!
Nicole exclaimed.
"Ahh bra! Chill out you think their parents might tell ours? Never! Let's just stop assuming please,anyways I got school to prepare for, it's getting late".
He stood up preparing to go shower when his phone rang …
"Agh! Who the fuck might this be so early in the morning? Yoh"! He exclaimed.
"Girlfriend maybe...." Anaisha said.
"At this time!? Never in a month of Sundays, plus I dont date so".... he picked up.
"Hello....how are you Liam"?
He got terrified on who the fuck knew him that he called at around this clock even".
"Yes! This Is Liam who's the fucking dick am I talking to"? He asked out of curiosity.
"OUCH! So this is how you address your people,your elders? Anyways this is Mr Patel…
He wasn't even done but Liam just put the phone on loud speaker and silently alerted the rest that it was about to get lit! 🤣If you know you know, and everybody got nervous about it.
" If ever you happen to see Yazaan ,and maybe Anaisha....just alert them that "THEY ARE DEAD DUCKS! THEY GOT IN A JAM! Okay?
Just do that for me and I know wherever they are I know they are together, thank you very much"! He dropped the call.
Her mom badged inside just like that! And everybody went speechless😯...there was that moment of silence, the atmosphere got heavy and heavier in a very short space of a second.😳😬🤯
There was a moment of aghast, surprise, appall....The only question they all had in mind was if she had heard everything since the phone was on speaker.
Fuck! They behaved like they were the only ones in the house or as if what they were doing was legal.
"Mhhhh! Care to explain? Why are you two here? What did you steal? And why's your dad threatening you this way early in the morning "?
She was standing by the door on her gown listening to what exactly was going on and nobody was interested in talking because no story came up.
"Owwkay...since you just decided to act dump! I might as well take out my phone and call Mrs Patel....we might meet over a cup of coffee in a few hours it's been weeks since we haven't".
She took it out from her pocket gown and there was a voice which slightly screamed with nervousness....it was Nicole…
"No! No! Ma... I don't think it concerns you, 🤨this is a family matter, Patel matter, it doesn't concern me ,Liam ,dad, nor you"!
"They are in my house, at this time!....I don't want cops popping up here making my house a crime scene...no"! She said .
"Okay okay okay....I'll speak...." Nicole said.
"Yes Nic....her mom listened.
"No! No! Ahhm no! I mean ....okay I'm spilling the beans now" Yazaan said.
"We actually did something which isn't bad but my dad believes it's very bad and he believes its ungodly so"... just as he went on, Nic's mom had to receive a phone call, and that interrupted everything.
That call got them nervous....because they didn't know if it was their dad or not...Liam decided to follow his mom, sneak up on her to listen to who she was talking to but unfortunately she kept on humming but Finally he picked up along the lines and it was work stuff just as he was on his way back, he dropped his phone and his mom quickly turned back, his lips were open,because he got terrified but he tried to act cool, went along to get a glass of water.
He never liked drinking water so that got them starring at each other weirdly.
"Yooh! Guys finally I'm back ...it's work stuff not your dad so take a chill pill" he said.
"What the fuck was wrong with you Yazaan? You really wanna expose us unexpectedly? Really? No warning no what? Seriously"?
Nicole was pissed but with a smile on her face.
" Of course I wasn't going to include you guys what the fuck is wrong with you? Not everything's about you" ! Yazaan said.
"You know what? I'm against the clock so guys I gotta dash and shower....I'll be back"! He left the room right then.
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Honestly speaking though....nothing is as irritating, frustrating, exasperating as getting caught by your parent doing something you aren't supposed to be doing, like drinking....
It's s so exhausting because its the feeling that makes you wonder "how and what does she feel after spotting me doing that. The tension in the room ,the house just makes it worse! It's exhausting!!!
The best thing to do after getting caught is to simply admit that you did something wrong. If you know you've made a mistake and you've been caught, the best course of action is often to just admit it.
Don't ever feel like you need to go into detail about it. Just stay calm, and speak matter-of-factly about the situation.
Your reaction to being caught may have an impact on your punishment; you don't want to make things worse.
Don't try and justify your actions. Say, "I know what I did was wrong, and I'm sorry."
