On the top of these entire doubts one more add fuel in fire as the dramas on TV motions of "Ideal Indian Women." Truth to be told I just despise this concept of an ideal Indian woman where women are supposed to be in complete faithful service and at dispose towards men yet there are no rules or words like ideal Indian men. Everyone wants an ideal Indian women but no one ask the definition of an ideal Indian men. I don't have tiniest bit idea why does only women pray and fast for long life of her men but no efforts from the other party; doesn't men also wants their soul mate to be their side till they die or men are so frizzle that they need such ritual of fasting and things to keep them in this living world and all that from the person who is naturally weak in comparison of them and gradually get more and more weak from courtesy of giving breath to their child.
Also can't be ignored the part rituals where women takes blessing from her husband by kneeling in front of him to touch his feet but the question is why, isn't marriage suppose to be of an equal for both parties be it position or respect. If that's the case then men should also kneel down in front of their wife to get her blessing but if they by magically or mistakenly were to happen to kneel, the man would probably kill himself for his mountain high ego and reputation had shattered.
Also the fact where a men were to care for his women would be called 'wife's slave' by the society yet there are no word for a caring women such as 'husband's servant' cause that is so natural and habitual in the daily life of a woman that no need for such mocking words since that's what is considered her duty by society through shinning words such as 'An ideal Indian women' only to shackle down these beautiful creatures.
This 'ideal Indian women' is a well and wisely strategically build concept and a sweet yet deadly poison to make women under men's thumb without their knowledge. Yes.. that's right… it is not me who is wrong rather the women in society who were never taught or let learn by themselves of their actual condition and respect less position in a family. These golden shackles are what blinding women to destroy not only themselves but also the others of her class while men gets out of case unscarred or we can say without getting their hands dirty, so it can be said, it is the same policy that Britain applied on India 'Divide and rule.' And 'Work from shadows' while the delusional women keep being fooled under the glorious seeming words of 'Ideal Indian women.'
The truth lightning out the hollowness and darkness of the beautiful looking human world sent me in great despair as my eyes looked at the poor women around me smile and laughing in the well created walls of a jail called society.
It is true that 'Humans for society and society for human' but there is a underlying message which only trained eyes could see that the former human are women to give services and the later stands for men who only knows how to take yet their hands clenches in tight fist when it's turn to give. "Truth is not just bitter but also dark."
I could never grasp the mentality where a women need to be ideal yet a men is free to be as wild as an animal. This society shows sympathise words for a raped woman and later all her life is looked at not as victim but heinous criminal who doesn't deserve a place even in hell yet the actual animal is roaming free in the same society making more and more victim out of others and the society feign blindness and forget his crimes easily as last night's dinner and then once again come up with things such as 'Adi-Shakti', 'Durga' and 'Maha Kali' to successfully distract women from their horrible standings and right less position in society and once again direct a women against another to keep their well established positions in cheek.
With this constructed mentality a women would be the first to utter words such "If you don't want to be looked weirdly at or being rapped then don't wear such short clothes." to the raped women, a victim who now got proved to be source of crime and the evil in the criminal's sick brain.
Thus the sensitive cases for society's are dealt with and no harm done to either men himself or his reputation, maintaining a great image in front of women who foolishly wind deeper and deeper in the web set by men only to think of them as most genius creature on the planet, well, they in fact are, to come out with such twisted plans to prove their dominancy and appease their egoistic nature.