"I admit that I don't have any experience. I simply think... Have you not been together for a short time? Do you not know each other well enough?" Gu Xiaofan continued to hint unwillingly.
Zhong Han has given her a disapproving look more than once, but she pretended not to see it. Wen Bin has been a gigolo for so many years, and he has always taken advantage of her and left. This time, he and Dai Mei prepared the wedding so hastily that it is hard to believe that this is the power of true love. Although Dai Mei's previous role was not glorious, she was a straightforward person after all. Gu Xiaofan didn't want to see her just get rid of the role of lover and planned to live a peaceful life with a man, but she was cheated of money by a man again.
"The depth of feelings does not depend on the length of time. I did give the best part of my youth to Ren Xuefeng, but did he give me an explanation? Forget it, he's dead, and I don't want to say anything to blame him. At least he treated me well." Dai Mei waved her hand, as if she wanted to drive away the unpleasant memories, and continued to show off her happiness to Gu Xiaofan, "You said that because you don't know my fiancé. Let me put it this way, he is the most considerate man I have ever seen. I don't know where so many romantic ideas come from in his mind. He always surprises me and buys me small gifts from time to time. Roses are commonplace. It was only after I was with him that I felt that I had lived in vain in the past years. Ren Xuefeng and others never gave me such a feeling." Of course, Wenbin's methods were honed from rich women. To please women is his signature skill for survival! Gu Xiaofan thought inwardly that she disagreed. If it wasn't inconvenient in front of Dai Mei, she would have rolled her eyes to express her contempt for men like Wen Bin."Isn't there a saying that women are men's study classes. The more study classes they attend, the more skills they learn..." Gu Xiaofan was a little stubborn and hoped to give Dai Mei, who couldn't understand what she meant at all, some further hints."You're right. Only the parties involved know the taste of the relationship between two people. The length of time and material conditions are secondary. The most important thing is that you feel happy." Zhong Han interrupted and said to Dai Mei loudly before she finished speaking.His words naturally touched Dai Mei's heart, making her nod her head repeatedly to show her agreement. She also said with a beaming face: "That's right. Outsiders don't understand anything. I don't care what others say or think. As long as I feel happy, that's enough. My fiancé has already discussed with me. After we get married, we will go to the Maldives for our honeymoon. Then in July and August in the summer, he and I will go to Africa to watch the great animal migration. In the winter, we will go to Switzerland together and he will teach me skiing. To be honest, I never knew that life could be so interesting, so romantic and sentimental! It seems that God also felt that I was too wronged in those years with Ren Xuefeng, so he let me meet such a caring man!"Yes, it's really caring. All these fancy activities throughout the process, which one didn't you pay for? Gu Xiaofan thought secretly in her heart, she couldn't help but want to remind Dai Mei again, but Zhong Han seemed to see her unwillingness, and took the opportunity to speak before she could organize her words, and stood up from the sofa."I think we have asked almost all the questions we should and shouldn't ask, so we won't bother you any more. I guess you are also very busy preparing for the wedding. Here is our contact information. If there is anything, you can contact us in time." Zhong Han stood up, took out a note with his and Gu Xiaofan's contact information and handed it to Dai Mei, and signaled Gu Xiaofan, who was still sitting on the sofa, to stand up as well.Dai Mei took the note and stuffed it into her pocket without even looking at it. She smiled and said to Zhong Han, "Forget it. I'll keep it. It's better if I don't have a chance to contact you. For people in your line of work, how can I contact you for good things?"Maybe talking about her fiancé aroused Dai Mei's longing for a happy life in the future. When she sent them out, she was in high spirits and sent them to the door enthusiastically. When she was leaving, a middle-aged woman in a part-time worker's uniform came out of the elevator. Dai Mei said goodbye to Zhong Han and Gu Xiaofan and began to arrange a day's work for the part-time worker.After taking the elevator downstairs, Gu Xiaofan pulled Zhong Han, who was about to get in the car, a little unhappy. Since Dai Mei lived on a high floor, she didn't worry about the problem of talking downstairs being heard by people upstairs."What did you do just now? Did you mean to make trouble? I wanted to remind Dai Mei, but you messed me up. I couldn't say anything." She frowned with dissatisfaction, looking at Zhong Han with reproach in her eyes."Don't look at me with that kind of eyes. I won't feel any remorse or guilt. I didn't ruin your business. I was trying to stop you in time." Zhong Han not only didn't accept Gu Xiaofan's protest humbly, but also glared at her and said, "If I hadn't helped you to stop in time, I'm afraid you wouldn't even know how to end it today. Oh, no, I almost forgot, we are together, so I should say that if I didn't help you to stop the topic in time, and let you continue to say stupid things and do stupid things, even I would be involved.""How could I do anything stupid or say anything stupid?" Gu Xiaofan was accused by Zhong Han and felt a little wronged, " It was Dai Mei who did the stupid thing. You know what kind of person Wen Bin is! He is an expert at coaxing women for money and living off women! He has been with Dai Mei for such a short time, and they are getting married. Dai Mei is the one who is paying for all the wedding expenses. Don't you think this is clearly cheating her? If I don't remind her, will I just watch her turn over a new leaf after changing her role as a lover and get cheated again? ""Whether she cheats or gets cheated, it's a matter between her and her fiancé. As an outsider, you'd better stay out of such business." Zhong Han still doesn't think there is anything to be desired in Gu Xiaofan's approach.Gu Xiaofan frowned again: "How can you say that? You are so selfish that you only care about your own business and not others'. You know that?""There should be a limit to enthusiasm. Some things can be managed, and some things cannot be managed." Facing Gu Xiaofan's sudden stubbornness, Zhong Han's expression was full of helplessness. "There are a few things to remember when you are a person. First, if you suffer a loss, as long as the loss is not on your head, it is a trivial matter. You should think twice before you intervene or not.""Your first point is not convincing. What about the second point?""The second point is that when it comes to things that are suffered but the parties involved are unaware of it, leave it to people who have a relationship with the parties involved and can let the parties trust to remind them. No matter what strangers say, they will not listen to them because they are confused. Instead, they will think that you have ulterior motives." Zhong Han continued patiently.After hearing this, Gu Xiaofan's stubbornness retreated by half. She realized that what Zhong Han said actually made sense. It was not that he was indifferent and self-protective, but that she and Dai Mei barely knew each other, and they didn't even have the most basic understanding and communication. If she told her that her fiancé was a man who spent women's money, how could she believe it? She might have thrown her out in a rage."But if I don't remind her of the facts at all, I feel a little guilty." Although she was still struggling, it was obvious from Gu Xiaofan's tone that she had been convinced by Zhong Han."This is the third point I want to make," Zhong Han raised three fingers and shook them in front of Gu Xiaofan, "We only know that Wen Bin was that kind of person in the past. What evidence do you have to prove that he is not serious this time, and wants to retire and settle down with Dai Mei to live a good life?"Gu Xiaofan was speechless. The fact is indeed as Zhong Han said. She only knows Wen Bin's past and does not know what he is thinking now. Although Wen Bin's motives always make people feel that they are not pure, it is also not objective to deny them directly. She sighed and said with some emotion: "That's what I said, but if one day I do something stupid, I still hope that someone can remind me in time. I promise that I will not disbelieve it, let alone feel unhappy. It is better to wake up earlier than to realize that I am the stupidest one at the last moment."