"Then..." Gu Xiaofan wanted to ask, but was afraid that he would become cannon fodder if he was not careful.
"Since such an embarrassing topic has been put on the table, you can just ask all the questions you want to ask in one go, so as not to be more uncomfortable with a blunt knife cutting the flesh." Xu Ruobei saw that the question that Gu Xiaofan did not ask might make her feel uncomfortable.
"What I want to ask is, if you are willing to accept the child born by another woman to Ren Xuefeng, don't you worry that the child's biological mother will want to take advantage of her status as a mother and want to take over?" After hearing what she said, Gu Xiaofan simply bit the bullet and said her doubts. Anyway, for her, no matter how she thought about it, she felt that she could not accept that her future husband had an unusual relationship with another woman, let alone accept the child born by someone else.
"You think too much. That kind of thing is not something I should worry about. You may not agree with me. Some things can only make you feel them after you have experienced them. Otherwise, everything you say is just empty talk. When a man is out there, what he does or doesn't do has nothing to do with you letting him do it or not, allowing him or not, caring about him or not. It just depends on whether he wants to do it or not," Xu Ruobei laughed at herself. "Otherwise, do you think I would allow it or not mind Xuefeng's romantic debts out there? I heard some things about him when he was alive, and then when he got into trouble, some people took advantage of the situation and added insult to injury. They were eager to tell me what they knew about Xuefeng's affairs out there. I've heard enough recently. Some of them I knew before. Some I only found out recently. If I can make the decision. I will never allow my man to have affairs outside. I guess no woman would allow that. But he is a living person. I can't monitor him and control him 24 hours a day. I can only turn a blind eye and endure it. I will endure it as much as I can. If I can't stand it anymore, I will choose to leave. Or if Xuefeng turns his face and kicks me away and finds a younger and prettier one, it is not impossible. I have seen a lot of such things. His business friends are all very busy outside!"Xu Ruobei's words were a bit negative and pessimistic. Gu Xiaofan didn't know whether it was because she had just lost her father recently and faced a lot of problems, so she was inevitably a little depressed and discouraged, or because of the people she had come into contact with. That circle really made women so desperate and helpless.Xu Ruobei sighed. Then she said, "So I can't control Xuefeng's affairs outside. If I make a big fuss, he will hide deeper or get angry. It won't be good for me. I have no other choice. The best way is to acquiesce in his affairs outside, as long as he is not serious. I can turn a blind eye to it as long as he doesn't have any thoughts other than playing around. I have seen other bosses whose wives don't ask about their affairs outside at home. They are still replaced because they are old, not pretty enough, or don't have the means of women outside! Fortunately, Xuefeng is worthy of me and never gets into trouble. When he told me about the child, he seemed to have made up his mind. Unless I am stupid enough to not see his expression, I have no other choice but to accept it. What's more, my personal situation is there. I talked to Xuefeng and he promised that it would not affect our relationship and life as a couple. So I can only choose to believe it.""What are your plans for the next step?" After listening to her, Zhong Han was silent for a while before asking."What's the next plan..." Xu Ruobei pondered for a moment, "I don't know what the child's mother thinks. Even if Xuefeng dies, his flesh and blood are still his flesh and blood. I promised him in the past that I would accept and take care of his child. As long as the woman who gave birth to the child doesn't make trouble, I don't mind taking the child to my side to raise him and give him the best living environment. Apart from anything else, I can still do this. Moreover, as Xuefeng's legal wife, it is reasonable for me to raise the child left by Xuefeng.""Don't you think it's more appropriate for the child to live with his biological mother?" Gu Xiaofan thought of the trembling Chai Wenjun, and couldn't help but worry that Xu Ruobei would really do as Chai Wenjun worried. In order to better occupy the property, Xu Ruobei might want to use Haohao as her shield."I admit that it's better for the child to be with his own mother, so I just said that if the woman outside has reasons, I don't mind accepting the child, but if she wants to live with the child by herself, I won't force it. We are all women, why should women make things difficult for women! No one should make things difficult for each other, so that everyone can live a better life. It's not easy for me either, and the child is innocent. In the final analysis, it was left by my husband. If there are difficulties in the future, I am willing to provide some financial help within my