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Chapter 22 - CHAPTER 22. WOMEN TO WOMEN

They came to the town, and left Gerald at the railway station. Gudrun

and Winifred were to come to tea with Birkin, who expected Ursula also.

In the afternoon, however, the first person to turn up was Hermione.

Birkin was out, so she went in the drawing-room, looking at his books

and papers, and playing on the piano. Then Ursula arrived. She was

surprised, unpleasantly so, to see Hermione, of whom she had heard

nothing for some time.

'It is a surprise to see you,' she said.

'Yes,' said Hermione—'I've been away at Aix—'

'Oh, for your health?'

'Yes.'

The two women looked at each other. Ursula resented Hermione's long,

grave, downward-looking face. There was something of the stupidity and

the unenlightened self-esteem of a horse in it. 'She's got a horse-face,'

Ursula said to herself, 'she runs between blinkers.' It did seem as if

Hermione, like the moon, had only one side to her penny. There was no

obverse. She stared out all the time on the narrow, but to her, complete

world of the extant consciousness. In the darkness, she did not exist.

Like the moon, one half of her was lost to life. Her self was all in her

head, she did not know what it was spontaneously to run or move, like a

fish in the water, or a weasel on the grass. She must always KNOW.

But Ursula only suffered from Hermione's one-sidedness. She only felt

Hermione's cool evidence, which seemed to put her down as nothing.

Hermione, who brooded and brooded till she was exhausted with the

ache of her effort at consciousness, spent and ashen in her body, who

gained so slowly and with such effort her final and barren conclusions of

knowledge, was apt, in the presence of other women, whom she thought

simply female, to wear the conclusions of her bitter assurance like jewels

which conferred on her an unquestionable distinction, established her in

a higher order of life. She was apt, mentally, to condescend to women

such as Ursula, whom she regarded as purely emotional. Poor Hermione,it was her one possession, this aching certainty of hers, it was her only

justification. She must be confident here, for God knows, she felt rejected

and deficient enough elsewhere. In the life of thought, of the spirit, she

was one of the elect. And she wanted to be universal. But there was a

devastating cynicism at the bottom of her. She did not believe in her own

universals—they were sham. She did not believe in the inner life—it was

a trick, not a reality. She did not believe in the spiritual world—it was an

affectation. In the last resort, she believed in Mammon, the flesh, and the

devil—these at least were not sham. She was a priestess without belief,

without conviction, suckled in a creed outworn, and condemned to the

reiteration of mysteries that were not divine to her. Yet there was no

escape. She was a leaf upon a dying tree. What help was there then, but

to fight still for the old, withered truths, to die for the old, outworn belief,

to be a sacred and inviolate priestess of desecrated mysteries? The old

great truths BAD been true. And she was a leaf of the old great tree of

knowledge that was withering now. To the old and last truth then she

must be faithful even though cynicism and mockery took place at the

bottom of her soul.

'I am so glad to see you,' she said to Ursula, in her slow voice, that was

like an incantation. 'You and Rupert have become quite friends?'

'Oh yes,' said Ursula. 'He is always somewhere in the background.'

Hermione paused before she answered. She saw perfectly well the other

woman's vaunt: it seemed truly vulgar.

'Is he?' she said slowly, and with perfect equanimity. 'And do you think

you will marry?'

The question was so calm and mild, so simple and bare and

dispassionate that Ursula was somewhat taken aback, rather attracted. It

pleased her almost like a wickedness. There was some delightful naked

irony in Hermione.

'Well,' replied Ursula, 'HE wants to, awfully, but I'm not so sure.'

Hermione watched her with slow calm eyes. She noted this new

expression of vaunting. How she envied Ursula a certain unconscious

positivity! even her vulgarity!'Why aren't you sure?' she asked, in her easy sing song. She was perfectly

at her ease, perhaps even rather happy in this conversation. 'You don't

really love him?'

Ursula flushed a little at the mild impertinence of this question. And yet

she could not definitely take offence. Hermione seemed so calmly and

sanely candid. After all, it was rather great to be able to be so sane.

'He says it isn't love he wants,' she replied.

'What is it then?' Hermione was slow and level.

'He wants me really to accept him in marriage.'

Hermione was silent for some time, watching Ursula with slow, pensive

eyes.