Saying as few words as possible in a serious tone is usually the right tactic. The sooner the interaction is over, the sooner you can put it behind you.
Let the person who caught you have their say. Whether it's your parents, a teacher, or someone else who caught you, let them react the way they want to.
Don't cut them off; it is important that they feel like they are being heard. If you interrupt, it may appear as though you don't feel sorry for your mistake.
You may want to solemnly nod your head as the person who caught you tells you what they think. This will make you seem more contrite.
It's good to act sorry, but don't go overboard. Crying or yelling dramatically probably won't seem genuine under these circumstances.
Explain your side of the story. If you think it would help, you can explain why you did what you did.
For example, if your mom caught you looking at a website that's banned in your house, tell her that your curiosity got the best of you.
Tell her that it's difficult to keep yourself from exploring the internet, but you'll try hard not to let it happen again.
In some cases, explaining your side of the situation could backfire. For example, if your teacher caught you cheating on a test, telling him that you forgot to study probably won't help your case. Under these circumstances, it's best to stay quiet.
Accept your punishment with grace. Actions have consequences; accepting them is a sign of good character.
If you knew what you were doing was wrong, it's probably best to deal with the punishment instead of trying to resist it.
Tell the your parent or teacher that you accept the punishment and will fulfill the requirements as soon as possible.
In some cases you may not accept the punishment; you may feel it is unfair.
Weigh the pros and cons of resisting. If you refuse the punishment, will it make things worse for you? Will it be worth it to take a principled stand? Only you can decide.
You can either swallow the punishment and move on, or stand up for yourself and possibly face more extreme consequences.
Seek outside advice when needed. Getting caught for a minor mistake is one thing; getting caught doing something illegal is an entirely different matter.
If you were caught doing something against the law, it's best to involve your parents instead of trying to handle the situation by yourself.
If you were caught by a police officer or another authority, call your parents right away.
If you were caught at school, it's also important to involve your parents immediately.
Don't react to the mistake. Have you ever seen a performance, and known that a performer made a mistake, only by the way the performer reacted to it?
There is a chance that no one but you knows what went wrong, but if you react to the mistake then everyone will know. Pretend instead that it was all part of the plan.
For example, if your parents accuse you of staying out past curfew, act like you didn't realize it had gotten so late.
Keep a straight face, and act slightly surprised if they push the issue.
Pick a good story.
A good explanation of why you were doing what you were doing determines whether it is believable or not. In forming a good story, consider these factors:
Keep it simple. Don't make up something that sounds extraordinary. For example, if you were out past curfew, you could say you kept hitting red lights.
Make sure it is a story you can stick to. Changing your story is one of the biggest signs that you were lying.
Don't make a habit of lying. Maybe a good story will help you cover your tracks the first time, but eventually you'll be seen as someone who isn't trustworthy. When you're caught doing something wrong, it's usually best to own up to it.
He decided to use his friends car just for the day, and for hardship of recognition... A VW TSI, which would hardly bring attention on anyone's eyes.
It was going for 07:00 am when he entered the school gate, he even checked it right then. He had his breakfast right there, it was a Malaysian roti canai! with a Vietnamese Bahn Mi Op La (Fried Egg Sandwich) ,he had carefully planned this. He took a day off just for this, his dress code my goodness🤭 yoh!
He laughed at it himself but it's what he wanted to do. He was wearing denim shorts shorts like shorts....which were wrongly cut, like they were cut in a rush or something with those threads on the ends, with a black old tee.
He waited a few minutes after the arena had began, he thought twice but he finally said.
"Nah let me do this ".
The teachers were assembled in front of the whole school, including the principal but he was making a speech when Mr Patel decided to step in.
Students turned, they laughed literally, that drew attention as the teachers turned back and saw what they saw,🤣 the principal couldn't control himself anymore, he kept on breaking on his speech and he couldn't take it anymore, he laughed along with the students😂 I would have laughed to no persay too.
He literally made it worse when he put his hands on his pocket and pushed them forwardly because that just showed the shape of his ass which was really funny, he went directly by the principal's spot, with his arms behind.
