I'm the friendship person, I have alot of friends both fake and real and one thing I realized is that whatever spot you choose to have is what I'll address you with, if it is bestie, paddy, buddy and all that, I don't mind you having that but majority of my friends are guys and I don't know why.
At some point, this male friends of mine became so possessive of me that they don't want to hear me say I have a boyfriend,I actually saw them as witches and wizards though because I feel like they're stopping me from embracing the love I've always wanted apart from the ones my family gives me. I actually wouldn't deny the fact that they loved me but I needed love from my man too, I don't know but I just needed a romantic love and I'm definitely not doing that with my friends not even with any bestie though I heard most people have sum besties to be external sex mate and all that but that's definitely not for me and besides every bestie I had was base on that's the spot the needed, I never saw a love future with them not withstanding that I said that whoever I marry must be my bestie first but the besties I had were off limit. that's funny I know but that's just the truth.
one of my turn off is just seeing me and telling me you love me, do that and I see you as a joke, even if you say you see a future with me, I believe for me to really have a successful future with a man, he has to start from been my friend, to been a tight friend more like best friend who I can open up to then boyfriend then fiance then my husband. it's so funny how I thought that can ever be possible but like I said earlier I have faith and I'm filled with hopes.