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Chapter 4 - Bullying

Bullying.

It comes to a point where we all get bullied. Whether it was with mean full words or physical bullying. Bullying is the cruelest thing that anyone can ever do to someone.

If that shitty bully just realizes how they sometimes can end being called a murder. The process is just this simple when the bullying gets just over limits.

You get bullied.

You feel depressed.

Depression leads to suicide.

So I just want to ask each bully, are you a criminal?

Just so everyone knows, blowing someone's candle doesn't make yours shine any brighter.

Bullying can be because of physical appearance or social status. The heavy bullying can absolutely cause a constant fear in the heart of who's been bullied.

People bully each other because of imperfections the other side might have.

Everyone, that is exactly why self-esteem is just so important. If you learned how to love yourself nobody can make you hate it.

Is it hard just to try tasting your words before spitting them out?

Do you know when it breaks the heart the most? When you get hurt so much that you can finally say "I Am used to."

It's such a cruel thing.

You never look good trying to make anyone looks bad. We never chose how we were born, how we were made, how we are meant to be.

Our values is not determined by others.

It's our duty to fight, stand up to ourselves, to stop allowing anyone to make us feel lower than them. Because we aren't.

We just need to realize it. "Nobody can bring you down unless you let them." That was my words in this book introduction.

Am determined, am unbroken, am insistent because I have something to prove. And that thing is no other than myself.

I admit I was bullied.

But that's okay.

Because in the end, I learned how to stand up. I just stopped each every bully on their limits. Treat people the way they treat you. If you're hitting me once then I'll get it back on you ten times harder.

I was never so strong, I admit. I was kind and it wasn't right with bullies or cruel and rude people.

Dignity is the number one priority.

Now, I know how to defend myself and stand up for it. Even though, I'm still learning how to keep my bullies shitty words behind me.

In these days am facing that type of friend that always try to prove themselves right. That person just tries to make me feel less than them. That they are much perfect than me. Do you know what I do?

I show them that am not.

In every opportunity, I just show the person that you are the one down here. Because you're trying to pull me down and do you know what does that means?

You're already down.

Though, still, it might hurt somewhere there. And that's okay. We have hearts after all. It's okay feeling down.

You get bullied.

You go home.

You cry your heart out.

And then you go to school the next day and feel fear in every inch of your heart.

Why? Don't you hate it?

Fearing somebody?

So get up. Stand up for yourselves and go punch them in the face in the exact way they do even if it means getting detention. Believe me, it's absolutely worth it.

However, life is a long journey and we can never stop learning from it. Bullying is one of the life obstacles and we have to learn how to over go it.

"If people throw stones at you, then pick them up and build something."

-LuLu-ARMY- ♡