You know that exhausting feeling you aquire or get when parents or elders want to tell you something you already know?
Like you can even quote their words just like that because they speak them every now and then.
Those serious preaching about boys ,girls, alcohol you know what I'm saying....personally I hate those session's,I mean i already know what the truth about what they are about to preach to me about and it's literally draining trust me! And I can't be the only one.
"Sweetheart....me and your dad know you'll be 16 in 24 hours probably...and we know you feel like you want explore everything, you want to date but please take care of yourself please,...
Her dad hummed and have her that eye contact that says you going wrong about this...so she changed her statement.
"What we mean is....don't just have sex now, wait till you 21..."
She hadn't even finished her sentence and she came in with anger.
"Really mom! Dad! You two? Seriously? You should be knowing me better than this! I'm not after boys, I never ever ever think about sex! I'm focused! I.want to be my own woman!
That's why I'm working so hard so I can go to Las Vegas or anywhere in Europe and all you thinking about is shit! I don't mean to be disrespectful but please! I hate such talks!
We are taught in schools every day and becomes really awkwardly weird when it's you guys, my parents it's totally not comfortable "!
She was really angry and ready to throw bomb at them that it made them realize they had made a mistake!
"Owww baby...I'm so sorry, we both are we just thought..." She couldn't finish again.
"You just thought you care and love me and you want what's best for me...yeah I know..so can I go now...we running out of time" and said.
"Okay! All the best"
They hugged again and she left just like that! She threw herself inside the car with exhaustion and everybody could see she was just pissed.
"Teddy you okay? What happened "? Nick asked her.
"It's those fucking preaches about boys and sex and shit! You know how exhausting and irritating that is? It's better off at school! Such topics shouldn't be done with parents or elders it's way off comfortable! Way off! Jesus!
I know my parents are young but it doesn't make it right, they are my parents! They are beseeching me to at least start having sex when I get to 21 I mean what whack ass shit is that ! Anyways let's scrap it off guys! And focus on the moment"! 😍
"Yay'! Let's start our day off with ciders maybe"! Blessing opened the cooler box and opened each bottle for all of them and it went crazy, they had strongbow bottles, Xtreme, flying fish, redds, it was so refreshing.
It became a sudden exciting swap when they got to the corporate place parking. Liam was driving his car, Jaden was too so its kinda obvious who was with who.
Jaden was his Anaisha, sitting at the front of course like they super originally owned it, crazy right?😂 They were not alone of course, Yazaan was with Nicole, and Mark inside, of which he didn't have a partner.
Nick was with Teddy behind in Liam's car, with Blessing and Paul. That was the set up until they saw 3 more girls coming towards them seeming to be getting inside one of the cars.
That surprised all of them bit It clicked with Teddy that it wasn't going to be fair for them to be alone and be bored.
"Hey girls! Hey everyone! Well we were told it's Teddy's birthday so we brought gifts, here,just for you sweetheart"!
One of them called Faith handed them over to Teddy. She was blown away by surprise, I mean everything was a lot in a hell of a second!
Without a doubt....
"Oww! Ahhm nice to meet you , all of you, its really a pleasure and thanks for the gifts "!
She said.
"Ahhm Ahhm Paul can I see you just for a second please "!
She wasn't a bit nice you know, her friends could see that, so they stepped back to talk.
"Paul...who the fuck are this bitches"?
She was frowning with a demanding facial expression.
"Ahhm we can't be alone you know, you hooked up, everyone's hooked up except for me and Blessing, so..."
He was never down with explaining as she cut her his tongue short.
"Damn! Fuck Paul....you are a complete twat you know that? You are a barmy tosser! This is my thing, my fucking day with my very close people, I can't have mingers I don't know mingers I've never seen, what if they are psycho's? No they gotta piss off"! She said.
"Teddy! You not being fair now, they even brought you gifts "! He said.
"So? So what? And why did they? They don't even know me I'm just a prat bitch in their eyes"!
She exclaimed exhaustingly.
"Just take it easy, please..." he wasn't finish when Nicole came towards them.
"Guys...is everything okay, and by the way who are those pillocks"? She asked.
"Guys guys! Just brake off with the insults that some of us do not comprehend, please! We'll just have fun with them they are really great people you know,you'll love them".
Paul was really trying to explain to them because he really didn't want to be a loner.
"Okay! Fine! Let's give them a chance, if they are a vibe killer, they fuck the hell off! Okay? And if we don't connect with them then should do the same! Is my notepad clear"?
She asked with some sort of attitude but hey, the guy had no choice but to accept the terms and conditions of the squad.
"Yes mam! Everything's loud ,clear and blunt"! So Paul replied.
The three went to gather up with them when they got there and made official greetings, I mean it hadn't been official before but now it was so that was amazing.