Anaisha couldn't even say a word when her friends asked about her dad. She was speechless, she knew he had come to embarrass her, unfortunately Yazaan wasn't there.
"I believe you have something to say sir"! Mr Brambilla said, he was Italian actually, he had been a principal for like 5 years.
"Yes sir! Thank you very much...Well...I have a very disrespectful kids in my home, I give them everything they could ever ask for but still, they are so rude and very bad, the only good thing they can do is doing well in their studies,nothing else" everyone laughed at that.
"I have two kids, a very beautiful girl and a very handsome son, who's schooling at the Waterford, where I'll be in a few minutes.
Unfortunately my daughter won't be able to participate here at school today because she's going to get her tattoo removed,which she wore without my consent, I don't know how she'll do it with her brother, weather the tatoo artists plug an iron to remove it I don't know and I don't give a shit, I just want it no more".
It's like they had pressed buttons of laughing the way they did, but Isha's squad wasn't.
"I told then last night that they won't be coming to school but they decided to get smart and leave early in the morning, and decided to become smarter, because I'm old, Anaisha, let's go before I waist everybody's time".
She had glasses in her eyes, she felt embarrassed because everyone was laughing at her, but she couldn't have a choice because all eyes were on her already, her friends hugged her and tried to comfort her, but she had to go.
"Did you really have to come like this dad? Really"?
She asked in front of the whole school and they were all laughing so hard.
"I'm embarrassing you the way you embarrassed me this morning when I made a fool of myself looking for you and Yazaan", he said.
They got in the car and left to Waterford, Yazaan's school.
"Wow! What a great and humorous episode we've watched for free" the students laughed.
That was Principal Brambilla, he couldn't stop laughing at what had just happened so he dismissed the school and everyone went to where they were supposed to.
"Shiiiit"! This can't be....her dad seems to be so serious about this whole thing....it means we also this close to get caught Nicole".
Teddy was worried about Isha that her mind wasn't even stable.
" Yeah hey....her religion makes it worse...we shouldn't have let her do it you know, her religion makes it more complicated for her compared to ours you know....
I feel so bad that I can't even help her....or maybe we can Teddy...Yes we can....let's call that tattooist guy and tip him off that he must tell Isha's dad that tattoo is impossible to remove, of course it is impossible but slightly possible, his dad's got money he might decide to pay it off just like that, so if he tells them that it's never possible in history.....then he won't have a choice but let her be".
"Mhhh....I like that idea Teddy....let's do it now before we get to class" Nicole said.
"Fuck school....we need to escape this" she punched the numbers and dialed the guy.
He picked up****
"Hello..."
"Hey! Ahhm it's Teddy from Sifundzani School....you remember me perhaps "?
She asked.
"Yeah sure....you ready to suck my cock? I can pick you up now, just send me the location " he said.
"Fuck! Bra just concentrate and stop being a dick head okay"....
She told him the story but shortened it.
"Okay cool but under one condition".... he said.
"I'm all ears....
"You suck my cock this coming weekend okay? Don't you play games with me....you understand? ..I fuck you violently....my way!
"Okay okay cool! Consider it done twat"! 😾She cut the call.
"Let's jump to class".
Teddy commanded Nicole.
"Bra! We 're fucked".....
That's the message she sent Yazaan and he replied instantly.
"What you talking about bitch "? He texted back.
"Don't be such a cocktwat we on our way to pick you up....3 minutes away....with dad, he's serious about the tattoos shit".
She sent the message and within 2 mins ,they were at the gate already.
In a minute...he was coming towards them, which surprised Isha, he got inside the car,he had reported a very serious urgent family matter.
"Their dad kept on bad eying them at the mirror which got them shifting and squeezing themselves at the edges of the seats to avoid the contact while they starred at each other, the silence was a killer.
"The two of you think are smart....I knew you were gonna pull out such a stupid stupid stunt...you made things worse for yourselves...you still gonna climb this hill I'm telling you....that's the place right"?
He asked them while entering the mall but they didn't answer.
"Ohhh okay ....we playing the silence game now? Okay.....cool"! He said.
The both looked at each other.
"Why didn't you respond stupid"? Isha asked him.
"I'm not a fool".... he said.
