Women who denounced physical fightings were given the freedom to feel, but men were not given such a freedom. If any man denounced physical fightings, then he was considered as a coward in the lineage. His parents were disgraced, his children were given no part in their properties, he was himself humiliated everywhere until his last breath. His effigies would be burnt in the local family gatherings. Music videos uploaded on YouTube taunting him. Every measure would be taken to make him either get mentally extremely harassed and commit suicide or rejoin the tradition of the Silverarrows.
John Silverarrow was no coward. He used to regularly attend parties, tried to fit in. When he got enough of respect from his kins, he started staying away. He dated a lot of women in that phase, making a lot of mistresses too. His kins believed that he was busy with women and following their great tradition, so they excused him and continued to show respect. But now he was a middle aged man. He was very free. Very very free. Neither did he care for the tradition nor the taunts. But he had created an aura about him which would protect him and keep his kins at bay from him.