'Does he?' she said at length, without expression. Then, rousing, 'And

what is it you don't want? You don't want marriage?'

'No—I don't—not really. I don't want to give the sort of SUBMISSION he

insists on. He wants me to give myself up—and I simply don't feel that I

CAN do it.'

Again there was a long pause, before Hermione replied:

'Not if you don't want to.' Then again there was silence. Hermione

shuddered with a strange desire. Ah, if only he had asked HER to

subserve him, to be his slave! She shuddered with desire.

'You see I can't—'

'But exactly in what does—'

They had both begun at once, they both stopped. Then, Hermione,

assuming priority of speech, resumed as if wearily:

'To what does he want you to submit?'

'He says he wants me to accept him non-emotionally, and finally—I

really don't know what he means. He says he wants the demon part of

himself to be mated—physically—not the human being. You see he says

one thing one day, and another the next—and he always contradicts

himself—'And always thinks about himself, and his own dissatisfaction,' said

Hermione slowly.

'Yes,' cried Ursula. 'As if there were no-one but himself concerned. That

makes it so impossible.'

But immediately she began to retract.

'He insists on my accepting God knows what in HIM,' she resumed. 'He

wants me to accept HIM as—as an absolute—But it seems to me he

doesn't want to GIVE anything. He doesn't want real warm intimacy—he

won't have it—he rejects it. He won't let me think, really, and he won't let

me FEEL—he hates feelings.'

There was a long pause, bitter for Hermione. Ah, if only he would have

made this demand of her? Her he DROVE into thought, drove inexorably

into knowledge—and then execrated her for it.

'He wants me to sink myself,' Ursula resumed, 'not to have any being of

my own—'

'Then why doesn't he marry an odalisk?' said Hermione in her mild sing-

song, 'if it is that he wants.' Her long face looked sardonic and amused.

'Yes,' said Ursula vaguely. After all, the tiresome thing was, he did not

want an odalisk, he did not want a slave. Hermione would have been his

slave—there was in her a horrible desire to prostrate herself before a

man—a man who worshipped her, however, and admitted her as the

supreme thing. He did not want an odalisk. He wanted a woman to

TAKE something from him, to give herself up so much that she could

take the last realities of him, the last facts, the last physical facts,

physical and unbearable.

And if she did, would he acknowledge her? Would he be able to

acknowledge her through everything, or would he use her just as his

instrument, use her for his own private satisfaction, not admitting her?

That was what the other men had done. They had wanted their own

show, and they would not admit her, they turned all she was into

nothingness. Just as Hermione now betrayed herself as a woman.

Hermione was like a man, she believed only in men's things. Shebetrayed the woman in herself. And Birkin, would he acknowledge, or

would he deny her?

'Yes,' said Hermione, as each woman came out of her own separate

reverie. 'It would be a mistake—I think it would be a mistake—'

'To marry him?' asked Ursula.

'Yes,' said Hermione slowly—'I think you need a man—soldierly, strong-

willed—' Hermione held out her hand and clenched it with rhapsodic

intensity. 'You should have a man like the old heroes—you need to stand

behind him as he goes into battle, you need to SEE his strength, and to

HEAR his shout—. You need a man physically strong, and virile in his

will, NOT a sensitive man—.' There was a break, as if the pythoness had

uttered the oracle, and now the woman went on, in a rhapsody-wearied

voice: 'And you see, Rupert isn't this, he isn't. He is frail in health and

body, he needs great, great care. Then he is so changeable and unsure of

himself—it requires the greatest patience and understanding to help him.

And I don't think you are patient. You would have to be prepared to

suffer—dreadfully. I can't TELL you how much suffering it would take to

make him happy. He lives an INTENSELY spiritual life, at times—too,

too wonderful. And then come the reactions. I can't speak of what I have

been through with him. We have been together so long, I really do know

him, I DO know what he is. And I feel I must say it; I feel it would be

perfectly DISASTROUS for you to marry him—for you even more than

for him.' Hermione lapsed into bitter reverie. 'He is so uncertain, so

unstable—he wearies, and then reacts. I couldn't TELL you what his re-

actions are. I couldn't TELL you the agony of them. That which he

affirms and loves one day—a little latter he turns on it in a fury of

destruction. He is never constant, always this awful, dreadful reaction.

