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Chapter 41 - be in reality change your thoughts and habits

๐šƒ๐š‘๐šŽ ๐š™๐š•๐šŠ๐šŒ๐šŽ ๐š ๐š‘๐šŽ๐š›๐šŽ ๐šœ๐šŽ๐š•๐š ๐š๐šŠ๐š”๐šŽ๐šœ ๐š๐šŽ๐š•๐š’๐š๐š‘๐š ๐š๐š‘๐šŽ ๐š™๐š•๐šŠ๐šŒ๐šŽ ๐š ๐š‘๐šŽ๐š›๐šŽ ๐šœ๐šŽ๐š•๐š ๐šŠ๐š๐šŠ๐š™๐š๐šœ ๐šŸ๐š›๐š˜๐š•๐šŽ๐šœ

๐™ผ๐š’๐š—๐š ๐š’๐šœ ๐šŠ ๐š“๐šŠ๐š› ๐š๐š‘๐šŠ๐š ๐š’๐šœ ๐š™๐šŽ๐š›๐šŒ๐šŽ๐š’๐šŸ๐šŽ๐š ๐š๐š‘๐š›๐š˜๐šž๐š๐š‘ ๐š๐š‘๐šŽ ๐Ÿ‘“๐šŽ๐šข๐šŽ

๐šƒ๐š‘๐šŽ ๐š’๐š–๐šŠ๐š๐šŽ๐šœ ๐šŠ๐š›๐šŽ ๐š‹๐šŽ๐š’๐š—๐š ๐š‹๐šž๐š’๐š•๐š ๐šž๐š™ ๐š๐šž๐š›๐š’๐š—๐š ๐š’๐š–๐š™๐š›๐šŽ๐šœ๐šœ๐š’๐š˜๐š˜๐š—๐šœ

๐™ด๐š๐š˜ ๐Ÿ”›๐Ÿ”บ๐š ๐š‘๐š’๐šŒ๐š‘ ๐š’๐šœ ๐šŒ๐šŠ๐š•๐š•๐šŽ๐š ๐š๐š‘๐šŽ ๐š™๐š›๐š˜๐š๐šž๐šŒ๐š๐ŸŽ†๐Ÿ†™ ๐š˜๐š ๐š–๐š’๐š—๐š ๐Ÿ˜ ๐š’๐š ๐š–๐šŠ๐š”๐šŽ๐šœ ๐š๐š‘๐šŽ ๐š™๐š›๐š’๐š—๐šŒ๐š’๐š™๐š•๐šŽ๐šœ ๐š—๐š ๐š™๐š˜๐š ๐šŽ๐š› ๐š˜๐š ๐šœ๐šŽ๐š•๐š ๐šŠ๐š™๐š™๐š›๐š˜๐š™๐š›๐šŠ๐š๐š’๐š˜๐š— ๐šŠ๐š—๐š ๐šœ๐š˜ ๐š‹๐šž๐š’๐š•๐š ๐šž๐š™ ๐š™๐šŽ๐š›๐šŒ๐šŽ๐š™๐š๐š’๐š˜๐š—๐šœ ๐š‹๐šข ๐š’๐š๐šœ๐šŽ๐š•๐š

๐™ธ๐š ๐š‹๐šž๐š’๐š•๐š ๐šž๐š™ ๐šŒ๐š˜๐š—๐šŒ๐šŽ๐š™๐š๐šœ ๐šŒ๐šŠ๐š•๐š•๐šŽ๐š ๐š’๐š•๐š•๐šž๐šœ๐š’๐š˜๐š—

The real way of being

First awakening to the experience of the impressions of the thoughts๐Ÿค”๐Ÿ’ญ he is residing in the world of the mind

๐š‚๐šŽ๐š•๐šย 

๐š๐šŽ๐šŠReality of๐Ÿ˜๐ŸŽฌ๐Ÿ˜ self

Individual being has been transformed into the nature ๐ŸŒฟ๐Ÿƒ of the mind which is essentially saturated with the sensual pleasures

Pure state of thoughtย 

Active state of thoughtย 

Dull state of thought

Limited knowledge is the cause of bondage

Illusion can be eliminated by removed by faint impressions when illusion is conquered pure knowledge is achieved

๐˜ž๐˜ฉ๐˜ข๐˜ต ๐˜ธ๐˜ช๐˜ญ๐˜ญ ๐˜ฃ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ช๐˜ฏ ๐˜บ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ๐˜ณ ๐˜ญ๐˜ช๐˜ง๐˜ฆ ๐˜ธ๐˜ช๐˜ญ๐˜ญ ๐˜ฃ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ๐˜ท๐˜ฆ๐˜ข๐˜ญ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฅ ๐˜ฃ๐˜บ ๐˜ช๐˜ต๐˜ด๐˜ฆ๐˜ญ๐˜ง

๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ช๐˜ด ๐˜ข๐˜ญ๐˜ญ๐˜ฐ๐˜ธ๐˜ฆ๐˜ด ๐˜บ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ ๐˜ถ๐˜ฏ๐˜ช๐˜ฒ๐˜ถ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ฑ๐˜ฆ๐˜ณ๐˜ด๐˜ฐ๐˜ฏ๐˜ข๐˜ญ๐˜ช๐˜ต๐˜บ for the purpose of contributing two waway voluntary exchange based on individual expression and encourage unique contributions

These unique qualities gives the personal responsibility purpose, creativity,hope a unique stand alone personalityย 

These qualities are expressed through free will. These qualities are expressed through free will.

You should have independent personality, Identity๐Ÿ†” and free will have diversity

Without free will one would never have

What if the same thing comes over and over? ๐Ÿน

Write it down over and over, when something arises write โœ๏ธ it down,Some powerful transformative insights arises

When you are done for the exerciseโ›น to save for tomorrow, deep desire of the mind to find the answer, and the whole practice is to attain the connection to the โค๐Ÿ’•๐Ÿ’–heart

The energy of receptivity, emotional availability, able to nurture and nourish, to birth new possibilities, all the forms they appear and disappear for the time duration

Listen for what calls to your heart

Listen for what brings life to your soul

Listen beneath the silence ๐Ÿคซ the desires of your mind,ย 

As soon as you wake up....ย 

Your daily routine, you would notice that waking in fact, conscious of being in present

Long term rewardsย 

Short term rewards

Habits/ addictions

The rewards are nothing but a chuckle here and there, it comes so ๐Ÿšดไธ‰ fast , and so easy we keep scrolling

We must record everything that arises, even if on first insight, everything arises in the โ›น practice will be used and by pre editing out things and don't seem to belong

Listening๐Ÿ‘‚ isย the โ›น ingredient key ๐Ÿ”‘ in the exerciseโ›น

The right time is when you are ready to identify the witness

The change in your surroundings nourish all the things of your existence the real training to develop all your capacities to understand the path to the glory

Diving ๐Ÿคฟ deep into the โ›น game of living life your senses will be your supreme guide you develop the I understand the things at core

Listening๐Ÿ‘‚:Be able to restate someone's point

Awareness: how your actions are perceived

Diplomacy:mutual respect

Appreciate:Recognise great work and say thank you often

Change your approach when circumstances change

Ask how you can do better

Emotional awareness: pay attention to other peoples ๐Ÿ‘„๐Ÿ’ฌlanguage, emotions, mood

Whatever your areย procrastinating about the very first activity that you tackle first thing in the ๐ŸŒžmorning

FINISH

F-=Focus on the priority task

I-=ignore Interptions

N=now is the time ๐Ÿ•‘โŒš

I= innovate

S=stay on the course

H=hail finishing the task

Speak little, learn the words of eternity go beyond thoughts find the paradise

Light of consciousness and awareness havingย fixed in one mind inwardly seated with eyes closed detached from the external world and completely introverted gradually with the stability of the mind go to the root cause of ๐ŸŽฌ๐Ÿ˜๐ŸŒŠ everything

๐ŸŽ†๐ŸŽ†Times have changed technology is playing aย big part in this there is an emergence of strong individuality, and a perfect life

๐ŸŒŒPain endurance is a wonderful quality, when we use it for the highestโฌ†โฌ†โฌ† good of all

To be free is authentic

Let go of our inhibitions andย feat of judgementsย 

โœ…practice healthy self talk and embrace situations the inner peace helped me to expand and elevate my perspective about myself

โœ…I still practice boundaries that helped me to connect to vibration and peaceย 

โœ…I am outspoken now I speak fearlessly and confidently I speak from my heart

โœ…I confronted every ๐Ÿ˜จ๐Ÿ˜ฑ fearย loss that showed up in my life

๐ŸŒธI never got trapped with a victim attitude

The forces of senses are very strong๐Ÿ’ช

What we drawn to now is showing the path to

Abundance, representing our vision the knowledge of selfย 

Take the rightful throne how we process or decode it, how we express it with clarity and honesty by not allowing any mind ๐ŸŽฎgames which is driven for higher purpose, we directly go to the key that ๐Ÿ”“unlockย the ๐Ÿšชdoor's surrender to the unfolding path

