Massimo & Laura: They both start catching feelings to each other, from day 1 until Laura she made her first move, while they been texting to each other and been in many video calls Laura asked Massimo something she told him first " i want you to make a promise and i don't need you or have to answer this if you don't want to okay, gosh my blood pressure is getting high" Massimo here was confused he start asking if she's alright is everything okay back there with you Laura?, she said yes don't worry it's just this very important, just bare with me hehehe, okay here we go " Massimo i actually have a crush on you I've been talking to you with my friends all the time like none stop, you are the one i actually wanna be with Massimo i feel like you understands me in many ways, and i know that im not mistaken that you also have feelings for me, i wanted to say this first because i don't wanna be late and also to lose you." Massimo got really emotions and start crying and also was so happy he replied her with. " wait wait Laura but you said you liked someone older is that like me or like someone else? hehe". Laura start giggling and laughing she said, "It is you dummy head you the one ive been talking about the whole time you also older than me hehehe, also like when i said older i meant like i hoped for someone to be more mature and wiser, but from what i saw like people ive been with before and dated before they all proved me one thing. They are half of what you are and they only want one thing from me. you are all i could hope for. " Massimo replied, " oh hehe honestly Laura i feel the same and yet you not mistaken, and honestly i feel shy because i wanted to make the move first but like umm it's not like im not ready or anything but i was afraid of losing hope or not to be the one. but im so happy Laura that i also have feelings for you and im so glad that we could let this out hehe, but as you know this actually my first time like for all this, and i promise you i wont leave you alone or hurt you or make you cry." Laura said: don't make promises you can't keep or hold Massimo it's not good and im happy and also feel proud that i found and met you and also to be your girlfriend officially. im pretty sure that we going to be happy honestly.
Massimo told Laura that let's take this slowly step by step she said i agree with you it also a good idea to take it slowly to understands and explore more about us since we are officially together hehe, Laura said i told my friend about us and that we going to take it slow, but her friend got mad and like i dont know she wasn't happy or expecting that answer, Massimo said why would you friend be or act like that is it because i said let's take it slowly man i dont know her but like this is between us and also it's our life and our chooses you know what i mean we won't be toy for other people to be controlled by or anything just to pleasure them. We also have our personal life and i think instead of her saying that or if she's not happy she should be happy for us and also to respect our decision tho am i right or wrong in this.?
Laura said you actually right Massimo but yeah imma tell her to respect our life from now on, also Massimo im actually shy hehe but imma tell you something, i love you. Massimo face went from normal to red like tomato the way she said it was so priceless, but Massimo said it back to her i love you too Laura.
Days and weeks passed until Massimo birth day about to come soon and Laura she was waiting for that day to come so bad because she was planning to make Massimo something special, she starts writing about him without him noticing that, while Massimo was busy being with her in call and making her happy and smile like every single day since they been together and yet he kept his words and promise about keeping her safe and happy. But Massimo start noticing few things about Laura that she has a Bipolar disorder but that didn't stop Massimo from loving Laura more because he does understand that cuz he met and saw people with that kind of issues and yet he never complaint about it because he respect and love Laura as she is.
And Massimo loved and cared about Laura alot in many ways such as he, always make sure to make her smile, texting her every morning some thing sweet for her to read, always make her laugh. they both felt like if they are living in a real love story, soon when Massimo birth day came Laura, wait waiting for this day so badly like she even was waiting for the date and time to hit like she was so specific about the time and everything you could think of, she send him a huge text messages with a beautiful sweet birthday card for him to read, Massimo wasn't actually ready or prepared for any of that, he start crying and tearing up because he never actually thought about getting such a sweet cute lovely messages from her or like someone would actually care about him and his birth day that much, Laura that day proved to Massimo that he means alot to her and like he becomes part of her life and her heart, what happen to each to Massimo it happen to Laura they both even shared they own personal issues as couple, Massimo was so grateful actually for her and the day he met her, from that day their relationship start getting stronger and even tight, for example if one of them got or received a strange message or some weird messages, they both talk about it out and they both decide what will they do or what to respond but most of the time they both agreed to delete the contact or block so they don't have to reply or get for themselves headache that way they moved and start avoiding trouble, but not every love story end up happily living together they didn't happen for Massimo & Laura because sometimes in life or in every relationship you gotta or have to fuck up to learn from your mistake, one day Laura start losing feelings towards Massimo like she thought that Massimo only was like being more like a friend to her, and one day she decided to break up with him, but Massimo he wasn't ready to take that news from her, like he felt alot and he thought that she was the one and right woman for her, although he never ever disrespect her in anyway or hurt her feelings it's always been the opposite he valued her alot.
And yet Massimo accept her decision and he apologized to her if he ever done anything bad or wrong towards her, like after 8-9 months of being in a relationship with Laura, days and nights of calling and laughing and having a good sweet time, but again nothin last forever like we all expect. Massimo wished to Laura a happy life and to take care of herself, and Laura she did the same to Massimo, they both said their goodbyes like if it was their last time seeing and hearing each other voice, first week for Massimo was very hard and tough because he's not used to go through a breakup before, like it wasn't easy at all, like if he still can hear and see Laura in his mind and heart, he still can hear her giggling in his mind and he can't forget that beautiful face when she smile.