Always the quick change from good to bad, bad to good. And nothing is

so devastating, nothing—'

'Yes,' said Ursula humbly, 'you must have suffered.'

An unearthly light came on Hermione's face. She clenched her hand like

one inspired.

'And one must be willing to suffer—willing to suffer for him hourly,

daily—if you are going to help him, if he is to keep true to anything at

all—''And I don't WANT to suffer hourly and daily,' said Ursula. 'I don't, I

should be ashamed. I think it is degrading not to be happy.'

Hermione stopped and looked at her a long time.

'Do you?' she said at last. And this utterance seemed to her a mark of

Ursula's far distance from herself. For to Hermione suffering was the

greatest reality, come what might. Yet she too had a creed of happiness.

'Yes,' she said. 'One SHOULD be happy—' But it was a matter of will.

'Yes,' said Hermione, listlessly now, 'I can only feel that it would be

disastrous, disastrous—at least, to marry in a hurry. Can't you be

together without marriage? Can't you go away and live somewhere

without marriage? I do feel that marriage would be fatal, for both of you.

I think for you even more than for him—and I think of his health—'

'Of course,' said Ursula, 'I don't care about marriage—it isn't really

important to me—it's he who wants it.'

'It is his idea for the moment,' said Hermione, with that weary finality,

and a sort of SI JEUNESSE SAVAIT infallibility.

There was a pause. Then Ursula broke into faltering challenge.

'You think I'm merely a physical woman, don't you?'

'No indeed,' said Hermione. 'No, indeed! But I think you are vital and

young—it isn't a question of years, or even of experience—it is almost a

question of race. Rupert is race-old, he comes of an old race—and you

seem to me so young, you come of a young, inexperienced race.'

'Do I!' said Ursula. 'But I think he is awfully young, on one side.'

'Yes, perhaps childish in many respects. Nevertheless—'

They both lapsed into silence. Ursula was filled with deep resentment

and a touch of hopelessness. 'It isn't true,' she said to herself, silently

addressing her adversary. 'It isn't true. And it is YOU who want a

physically strong, bullying man, not I. It is you who want an unsensitive

man, not I. You DON'T know anything about Rupert, not really, in spite

of the years you have had with him. You don't give him a woman's love,

you give him an ideal love, and that is why he reacts away from you. Youdon't know. You only know the dead things. Any kitchen maid would

know something about him, you don't know. What do you think your

knowledge is but dead understanding, that doesn't mean a thing. You are

so false, and untrue, how could you know anything? What is the good of

your talking about love—you untrue spectre of a woman! How can you

know anything, when you don't believe? You don't believe in yourself

and your own womanhood, so what good is your conceited, shallow

cleverness—!'

The two women sat on in antagonistic silence. Hermione felt injured,

that all her good intention, all her offering, only left the other woman in

vulgar antagonism. But then, Ursula could not understand, never would

understand, could never be more than the usual jealous and

unreasonable female, with a good deal of powerful female emotion,

female attraction, and a fair amount of female understanding, but no

mind. Hermione had decided long ago that where there was no mind, it

was useless to appeal for reason—one had merely to ignore the ignorant.

And Rupert—he had now reacted towards the strongly female, healthy,

selfish woman—it was his reaction for the time being—there was no

helping it all. It was all a foolish backward and forward, a violent

oscillation that would at length be too violent for his coherency, and he

would smash and be dead. There was no saving him. This violent and

directionless reaction between animalism and spiritual truth would go

on in him till he tore himself in two between the opposite directions, and

disappeared meaninglessly out of life. It was no good—he too was

without unity, without MIND, in the ultimate stages of living; not quite

man enough to make a destiny for a woman.

They sat on till Birkin came in and found them together. He felt at once

the antagonism in the atmosphere, something radical and insuperable,

and he bit his lip. But he affected a bluff manner.

'Hello, Hermione, are you back again? How do you feel?'

'Oh, better. And how are you—you don't look well—'

'Oh!—I believe Gudrun and Winnie Crich are coming in to tea. At least

they said they were. We shall be a tea-party. What train did you come by,

Ursula?'It was rather annoying to see him trying to placate both women at once.

Both women watched him, Hermione with deep resentment and pity for

him, Ursula very impatient. He was nervous and apparently in quite

good spirits, chattering the conventional commonplaces. Ursula was

amazed and indignant at the way he made small-talk; he was adept as

any FAT in Christendom. She became quite stiff, she would not answer.

