What will you do in the name of love? What extremes are you willing to take to make your love one happy? Will you be loyal or obedient? Are you flexible enough for them? Or will you be hurt by their unacceptance of you?... After all for someone to love you means that have a use for you... And once that use is gone then their love will also disappear.
Oh when people love, it can be the worst thing ever... Yet people still hold it up as a pariah against the dark. Perhaps we can't face the truth, or perhaps we want an escape from it.
Love, with enough time can ruin. We all love and lose, and sometimes we lose too much so why do we keep loving? For the temporary joy? Or is it just in our nature? Sometimes we think that we have sinned too much for anyone to love us... But there will be somebody that will accept us, until they don't. But you never know when so your just waiting for the shoe to drop while you take and take and take their love until there is no more for them to give... That's when you lose them, your the problem. Sometimes that's what you think is going to happen so you push them away and reject their affection never able to feel love because of the fear of harm from others. Or other times you just don't know how... Your heart has been chipped and cracked, broken into shards, and love may help but you have never felt love so you feel repulsed by it, question it's existence, spiraling you into a hole in which you ignore all the things that may heal your heart. Love is a part of life, and life is a fickle thing... In the end all I'm telling you is to enjoy what you can before it disappears.
To treasure family is to treasure love, but love can hurt can't it? So why treasure family, because it makes you fell safe and protected? But family can also hurt and make you do things you don't want to, just because your "family". Tell me, do family hurt each other? Do family ignore you when your hurt? Do family expect something from you when all they have been is controlling? I suppose that is why some people say that family is who you choose not who you share blood with.