"Fuck you"!
Isha said whilst opening the door coming out .
....
"Good morning.....how can I be of help"?
"How much does it cost to remove tatoos"?
Mr Patel asked.
"Ahhm...unfortunately its quite impossible....it's a lifetime thing.....it's really impossible sir I'm sorry" he said.
The two smiled at each other and laughed ,until their dad realized they were,they literally stopped instantly and played the sad facial game.
"Dammit! How do you manage to put that on and fail to remove it? Isn't there some sort of an electronic iron that we can use" he asked.
Isha almost laughed that out but Yazaan beat her head and pulled her,making her stop.
"I'm sorry sir....even if we could but it's rare for it be a huge success...it's very very expensive sir, very costly....like $500 in Europe not here, we don't have the tools yet" he said.
"Okay...I see...thank you, good day ahead" he left.
"Thank you sir"!
He said loudly. Isha turned back and pulled up the middle finger and he did the same too.😂
They felt better after leaving the tattoo palace, they didn't care about the screams, and yells they were going to get.
There was that silence as they were on the road, the tension and all,they pretended to be so worried and regretful on their dad's face yet they totally weren't.😂.
Kids,young people, mostly teenagers her more angry and rude with their parents when they have upset them, me included.
Personally....Teen period involves ownership, authority, and independence. We don't wanna hear the truth from our parents or relatives or any other elder,we never ever want to.
Probably there's someone here who says "except for me" but honestly it can't be everytime.
No matter how close you can be with your mom,or dad, there are always those shitty convos you will always hate whenever they get raised up and I know I'm not wrong and not the only one in this.🤣
It's more like getting pregnant or impregnating a girl, then they remind you everyday that you are or did that.
There comes a condom advert whilst you all gathered in the living room and then you get that look or eyesight from your parent which strictly says " had you forgotten about this too"? 🤔.
Well that's just it, being told things you already i know really drains, especially something like this or anything negative, it's shit! You just feel like "Oh goddamn can you shut up already " in mind of course.
It's the same thing in ever culture ,Europe,Asia every continent, so I've noticed, behavioural teen is the same, nor difference at all.
I remember in this 2020 series, a British comedy-drama television series created by Laurie Nunn called "Sex Education " where Asa Butterfield going by the name of "Otis Milburn, like there's a point in that series of season 2 I guess where his mum was reprimanding him early in the morning about his public wanking,long showers, and all the normal teen stuff he might have got up to, well if you know it then you know the facial expression he pulled up, it was hilarious and I could relate myself to that too.
It just becomes so weirdly strange to have such chats with parents or elders,it's so off I wish they could know, just like talking about dating and all....yuk! It's very bad.😂
Parents get very angry at us ,as their kids because of stunts we pull and all but at the end of the they'll never understand why we do it or why we become the way we are, never will they because of the changing and changed times, but there are better ways to calm folks.
See.... use a calm tone and do not allow your voice to raise if they raise their voice. Continue to smile and speak calmly. I know it's the hardest thing to do, but a non-threatening body language that shows that you are open to what they have to say.
One of the counselling teachers says it's crucial to validate their concerns...let them know right away that you understand that they are upset and you would like to help.
Ask for more information and let them know that you genuinely want to find a solution.
Listen and nod while they vent. Sometimes they need someone to listen. Letting them vent without being judged will be therapeutic for them.
Remember that there are many reasons or motivations behind a parents anger that often has nothing to do with you. Knowing this allows you to take a step back and remove your emotional reaction.
Show you are interested in what they are saying. Eye contact and leaning communicated openness. Be careful not to cross your arms or put your hands on your hips as these are seen as negative.
You make the rules for the conversation. If an angry parent is shouting, you can tell them that you will not continue to listen unless they lower their voice. If they do not accept the boundaries, end the conversation and say that you will reschedule a time to talk when they are calm.
Let's take charge,it's time we ought to make our parents know that we are young adults,we know every stunt we pull has consequences!
Yes it has and this are changed times....so they gotta accept either the easy way or the hard way. 🤒
It was dinner period filled up with so much tension, doubts, it was just a mess, it was an eye to eye between their Patel and his kids ,an eye to eye between Anaisha and Yazaan....until plates,forks and knifes shook up and down and went side to side when Yazaan banged the table with anger, that terrified everyone especially after so much silence.
