They say if you want to be a great writer you need to feel pain..
They who? that they is me. You know that in this generation everyone is fucked up. Some people play with others' feelings because they are bored. If you manage to stay sane that's the greatest achievement. But most of us aren't that lucky.
No this isn't just about love, this is about childhood trauma, the reality check we get in our "Happy house". Who knows that a little girl crying in a small corner of a sofa will grow up to be a writer? Writing about her fears and feelings.
They say don't share with people, they get annoyed. So I say write. Maybe you'll become a writer, great or not you'll feel light.