We are deeply connected to the language of the body and โคheart a stable wise mind can process information very quickly, our mind needs the foundation of Stability, you need to invest in ๐Ÿ’ญ๐Ÿ’ฌ๐Ÿ—ฏ self introspection

There is a pain and trauma trapped in our body generated by the emotional experiences, cut โœ‚ down the distractions, ask questions ๐Ÿ™‹ what makes us truly joyful

We need to support ourselves By being gwith the right company that helps us to invite more ๐Ÿ’กlight

The person who fights for people who believe him in all his odds

Don'tย cluster negative โŽ emotions together emotions are just temporary feelings take time to understand your emotions

Don't make bid decisions when you are feeling angry๐Ÿ˜ค

When you feel trapped question your negative thoughts๐Ÿค”๐Ÿ’ญ ask yourself whether your fears ๐Ÿ˜จ are realistic or not

The good balance sheet of life

8 hours of honest work โœ๏ธ

8 hours of sleeping๐Ÿ’ค๐Ÿ˜ด

Master the time management

๐Ÿ†˜Urgentย 

Emergencies Emergencies

Deadlinesย 

Immediate problems

Skill development

Health and wellness

How to master time

Doย what you love, no one cares until you are rich

Daily goal overview:

Remind your goals every morning

Mental tasking :

Before sleeping think of a problem don't try to solve it just released its to the subconscious mind to work on overnight

Consistent bedtime:

Stick to the regular ๐Ÿ’ค๐Ÿ•“bedtime

You compete to on competition isย your

1.bad habits

2 distractionsย 

3.insecurities

4.yourย fearย and ego

5.your lack of discipline

Try this routine if you want to change...ย 

Sharpen your mind-daily ๐Ÿšถ๐Ÿ‘ฃwalk

Take a break -spent time ๐Ÿ•‘ outsideย or

Write โœ๏ธ in a journal for 5 minutes

Writing your dreams in detail

Engage both your consciousness and subconscious minds

Dump your thoughts into journal to gain clarity

Stop the endless scroll of your mobile

To improve sleep quality

Cut off caffeine before bed

Get away from screens 2 hours before bedย 

SStop working 2 hours before bed

ย Plan for tomorrow

A productive day starts a night before

Turn of airplane off on your ๐Ÿ“ฑ

If you spend 1-2 hours each morning you could read 50 books per year

Live by your code

Make eye contact

Learn new skills

CreatCreate better network

Being quite is a strength๐Ÿ’ช embrace the ๐Ÿ’ชโšกpower of observation and thought analysis and deep listening, you have a unique perspective to offer

Intrroverts s inย ๐ŸŽฌaction๐Ÿ’ญ๐Ÿ’ฌ๐Ÿ—ฏ

They can be amazing communicators

Be aย good listener

Listen carefully and value their thoughts

Ask them and encourage more

Positive energy nourishes your body and helps me radiate joy to others

Every challenge is a opportunity is to grow and improve

All my words Nd thoughts and actions are equally guided and protected

Forย the next 6 months

Becomeย addicted to these 9 habits

Waking up early

Writting down your thoughts before bed

Learn online skills 30 minutes a day

Sit in silence 10 minutes a day

Read 10 pages a day

Review your goals

Create a proper sleepsleep

Commitment to excellence you should consistently deliverย high quality work

Dedicate your time to friends and ๐Ÿ‘ชfamily in weekend๐Ÿ•๐Ÿ ๐ŸŽ‰

Everytime say no to instant rewards, you train ๐Ÿš‚๐Ÿš‹๐Ÿšƒ๐Ÿš‹๐Ÿšƒ๐Ÿš‹๐Ÿšƒ your brain

Pick a small ๐Ÿค habit of waitingย 10 minutes before you eat, build upto bigger challnges like resistance and distractions when ๐Ÿ‘จโ€๐Ÿ’ปworking

Maintain soft eye contact๐Ÿ“ž, it shows thatย you are engaged with communication

People love โค hearing their own name use it when you meet them and when you are saying goodbye๐Ÿ‘‹

Use we language๐Ÿ‘„๐Ÿ’ฌ

Shift from " you " And me to we,this small change fostersย a sense of partnership and unity

AAfter someone finishes speaking๐Ÿ—ฃ, wait 2-3 seconds beforeย respondingย this gives the other person a sense of being fully heardย 

Everyone is passionate about something when you show your genuine interest๐Ÿ˜œ in what matters to them