Alina, upon returning home, found the hybrid being in her bed, she felt a great energy flooding her and that her sexual fiction came true, she suddenly remembered the boss and became elusive — Let's stop this madness, get out of my house! She has no right to kiss me and take advantage of the fact that I am alone and sad to have a good time of fun... — It's not crazy, I'm alone too. There is nothing wrong with loving, understand that... We are not fooling anyone. —Alina I have no other...
—We are a reality. There is mutual attraction, I felt it when I kissed her. — She is wrong with me, she does not know what she feels or what I want, I am a serious woman and I know when to decide to do something. Now I want you to go away and forget the incident, she told him, as she opened the door for him and pointed out her...
She was thinking of Italy with the funny boss, she was also annoyed that he disappeared and returned later without warning.
He couldn't forget her kiss, nor her smell, nor the softness of her skin...
She couldn't fall asleep, she had the feeling of his presence. He was a magician and he knew how to dominate her psychologically. Her deep gaze read his thoughts. For the first time, she felt that a man dominated her without saying a word. She had depth of thought but was realistic and concrete. She would clash her imagination and fantasy and again the relationship would fail. She is crazy, plus she is pending the strategy with the boss
He was happy, he touched his lips and remembered the taste of him. She is beautiful in body and soul, she thought to herself. I like her too much and she is so smart... I would like to tame her! She needs him, she could represent her well and love her like she deserves...
She wondered why she had rejected him if he felt that she liked the closeness of her, she wanted to study her psychologically. He knew that she was not an ordinary woman and could not link her to known stereotypes of group behavior. That drew her attention more and aroused in him a fiction unknown in sex and love.
He had to change her behavior and apologize when he saw her, although inside he was dying to feel her kiss again. She totally occupied her thoughts and a fiction of neural love arose in him...
Love is a reaction, a dopamine reward for the brain that works most intensely in adolescence and more maturely in adulthood. In childhood, the love experienced is attachment, the child's intense filial love for those around him.
"As the saying goes: love is born from sight. However, for many people not only by sight, but also by hearing, because of what they are told, because of what they hear."
Now, since the feeling of love is a complex process, there is every possible guess. "When I say complex it means that we don't know anything, we simply say that it is very difficult to explain; but what we do not have the slightest doubt about is that love is built by our brain".
The brain needs the body to express our thoughts through actions, such as when we write, when we speak, or when we do something with our hands: a sculpture, a text, a gesture, all of which are brain processes that we know precisely in what way. areas of our brain are built.
"But love has to do with neural circuits built many years ago by evolution, circuits that are related to the generation of an emotion, the feeling of fear, attachment, loyalty; We also know how these kinds of things happen. And everything is combined with experience."
"Filial love is a love of attachment, not habit, related to protection, with very rudimentary contacts. When we are children, if we are doing well, we have parents and siblings, and there is a very powerful feeling linked to life, with protection ",
A child's brain has not yet matured and his brain circuits are just taking shape, there is no experience, therefore no knowledge. "In addition, primary systems, such as rewards, we have from birth, and we need very little external stimuli to turn them on."
In the development of a person, childhood is not the same as adolescence. In this there are other brain processes, such as reward systems that are associated with emotions, with anxiety, to which hormones are added, systems that mature along with the body, and that are also combined.
In adolescence, the brain already has certain knowledge, which is very different from that of children, in which the neural circuit is still maturing and is continually reconfiguring itself, which is why children learn very quickly and forget very quickly. Memories are formed in the form of experiences.
"But the maturity of the body arrives along with one of the important characteristics of our species –and of the other animals-: mating, the preservation of the species. In adolescence, the reproductive organs are already developed, and we know more or less
Let us know what gives us pleasure, what gives us the reward".
For this reason, the feeling of love matures as we gain experience, because a 30-year-old person is not the same as a teenager or a five-year-old child. In the young adult, experience dominates.
"One already understands the consequences very well, although not all of them, by the way; the consequences are a rally between two tennis players in which one represents feelings, emotions, while the other represents reason. In some cases, reason wins, the practical question, the judgment that allows us to make decisions ".
"Love at first sight is nothing more than an image or a few words that produce a very powerful emotion related to the possibility of mating. From there are born platonic love, passionate love, friendship.
As in many things, in friendship and love the definitions are blurred, it is very difficult to establish the borders between these two feelings. "That's why I don't like definitions, but love is a very powerful feeling that moves human beings in many directions, sometimes for good and sometimes for evil."
Upon reaching a very adult age, with our partners we preserve a very deep friendship, it is no longer passionate love. For physiological reasons, and also practical, biology, which is very wise, leads us to different physiological states that allow us to preserve ourselves as social individuals in whom we know where to trust, where we can have satisfiers. "In the end, everything is a reward."
In humans this system is the same. Throughout our lives we seek rewards. "If we submit ourselves to stimuli that prevent the system from reacting appropriately, it can lead to frustration; for this reason, lovers get frustrated because they are waiting for something and do not receive their reward.
In friendship and love relationships we have peaks. "We have a peak of passion that is closely associated with physical vigour, with temporary, short-term love relationships, which then have to be brought to a terrain where they can function in a lasting way. We look for a way to carry an appropriate intensity so that it lasts, and after obtaining the reward we look for the confidence to make predictions of what we can receive.
In our body there is a system related to a kind of natural drug addiction. It is the same system of drug addiction; the system reacts in a very intense way to the first contact with a drug. But the system very quickly loses its ability to react, it needs more and more drug until it doesn't react anymore.
"Something similar happens with falling in love, which is like the first contact with a drug, something very intense happens but then it has to be transformed, and that is when human relationships are consolidated, or also fail because they no longer have the same ability to react to contact, hearing, vision".
"Hence, the brain becomes very social, in the sense that we interpret stimuli related to what we believe to be beauty and that is combined with the very primal systems of motivation and reward. The human being always seeks reward; to be treated well, receive a smile, a gesture; nice words have a very powerful effect on the nervous system"
In love there is also anxiety, uncertainty, because I would like the person for whom I experience loving feelings to reciprocate; if not, I feel anxious. "I can't wait to see her but when she passes in front of me she doesn't even pay attention to me. That is a very unpleasant stimulus for someone who is expecting a smile, a greeting. A reward".
Intraterrestrial hybrids know human love very well and train their population with the words that are in quotes like life...