"Fuck! This is not normal, it's shit and unhealthy! Dad! If you wanna punish us or hang us at the garage then it's okay, you can do whatever shit you want with us, it's okay, this tension and frustrating looks are really draining ! Please"! He tried to calm down and he sat down again.
"Hey! Don't you dare raise your voice on me you understand? Don't you dare! You disappointed me, you really disrespected me immeasurable! I give you everything you could ever ask for...E.V.E.R.Y.T.H.I.N.G!
But you decide to gang up your heads and jump the windows to go and do this filth....I'm not against tatoos at all,clearly you don't know me ,but it's religion....couldn't you at least wait till you finish school"? 🤨
His question seemed like it demanded an answer right away.
"Talk"! He screamed.
"Yoh! 🧐 ayy'"!
He got his phone and pretended to get busy with it when Isha's phone rang right there, all eyes were on her that she thought of dropping it.
"Who's that"? Her mom asked.
"Ahhm it's Teddy....I'll go outside " she said.
"Why would you wanna do that? We zero interested in knowing your business but since it seems like there's something interesting in your business...then we gotta hear it ...put her on speaker".
"What!? No ma! No calls are private"! She said with a flowing face and she gave her that scary frightening look which scared her and everyone in the entire house.
She murmured...
"Hello...
"Hey ! How are you? You okay? You sound so down. Teddy asked her.
"No no ahm I'm okay...I'm okay don't worry" she replied.
"Owwkay...I guess your dad isn't that bad....just please don't let your parents assume or just give then the idea that we were all in this together, please, my mom can ground me for the whole entire year please, she can be an asshole at times you know that".
She was even loud at that..... 🤣
"I think you've said enough friend....ahm you shouldn't exaggerate this much....I mean your mom is great " She said.
"What!? You defending her now? Your mom is better although you always say she can be a dick head...
"Owww Teddy! This is how you label us? I'm gonna tell Tiera right away" Isha's mom exclaimed.
She furiously screamed…...
"Fuuuuuuuuuckkkk"!!!! 😡😡😡😡
It was hard for her to even think straight....everything was fucked up, she blabbed and now the broken pieces weren't mendable.
What a shame!
Isha called her in an hour and they talked about it....they decided to let Nicole know about right away just incase her mom got forward..you know how parents can be sometimes and best thing is that she really understood, although she got angry but they all knew they were going to get caught one way or another.
I just love the way they acted maturely about it.**
She was from the bathroom when she found her phone ringing...dammit! It was Liam...she knew he wanted her to pop up in his bedroom so she made her way there.
Nicole just stood by there and stared at him with that attitude look,🙄 but Liam was used to it so it never terrified him at all.
"Bra....let's go away this coming holidays, go for something like hiking, let's be adventurous...we stepping on the most beautiful seasonal month...June! Teddy's birth month even...we ought to celebrate"! 😝
"Liam! That's a very beautiful idea dude,beautiful but the hiking thing and being adventurous isn't a smart one....June is the coldest month of the year, its winter and who wants to climb hill on 12 degreed day's? No one!
We rather do something else you know. But!!! We can joint that down, to the first week of September " she said.
"Great! So then....what we doing this coming month? We've got to live man...we've been good kids for quite some time you know, our parents have forgotten about us even" 🤣🤣 they laughed so much on that.
"Well not really....they'll soon be finding out about our tatoos, anyways don't wanna talk about it now " she prepared for an exit.
"What!? Who's the dickhead"? He asked furiously.
"Yooh Liam I don't have the energy about this shit but just know we might get woken up by screams and all, get your eardrums prepared and good night....pray before you sleep man"
She went out and closed the door when he shouted "sleep on it sis"! 😉
Well...I personally feel like fun, plus happiness is a state of mind or a mood. Teenagers are usually blissful when they're indulged with their lives and relationships, although nobody is merry all the time.
Wellbeing comes from physical, mental and emotional health. It's also about understanding your emotions, taking part in different activities, having good relationships and social connections, finding meaning in life and feeling that you're doing well.
