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Chapter 2 - RELATIONs

After reading the first chapter you all have already build the understanding that this entire stock of writings are mere my observations and opinions on various things that are related to humans. i am not stating that all what i write over here is something that i came up with but rather are brought to me from various sources and yes, we can imagine social platforms as a medium too.

In the first chapter i did state few abstract things about us "HUMANS" but i failed to even touch the very source of us humans. As i was stating all that i am writing is not things that exclusively belongs to me but things that have been brought to me from various resources ...from various relations. We "HUMANS" are very complex beings and so are the elements that we are made with. when i write the word "RELATION" what comes to your mind ? human beings right ? other human beings ...our parents , friends , lovers and other people we associate with right ? but if initiated with a certain twist on our roads of thinking cant we say we have relations with every things that surrounds us ? 

We are related to other humans but so are we to whole environment that surrounds us, how ? some might ask but to answer that very question i can also ask a simple question in return as well , what is a relation ? some " HUMANS" must have already started to feel frustrated stating "well we all know that !! "

people might find this absolutely boring and might drop it but those who are still reading bear with me ok?...so relations ? relations is a term that can be used to define a connection that one person or thing has with another irrespective of their status as a living or non-living subject as well.

i have started this entire journey of writing "HUMANs" by talking about relations as it is one of the most important elements of our being. We humans are what we relate to, isn't it ? we often find ourselves to be following what we r influenced to do. We all came into this world as a mere living being but during our stay here we have found ourselves to be turned into what our surroundings have molded us to be. Some may say that we are not influenced by anything or anyone, we have our very own opinions but the main point of doubt is are they ?

is it not fascinating ? how a baby is transformed into what they are today by external factors that were imposed upon them ? 

A newborn is like a new wave, it is formed and follows a path which ends at the coast and just like the wave the baby also is unaware of its purpose until it is guided by the winds. We can exclude the topic of life and purpose for later as this chapter is way too small to even come near the very start of those vast topics so i will stick to relations which i have only introduced. Our very thoughts are also things that are influenced by what we were subjected too and we can witness it in our surroundings as well , even our way of interpreting things, thought process are also things that are influenced by other people. 

A child learns its first basics from its parents, our brain gets developed under their shadows itself and irrespective of our distances till date we from time to time can find our resemblance, our similarity with them. Friends are yet other influences which can prove to be both positive as well as negative and thus it is crucial to choose them and know them transparently. Friends are those companions or winds that can either help a person by pulling them forward to success or push one down the paths of doom.

A person very existence is influenced by their surrounds which can include their complexions, style, habits, emotional expressions and behavior greatly. A person with a rude personality may have their origin from a environment that made them feel the need to be the way they are. We humans are depended on all this relations which aid us in restoring our mental health. Relations play a vital part in all our life from and the removal of any can have drastic impact on us. 

We are not taught to love nature it comes from within us too but we have never wondered why is so ? it is because we have a relation towards our environment far before we had with any living being. Nature is our first mother and thus we involuntarily find affection amidst of it. We never needed any hard efforts to learn that fire is dangerous and hot, water is refreshing and cold and wind is peaceful it the connection that was always deep down our existences that calls from within. This is neither our first nor our last life we have been to this earth countless times before and thus even if our body does not but our soul does remember it "Our Earth".

Our whole life we "HUMANS" keep ourselves busy with this relations. In mortal world it is this relations that live on what adds up to our unlimited journeys. We live for this relations and by the end of our stay in this world it is this relations we leave behind. Relations are also the true source of humanity as well, we are all connected with each other and the reason why we we should care.

i will stop my writing here as i don't want to write so much that it knock some people down due to boredom, i have never writing things like this before so it is difficult.