It has been two days since the lunch date l had with Bless and Matthew and l have yet to speak to either of them. I am not angry with Bless or anything of the sort and l feel guilty that l haven't made any effort to call her and talk to her because she is going through a lot
Now that l have had time to cool down, l realise how childish l might have acted that day but my feelings are also valid. I had every right to be angry at him but l could have handles the situation differently
Less dramatics and more listening. He has tried to get in contact with me but l keep sending his calls straight to voicemail. I don't know if l can trust anything he has to say
It could be a really reasonable excuse. If l had been in the situation l might have done worse compared to what he did. But that doesn't mean his actions were any less hurtful