Massimo spent the whole first week alone he couldn't eat or drink because he doesn't have an appetite for anything or even have a motivation to do anything he felt like he lost everything like legit, he lost a precious person, someone unique that can't be replaceable.
"in any relationship between any couple, they should understand something they might not know."
1- communication, communication, communication, why i said it 3 times because This is one of the most important aspects of a relationship, but so many couples struggle with it. There are many things in a relationship you can solve with effective communication. You need it to set boundaries, to solve problems, express feelings, and more. There are some aspects of a relationship that some people can find hard to talk about like sex for example, But proper communication allows you to identify problems and come up with solutions.
2- Listening and feeling heard, Having someone listen to us and feeling heard is important. In a healthy relationship, both people should feel relatively comfortable bringing up issues, expressing themselves and listening to one another. While not every conversation is going to be easy, both partners should feel that they will be heard.
When a person's feelings or needs are ignored or not respected, the relationship can suffer. It's important for both partners to make space for the other person. Compromise and ongoing communication are key in respecting each other's feelings, needs and values. But compromise should not always be one way.
If one partner actively disrespects, ignores or demeans the other, this is abusive. Partners who behave this way may also treat someone's ideas or feelings with contempt.
3- Trust , It's important to maintain relationships outside of our romantic relationships in order to have a strong support system. In healthy relationships, significant others trust one another. Trust is about knowing that someone will do what they say. It also can mean that each person in the relationship feels free to spend time with other people in their life like friends and family.
A relationship can become unhealthy when one person feels jealous every time their partner talks to or spends time with other people in their life.
If one partner is accusing the other of flirting constantly or tells their partner not to talk to or interact with another person in their life, these may be signs of abusive behaviors and mistrust. These types of behavior can lead to feelings of isolation and symptoms of depression or anxiety.
But Massimo, tried his best to moving on since it been a months of his break up with Laura he tried not to feel bad or like anything negative towards her, because he knows that she did what she saw it's best for her life since she made that mind up and of course. it was also hard for Laura to moving on she starts crying days and nights for the decision that she took, but between Massimo & Laura they found a way to communicate like if their souls and their hearts talks to each other saying that i missed you, how are you doin?, are you good? i need a sign from you to tell me that you alive or at least you fine.. anything, but Massimo never forgot that Laura's birth day was coming soon, but the only problem he was facing that, if he should do or say something to her, but within a week later he received a text message from saying " that she thought that you would've fought for me in the first week we stopped talking. for five-six months we hadn't spend a single day from each other. i thought that maybe you'd realize that no response meant that i was hurt and i that i wanted you to see that i needed your help. Buy i don't want to make you feel bad anymore for not knowing how to be there for me. i've had that from many people and i shouldn't depend on anyone other than myself to get help. i appreciate your effort but i want to stay to myself. i can't focus on how i feel if i have to focus on how i'm making you sad. i don't want you to feel what I'm feeling and it's better to let go now than for you to watch me feel sad again. i feel like in the past you were so happy to give me space i begged you not to give me, Now i do need space and i don't want to feel bad for any of it.
Once Massimo recived that text message from her he replied to her right away with "listen Luara i know it looks and seems complicated for us but i have nobody but me and my family even my close friends they don't know anything about us because this is my personal life and yet this relationship still something personal that's why i don't more like never go outside and talk about my relationship or about my breakup i always keep these kind of stuff and things private, because Laura you were the one and only person i always want and needed for, i was even ready to get rid of everyone and keep choosing you over and over again no matter what i've never see or saw something wrong in you or with you because like i said when we first met i do want you as you are, i accept you as you are with all your issues and everything even if you had a bad and terrible past, ill still going to be by your side and support you, you are my first priority, i can't stand in your way because you know what's best for you after all you made decisions already and made your mind, and all i can do is to accept the fact about all this and what happen, and it also better for both of us, i even want to keep in touch with you, but i know that people who been or broke up they can't be friends anymore so like i can't assume what's going to happen next or in the future but to wish for both of us the best of luck and to continue our path."
after Laura birth day came Massimo sent a text message to her saying "wishing her a happy birth day and that he wish her more life and to enjoy her day with her family." Laura saw the text message and she didn't see that coming she thought that he will forget about her completely but no Massimo never forgot her because he still have feelings for her in his heart, after she saw and red the text message she replied him with" a hug emote and thanking him for saying that."
Massimo here felt more like he notice that she still want him back but they both don't know how to get back to each other until something happen that Massimo wasn't ready for, after a month of Laura birth day, she got sick very bad more like she was barely can talk she lost her voice, but something unexcepted happen more like a miracle just happen. to Massimo he didn't see that coming.