Sun Li did not expect to be so frugal. In exchange, his family became even worse.
But what could she do now? A woman with a child. In the past, she was tortured by her mother-in-law in her hometown.
It was not easy to enter the city, but the family finances were still under her mother-in-law's control.
Lin Lei frowned, "you are condoning him in this way! Why don't you tell the family how much money is spent on food, Rice, oil, and salt.
How would he know your suffering? He is very obedient to his mother, and you are still covering up your mistakes."
It could only be said that the husband and wife were willing to fight and suffer.
Sun Li said with tears, "sometimes, I also wanted to quarrel with him, but when I thought about how he resisted his mother for his own sake and got me to join the army, I endured it one by one. "
Every time she was slightly dissatisfied, he would say how he would quarrel with her mother for her sake, and his heart would soften... ...
Lin Lei's eyes flashed, and she said in surprise, "this is their mother-son routine! Isn't it natural for you to go to the city to live with him? He keeps mentioning it to make your heart soften, which is why he makes you step back step by step. "
This was a clear understanding of Sun Li's personality. This mother-in-law was really amazing.
As expected, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law were natural enemies. It was the same no matter which era they were in.
Sun Li was stunned. It seemed that this was indeed the case. She already had no idea in her heart. "Then sister, what do you think I should do? "
She had always heard him say that he was quarreling with his mother-in-law, but she had never seen it with her own eyes!
Her words woke her up from her dream. When she thought of being schemed against step by step by her mother-in-law, her heart was filled with hatred. How could she be so stupid?
Lin Lei coughed and said clearly, "if you still want to continue living! First, talk openly with him about the financial situation. If you keep hiding it, he'll think that the family is living well!
Second, prepare a ledger and keep it daily until the end of the month.
Third, find a job and become financially independent.
Last but not least, if he hasn't changed and instead thinks more about the money you earn, then you have to think about it."
Lin Lei was using the modern mother-in-law and daughter-in-law routine.
Lin Lei estimated that Sun Li's family situation would be difficult to change It was better to let her find a job and stabilize her emotions first!
A woman could only be financially independent. In the face of marriage, she would not be a passive party.
Sun Li was silent for a long while after hearing this. She opened her eyes again. "En, I'll remember it! For the sake of the child, I won't be weak anymore. "
She did not expect sister Lin to have so many views on marriage at such a young age.
For the sake of the child, she had to give it a try. She also hoped that Wang Zhuangzhi could change!
Lin Lei noticed that when she spoke, there was a new look in her eyes. She stood up and said, "wipe the ointment on this table once a day. There's still a lot of porridge in the pot! If there's anything, send the child to my house to knock on the door and call me! "
There was nothing much to do in the space. She could just rest at home today and wait for Song Yi to come back.
"En! I got it, sister. It's a good thing that you came today. Otherwise, I wouldn't know when I would be lying down. Dabao will send Auntie off. "
Dabao stood up obediently and walked Lin Lei to the door.
Then, he returned obediently and continued to accompany his mother.
Sun Li said to her son, "YOU HAVE TO REMEMBER! Auntie Lin's good today. "
Dabao nodded obediently.
Lin Lei returned to the house. The House had not been inhabited for the past few days, and the house was a little dusty. After tidying up briefly, she lay on the bed and read a book.