Meeting new faces for the first time can be a challenge you know, I mean most people don't come with clear innocent approaches, what I mean is that some people come to meet us because they've heard or seen something about us somewhere, somehow and we can never come across such truth till late or till we get to he intelligent enough to suspect their intentions through languages and phrases they can make.
Meeting someone for the first time can be a daunting prospect. Thoughts swirl around your head:
"What are they going to be like?" "What are we going to talk about?" "Will they like me?" "Will I make a good impression?"
Conquering your fear of meeting new people can unlock doors to new experiences and growth. You may be introverted at heart, but it doesn't mean that you have to be shy.
Shyness is a habit that can be broken just as communication is a skill to be learnt.
One of the factors we come across with as daughters and sons of Eve is the continuous thought of " Are they going to like me or not?
Should I smile? Should I be myself? Should I copy Selena Gomez's personality and character or that of Kelly Rowland? Or should I copy Simon Cowell's voice and attitude just so they can be notified from a distance that I've got it and I'm all good on the planet of life?
Yeah and that's so normal! You know personally I've been to one party ,i tell you what it wasn't just a party but it was a blast party which was on the map, it was full of those high profiled youth, youth which belonged to the suburbs, like you known what I mean right?
That moment when you take a glance on your left and you eyeball with that one person you never ever ever thought you would share an environment with! You get to be like ' Oh my God! What the fuck! She's here! He's here!
Okay...I gotta fix myself now I can't be mingling with such when I'm such'! You know what I'm talking about? Yeah! I'm sure the storm has hit us all in different waves. Yeah man! just look back and laugh about it.😂
There are this kind of introverts who get to be extroverts when they've found a sort of a squad they can connect with just from day one and I tell you what...I'm one! It's just like that, some people just vibe with whoever they come across with.
But at the end of the day, meeting people who are full of positivity, full of fun, joy, happiness and who aren't intense is amazing seriously. You can find yourself chatting on charger at midnight cause you aren't even feeling a thread of hunger and tiredness.
The feeling is compared to that of getting a new boyfriend , see ! That's the feeling baby! Feeling like you going to get married by tomorrow, it's powerful and amazing that it can't be compared to anything I guess.
Wel...I'm personally attracted by honesty, truthfulness, an open soul cause I'm open as hell! It runs in me, doesn't matter what it's about but I am, not going to lie about that and as soon as this book is on the market, my close people will agree on that note.
Honesty makes life easier you know, very easy! Honesty can make you realize whatever you stress about that you shouldn't! Its actually a minor things, and that could make you feel better, knowing you aren't the only.one with that particular issue, it really feels great like " Oww really? I thought I was the only one "!
This is why I never understand why people honestly...I'm not saying I never ever like but bra when it comes to your feelings or anything pertaining feelings....DO NOT LIE! EVER! Please, you making everything complicated for yourself even when you aren't meant to.
It's like lying to your boyfriend 9r husband that you are barren then go and steal a kid in the hospital, so we've seen on media....I mean really? Seriously? 🤒
There are things that you cannot lie about in life. At most times, a lie bares another lie and another lie till you forget your first lies, it's one of the rules of lies, and it can torture you in almost every way possible, like emotionally, spiritually and physically till you even lose weight, honestly and we know that don't we?😂
We would think you are sick when you aren't, you are full of lies! But then there's a difference between not telling one something and lying about it, it's totally different!
They gathered up together again and "The Introduction class " approached.
"Ahhm guys, this is Faith and her friend Chastity, and guys ,this are my friends, Nick, Nicole, funny right? With Teddy, the birthday girl and Anaisha with Liam Yazaan and you know....you will know each other as we go along guys ".
That hot everyone laughing except for Teddy and her Nicole.
"Chastity! That's a bitchy sluttish name I've heard"
Teddy said with attitude, full of hatred and that 'girl I'm hotter than you' facial expression attitude.
"I've heard it's sluttish names in America or U.K".
Nicole added on that, in the name of supporting her friend.
They gave each other those looks you know, well you you should have the image I'm talking about already, I can't really express it.😂
They felt really offended, Faith almost snapped but Chastity told her not to mind them.
"We...maybe I'm one! Who cares at the end of the day? It's my fucking life, I choose what to do with my pussy right"?
She had her arms crossed, with gum on her mouth which she chewed like nobody'sbisiness, plus the fact that she was a bit tipsy, it made her a real whore. 😂
"Uwwww! That's deep shit bitch! But you don't wanna end up with a whole borehole isn't it"?
Teddy asked with humour, and this girl was so chilled that she was never intimidated.
"Of course not! I'm a smart ass slapper...I'm not dump,no matter how horny I can be".
Teddy was just testing her character and personality, to see if she would survive the weekend with her and damn! She fell in love with her.
"You know what bitch! I think I'm getting to like you, its been a few minutes but hey, your attitude is fire, it's like you not this kind of people who get easily stressed or something, you just rolling it with the times or something... you get what I mean"? She smiled with a bitchy smile on her face .