For older teenagers, happiness depends a lot on having freedom to make choices without too many restrictions – nothing feels as amazing as that trust me! although they still need you to monitor what they're doing.
It's about being respected, developing independently of parents or carers, making their own friendships and social life, and being taken seriously as individuals.
Even though everyone expresses fun in a different way, you can bet that teenagers having fun are participating in activities that build bonds with friends, involve action and excitement, and create strong memories.
As a teenager, it might seem like your options for fun are limited, but the truth is that you can have fun no matter what you are doing and that you especially don't need drugs or alcohol to have fun.
You also don't need to have a lot of money or resources. It's more like an attitude plus! Listen! Shut down people who always assume for you, people including relatives who'll always assume the worst for you whenever you go out.
Having parties or gatherings with friends on a regular basis is a great way to have fun. Think of doing theme parties and dress up parties throughout the year, that's living, honest living, honest fun, and honest happiness, no harm.
Attending movies, concerts, singing karaoke, or even dancing in your living room is fun! That is fun,exploring,experimenting,screaming, dancing and all.
Since most of these games are made for teens, they will evoke a sense of fun. It's even more fun to play video games with friends.
Participating or watching a sporting event is fun and memorable. If you've ever noticed the intensity of being a spectator at a sporting event (versus watching it on TV), you'll know that fun times are elevated in a big crowd ,so just pack up, dress up and go watch live soccer! Life worth living you know!
Finding those great bargains or coming home with some of the latest fashions can be fun, especially when you anticipate where you might wear those clothes.
If you need more fun in your life, try buying more clothes for fun events and you'll find excuses come up to wear those outfits.
Do not be afraid of making up your own style,fashion, never be! Don't be afraid of showing your skin, your arms,legs, cleavedge...just so long as you clean then you can do whatever you feel comfortable with its.
Black skin doesn't restrict you from wearing something short or revealing....no! Wear that sexy red mini dress and let them see what you do got...confidence strangles and murders people. So let your confidence be your hatchet.
There are small and big parks with rides that can put a big smile on your face. Even silly things like bumper cars and fun houses are amusing. Nothing compares to the fun you can have with a group of close and trusted friends.
"Okay guys....let's talk about my birthday please....we didn't finish off the plan....wassup "?
Teddy asked them with curiosity, she now felt like she hadn't lived.
"Well....we need a car, thats a necessity, and Isha's brother will provide with that category so she said, so we basically covered on that....problem is location....how do we do this"?
Nicole did have an idea but she wasn't sure if they were going to come along with it.
"House party maybe "?
Anaisha suggested.
"Nah man! Always!? Can't we just do something totally totally different? Like partying in the woods or so? Something like that, be wildly adventurous, we still young", Nicole expressed herself.
"Nicole! Nicole Roberts! This is not in the UK at the South Wales with wonderful beautiful sexy nature, or somewhere in England, its the Kingdom of Eswatini (Swaziland)! And this is not the movies friend, its actual, I'm scared and terrified of wild animals, snakes I just can't I'm sorry"! 🥺🤨Teddy said.
"Oh Jesus! I get what Nicole means....not necessarily being in the middle of forest's ,we can get a guest house or a lodge like ahhm ...wow Ahhmm that lodge ahhm by Pine Valley or something ahhm 'The Silver Stone Lodge ' that's perfect right Nic"?
Anaisha jumped with excitement as soon as she recalled the name of the place because she wanted it planned at that very hour.
"Ohhh yes yes yes! High five! You so smart Isha! Can't think of anything better than that hey.....Silverstone is so very much perfect and wow! Amazing! I can picture us already, with some fire outside, chilling with booze, tequilas with some dicks in front of us "!
😍Nicole laughed when she said that.
"I'm sorry what? They'll be cocks there"?
Teddy asked with surprise because she thought it was going to be a girl's night.
"Yes! Why not? Okay I thought about it and I ahhm I thought it would be great to have a very few guys" Nicole explained.
"I thought that was a joke, didn't know you were going to thoroughly ponder on it! Jesus! Can the ground swallow me already, I thought it was going to be honest fun Nicole"!
She was getting a little bit angry.