ability." Xu Ruobei was very easy-going after hearing what Gu Xiaofan said."Put aside the question about the child for now, what are your personal plans for the future?" Zhong Han said that what he just asked was not the issue of the whereabouts of Ren Xuefeng's child.Speaking of herself, Xu Ruobei was silent, and then sighed heavily after a while: "I don't know. I have been thinking about what I should do in the future these days, but I have no answer in my heart. I worked with Xuefeng at the beginning, and then married him, and managed the company and factory with him. Although I am not unfamiliar with those things, we have always worked together in the past, and Xuefeng took the lead and I assisted him. Now the leader is gone, leaving me alone... I am also a little at a loss, and I don't know what to do next."After chatting for a while, Zhong Han and Gu Xiaofan got up and prepared to say goodbye. Li Hua finally ended the "avoiding suspicion time" and came out of the bedroom to accompany Xu Ruobei to see off the guests. Before leaving, Zhong Han asked Xu Ruobei where the single-family house she was going to move to was. Xu Ruobei did not answer, but only emphasized that she must contact by phone if she needs to meet in the future. Zhong Han did not ask too much, and left Xu Ruobei's house with Gu Xiaofan."Leng Hui, Xu Ruobei, Dai Mei, and now Chai Wenjun, there are four of them. They are all women we know because of their special relationship. We don't know how many of them are so-called "playing around" and how many romantic debts Ren Xuefeng has. Think about how pitiful Xu Ruobei is in these years. She watched her husband have affairs outside and couldn't protest." Gu Xiaofan felt that Xu Ruobei's life was not as glamorous as it seemed. How much bitterness and bitterness there was behind it, I'm afraid only she herself knew."There is no free lunch in the world. If you want to get any benefit, you must pay a corresponding price." Zhong Han did not have as many feelings as Gu Xiaofan. "She made the choice herself. Just like she ruined her body for an unworthy man before, it was an irrational decision, and she had to bear the consequences in the end. Having said that, among the women known so far, Xu Ruobei is definitely not the one who suffered the most, so even if she regrets it, it is not her turn for the time being.""Leng Hui got a large sum of property from Ren Xuefeng when she divorced, and she was the beneficiary of Ren Xuefeng's accident insurance, so Ren Xuefeng's death did not have a big impact on her," Gu Xiaofan calculated, "Dai Mei has also received a lot of benefits from Ren Xuefeng over the years, and now she is preparing to get married with that man. The gigolo who lives on money is married. Let's not talk about whether he will regret it in the future. At least he is happy now. Xu Ruobei is not to be mentioned. As a spouse, most of the property must belong to her. The one who may suffer the most loss is Chai Wenjun. She used to get tens of thousands of yuan from Ren Xuefeng on average every month, and there was a promised compensation of 3 million yuan in the future. Now her living expenses and compensation are gone, but she doesn't care about those things in order to keep her son by her side, so it shouldn't be a loss. After all, Ren Xuefeng is dead, and it seems that none of the women who followed him have suffered much loss! ""Speaking of which, how is the situation with Leng Hui? Call Ren Yumeng to confirm, and if possible, we will go to see it. "Zhong Han said to Gu Xiaofan.Gu Xiaofan was a little worried: "Do you also want to ask her if she knows about Haohao? Leng Hui suddenly had a mental breakdown due to the stimulation before. If we ask her about the child, will it aggravate her blow?""It's hard to say, so I don't plan to ask her about this matter now. You should confirm Leng Hui's situation with Ren Yumeng first. If you can visit her, it may be too late today. Let's go there tomorrow to see her mental state first. If conditions permit, try to find out. In short, we will act flexibly at that time." Zhong Han said.Gu Xiaofan called Ren Yumeng as he said. Since Leng Hui suddenly went crazy, Zhong Han and Gu Xiaofan arrived in time. Although they could not provide any substantial help, it seemed to be a kind of spiritual comfort for Ren Yumeng, who was helpless. So since then, she has put away her thorns and has become more friendly to Gu Xiaofan and others.This time, Ren Yumeng seemed very happy to receive Gu Xiaofan's call. She told her on the phone that Leng Hui had been approved for discharge yesterday. In order to prevent her mother from being sad, she rented a well-decorated house during her mother's hospitalization. After her mother was discharged from the hospital yesterday, she took her mother to live in the temporary new home. Leng Hui was very calm in the new environment and did not make a fuss to go back to her old house. Until today, she has not lost control of her emotions.Hearing this, Gu Xiaofan was relieved and asked Ren Yumeng for the address of the new home and her opinion on whether they were allowed to visit Leng Hui. Ren Yumeng readily agreed.