CHAPTER 1
JOURNEY
"As you Go , You Grow. " Coach Dare Yemi
This Life is worth Living, But Challenges & Obstacles are in every Nooks & crannies out there (The World).
Everyone on earth wish to live a happy, comfortable, Sustainable , Reliable Life & want to Enjoy it to the Fullest I mean to their Taste.
It is a Pity that while a particular Journey takes Some People a Little time to get to their Destination Likewise It takes Some People SEVERAL Days , Weeks, Months & Years to get to their Destination . That is If The Journey Has Mixed with a BURNING DESIRE.
Some People have Killed a soul like "theirs" like a goat because they wanted to get to their destination very Fast & quick , They wanted to do that stuff As soon as possible, Achieve & get Result over night.
Journey on this Earth has a Pattern and you have to Subscribe to that Pattern , Deep yourself inside . Once you do these the Journey of SUCCESS will be more easier for you. The PATTERN becomes you . You also becomes the Pattern .
A Particular QUOTE from a Prolific writer named NAPOLEON HILL says ; "Thoughts are Things . You Become What you THINK''. Once you SUSCRIBED to this Pattern , You think About it , When you Think about it , Think About it Consistently , Apply it PERSISTENTLY. It Becomes your THOUGHT.
In one of the Chapter , I Will Reveal the Pattern & How to Subscribe to
the Pattern.
Some folks had left What should have been a Financial Breakthrough for them Because they haven‟t Subscribe & been BAPTIZED by the Pattern of Success . I Recall the Story of a Man from a Particular book I read some months Ago. This book is a Life changer , Mindset Engineering book.
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THE STORY OF ONE UNCLE R.U DARBY
An Uncle of R.U Darby was Caught up by the " GOLD FEVER" In the gold rush days , and went west to DIG AND GROW RICH . The going was Hard , But his Lust for Gold was definite. After weeks of Labor, He Gave up because he was tired , His Expectations was to Find the Gold Faster, He dig so fast , He worked hard , But later Gave up. He thinks all his effort didn‟t yield any Result.
This brief Story was removed from a Popular Book Named "Think & Grow Rich" Napoleon Hill.
You see in this life, Your love for Success must not be Indefinite , You must have the Clarity of what you want , COACH DARE YEMI said ; "The Clearer The Problem , The Clearer the solution ". You must SUSCRIBE to the Pattern ; Can you Repeat that the first , the Statement is Worth repeating the Second , Third , Fourth & Fifth . You Must Subscribe to the Pattern. Even If your Love for Success is Definite, You have to be Wise & Tactical About it.
Scaling your Journey with other Person‟s Journey is a very bad Idea . I‟ll talk about How to Stop Scaling & Weighing your Result with others People Result . COACH DARE YEMI said „‟Thinking About your Problem , is a bigger Problem " . Don‟t think About other People , Where they are, What they‟ve Achieved , How much they worth , Once you Start thinking of these, Your Problem Start to get wide & Wider till you Exhaust your Subscription to the pattern of Success.
Subscribe to the Pattern and see What Views you going to see . The Main Problem is..... WAIT..... Let me call it „‟RECIPES ‟‟ Bad recipes I mean, recipes that boost people Low Self –Esteem is That ; Some People‟s Thinking is Narrow not Wide, They Only Limit & talk shabbily because they see someone who is ahead of them in terms of Money , affluence , post & all others stuff. How possible on Earth will one „‟HOMO – SAPIEN „‟ sees another Homo sapien with Neat shiny New Model Lamborghini ,
Mercedes Benz New Evolution ; Boom!!!! Tagging them with Different Names i.e
Ritualist , Kidnappers , Fraudsters, Greedy , Stingy & all other Bad Names that Defame.
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Narrow Mind / Narrow Thinking can only help you in one way. You will not Move From Where you are Standing Likewise you will not Grow . Remember „‟ As you Go, You Grow „‟. Without Going No Growing.
For you to Grow , You have to Go. While Going , Focus on the Eiffel Tower of yours and I bet with you , You will Thank yourself without Regret . let me give you a Brief report I made from a Particular Celebrity , Motivational Speaker .
This guy is now a Professional lawyer, a Competent one. He ventured In Motives Talks by recording motivational Videos . I watched a particular Video of Him on determination . . It goes like this ....
"One day , everything is gonna Make sense , I mean everything about you , Is gonna make sense. Your Wrestle , your Bustle , will turn to a Big Castle and your Story Gonna be like Paul you don't have to be An Apostle"
The guy named #Dimmykiss knew this life is a process & You have to subscribe to that pattern. Accept the fact that this life is a Process.