"Bra! Having guys doesn't mean they will fuck us, hell no! What the fuck is wrong with you? It spices up to the fun, problem is you can't picture it when I can! You can bring Dave, or Matte or I don't know ! But you gotta get fucked on your birthday honey"!
Nicole laughed a bit waiting for her response.
"Fuck you Nicole"!
Teddy went quite but she got their point so well...I mean what the point of celebrating 16 years without a bang! So she thought.
"Okay okay! I'm in! Who are the dickheads that will be there"? She asked.
I don't know about you guys but I personally wanna be with Jaden amongst the crew so"...🤐 Anaisha had always had a thing for Jaden but she hardly spoke about it, Teddy always had her suspicions but she never said shit about it.
"Well...ahhm I'll call Matte and yeah" Teddy sighed heavily.
"Wait! Do you still love Matte or"?
Nicole asked her.
"Yes ! I do I really do just that I don't know what time I can get disappointed, I'm expecting it....and Dave....I just stopped texting or calling him,never broke things off with him, so yeah I'm with Matte" she said.
"But you do know Nic has always liked you right? You know that, oh by the way you had sex last time at the party ....Nice...but still he likes you, I can see" Isha said.
"He's dragging his feet....I can't predict, besides I'm happy guys ,Matte worked so hard sweating his ass to win My heart....so I'm good" Teddy said.
"Wow Teddy! As long as you happy.....I'm happy,we all are....out of all of us here...you the most mature and we proud of you".
Nicole hugged Teddy and that was it.
"Okay! How do we sort ourselves financially then? How do we raise up the money in 4 days"? Anaisha asked with some sort of passion of this whole plan. Nicole was coming along with Jaden and that made Teddy's heart skip a bit.
"Oww shit"! She said in mind.
"Heeya! Wassup? You guys are always up to something 😂 where you planning to smash the windows this time"?
They all laughed at Nic's statement and that got all of them laughing at once.
"Talk to us, we might have a gun and a hatchet that may be of assistance " Jaden said, looking at Anaisha with that charming look of his.
"Don't hide anything I know for a fact that you guys might be planning something drastic here😂, prove me wrong "?
Nicole laughed looking at Teddy and she smiled and blushed, all at once.😍
"Okay! It's Teddy's birthday this coming Friday and we planning something great but small" Nicole said.
"What the fuck is something great but small"?🤒
Nic frowned with confusion which had some naughty facial that said he knew what she meant.
"I mean it's going to be a very great time although we will small in number" Nicole explained.
"Oww! Okay! So much confidence in a woman is very sexy....anyways....gender based"?he asked whist he took his orbits out of his pocket.
"No! Just us but we thought it would be much great if you guys would join us...since you five in number....we can bring 2 more girls...so ahhm what do you think"?
Isha asked them with a sudden expectation of an answer.
"Oww! Wow! I thank God for the looks! I'm an everywhere thought! Well....since its Teddy's then I'm in! Cool we in! Right Jaden"? He asked.
"Of course....Isha's going to be there so why not"?
He looked at her and she couldn't stop blushing.
"But Ahmm....Nic...Matte will be there too....I didn't have a choice you know..." Teddy worryingly expressed herself.
"What? Do I look like I give a fuck? I don't care as long as I'll see you,that's all that matters....okay ? What's stressing you exactly about all this"? He asked.
"Where and how will we tell our parents about this party? And Isha's dad won't agree cause of that tatoo dilemma thing"? She said.
"Uwww that's creepy but you know what sweetheart.. don't you worry okay? You are going to that party ,you and Yazaan okay? Don't worry....it's a surprise....tell him too "?
He smiled and charmed her with his smile and she blushed so bad.
"So I shouldn't worry about the getaways....you'll handle it you say"?
She had heard what he said she was just flirting with him.
"Ohh yes! I have it planned and gathered on my head so don't you worry honey"! He said charmingly.
Hummingly...." mhhhhh....great"! She said.
"Plus...I promise you won't be bored...I'll be there Isha...oh! And we have to plan our dress code...maybe black, or white or maybe red...but you know what...let's exchange digits cause this is private...we'll text about it tonight"! Jaden said.