When the Lord Brought out Israelites from Egyptians Captives, They were glad But what I want you to learn & Implement in this hacks is this ; The Lord Instructed Moses to go to King Pharaoh which He Actually did, He got a Vision of Leading Israelites Out of Egypt & God Gave him a lot of Instructions that backed up the Vision.
Moses had a Clarity of what He was Doing , Though He was afraid the first Moment he got the Vision. But the fears in him disappeared when the Lord of Host shows him the Clarity of the Journey.
Listen, Before Starting Anything in this Life , Have a good Clarity of what you want to do, Steps & Where you are heading to. If this pattern is Squarely Follow to the Letter, I bet with you .The LOW SELF ESTEEM , Competing Mind, „‟ SWR‟‟ , Envying others People‟s result , Hatred for others People Progress will definitely find its way out of your Mind & you are going to be Free.
Less I forgot, Can you go back to that STATEMENT (Dimmykiss‟s Own) and Repeat to yourself. The First Time , Second & Third time.
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Wait ........ Do you know Listening to Motivational Audios , Watching Inspirational Video, Reading Motivational Books Just like This you are Busy Reading. "Motivation without a Motives" is Nothing.
"One of the Blatant Statements I‟ve heard is What will be Will be That‟s a big lie my dear ! if you don‟t do Something, they will not remain the same but will even get so bad and become worse" .
Coach Dare Yemi
Anytime, Any day, Moment you come across something like this "He go pepper you" I mean you feel the energy but it is Unfortunate your Motives & Action are gone within a maximum of THREE DAYS. Listen & Implement . I actually learn this From COACH DARE YEMI . He takes Implementation Serious "likeeeeee"........
I Joined W.M.S (Whatsapp Marketing Secret) Paid Class with one "AWUF" money I was gifted. The Motives I used in Joining W.M.S 2.0 was that ; After the Class I will be Rich, I mean if not Rich ,I will be financially Stable a Little as a Student.
I Studied Part of the Audio Courses, voice Note & E- books Sent by COACH DARE YEMI. Although I was attending the Class but Immediately I left for W.M.S like this "ehnnnn"... I will not Implement anything . The Only thing I used to do is either I chat with One of my Female Friend, gist , abuse & Do other Stuff . Airtel will start to Gulp my Data like Someone Who has been Thirsty for 40yrs ago.
The Point I want to derived from this, is that After Reading all my Epistles, Write –up, Quotes & all other stuff inside this E-book. You must Implement it. A motivation without a Motives/ Action is ZERO.
So Champs...... IMPLEMENT
Before you go... I said I learnt One Hacks from Egyptians & Israelites (Pharaoh & MOSES).
Let me Unveil the Hacks that I Learnt From king Pharaoh. Although King Pharaoh was a Stubborn King but I still manage to learn something from him.
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"DESIRE"
Despite the First , Second , Third , Fourth, Fifth to the Sixth PLAGUES. King Pharaoh Still Stand on his Decision, Determination that He won‟t allow the Israelites to go and Serve the Lord .
If not the Lord of Host who is merciful in all ways that later Deliver Israelites from the Captives of King Pharaoh . who knows what would have happen to them. See, anything you are doing / You are into it already , If not Mixed with a BURNING DESIRE you go Nowhere.
Robert Kiyosaki said "A CLOSED MOUTH is a CLOSED DESTINY" . Voice out, Reach out to People who can Help you in Attaining your goals. Don‟t stay at one point looking another fellow moving ahead of you. CHAMPS... "Your life Matters" doing this then you can CURE that DEADLY DISEASES called LOW SELF – ESTEEM.
I so much love this quote about "WOLF‟‟. "WALK with the WOLF & You gonna learn how to HOWL". You can never see a wolf in the Jungle walking alone . If a Wolf tries to walk Alone he will definitely be a Food for the Hunter/Prey to other carnivore Animal in the Jungle.
"Mingle with the giants''. I learnt something about HUMAN BEING. There are different type of People in this Planet(Earth) . i.e. Our environment , Our working place, schools, Church, Mosque & everywhere.
Some are Dream killers, They kill your dreams with bad advices , some will Strangle your aim with their facial expression , Some will Stand as an obstacles, Some will hate you without Reasons & Some will love you without Reasons, Help your Dream, support you with Advice , Money & Other Material Stuff.
You can choose the people you want to Mingle with , Those who you wish to stay & Be part of your dream.
IT IS A CHOICE................