It all seemed to her so false and so belittling. And still Gudrun did not

appear.

'I think I shall go to Florence for the winter,' said Hermione at length.

'Will you?' he answered. 'But it is so cold there.'

'Yes, but I shall stay with Palestra. It is quite comfortable.'

'What takes you to Florence?'

'I don't know,' said Hermione slowly. Then she looked at him with her

slow, heavy gaze. 'Barnes is starting his school of aesthetics, and

Olandese is going to give a set of discourses on the Italian national

policy-'

'Both rubbish,' he said.

'No, I don't think so,' said Hermione.

'Which do you admire, then?'

'I admire both. Barnes is a pioneer. And then I am interested in Italy, in

her coming to national consciousness.'

'I wish she'd come to something different from national consciousness,

then,' said Birkin; 'especially as it only means a sort of commercial-

industrial consciousness. I hate Italy and her national rant. And I think

Barnes is an amateur.'

Hermione was silent for some moments, in a state of hostility. But yet,

she had got Birkin back again into her world! How subtle her influence

was, she seemed to start his irritable attention into her direction

exclusively, in one minute. He was her creature.

'No,' she said, 'you are wrong.' Then a sort of tension came over her, she

raised her face like the pythoness inspired with oracles, and went on, inrhapsodic manner: 'Il Sandro mi scrive che ha accolto il piu grande

entusiasmo, tutti i giovani, e fanciulle e ragazzi, sono tutti—' She went on

in Italian, as if, in thinking of the Italians she thought in their language.

He listened with a shade of distaste to her rhapsody, then he said:

'For all that, I don't like it. Their nationalism is just industrialism—that

and a shallow jealousy I detest so much.'

'I think you are wrong—I think you are wrong—' said Hermione. 'It

seems to me purely spontaneous and beautiful, the modern Italian's

PASSION, for it is a passion, for Italy, L'Italia—'

'Do you know Italy well?' Ursula asked of Hermione. Hermione hated to

be broken in upon in this manner. Yet she answered mildly:

'Yes, pretty well. I spent several years of my girlhood there, with my

mother. My mother died in Florence.'

'Oh.'

There was a pause, painful to Ursula and to Birkin. Hermione however

seemed abstracted and calm. Birkin was white, his eyes glowed as if he

were in a fever, he was far too over-wrought. How Ursula suffered in this

tense atmosphere of strained wills! Her head seemed bound round by

iron bands.

Birkin rang the bell for tea. They could not wait for Gudrun any longer.

When the door was opened, the cat walked in.

'Micio! Micio!' called Hermione, in her slow, deliberate sing-song. The

young cat turned to look at her, then, with his slow and stately walk he

advanced to her side.

'Vieni—vieni qua,' Hermione was saying, in her strange caressive,

protective voice, as if she were always the elder, the mother superior.

'Vieni dire Buon' Giorno alla zia. Mi ricorde, mi ricorde bene—non he

vero, piccolo? E vero che mi ricordi? E vero?' And slowly she rubbed his

head, slowly and with ironic indifference.

'Does he understand Italian?' said Ursula, who knew nothing of the

languag'Yes,' said Hermione at length. 'His mother was Italian. She was born in

my waste-paper basket in Florence, on the morning of Rupert's birthday.

She was his birthday present.'

Tea was brought in. Birkin poured out for them. It was strange how

inviolable was the intimacy which existed between him and Hermione.

Ursula felt that she was an outsider. The very tea-cups and the old silver

was a bond between Hermione and Birkin. It seemed to belong to an old,

past world which they had inhabited together, and in which Ursula was a

foreigner. She was almost a parvenue in their old cultured milieu. Her

convention was not their convention, their standards were not her

standards. But theirs were established, they had the sanction and the

grace of age. He and she together, Hermione and Birkin, were people of

the same old tradition, the same withered deadening culture. And she,

Ursula, was an intruder. So they always made her feel.

Hermione poured a little cream into a saucer. The simple way she

assumed her rights in Birkin's room maddened and discouraged Ursula.

There was a fatality about it, as if it were bound to be. Hermione lifted

the cat and put the cream before him. He planted his two paws on the

edge of the table and bent his gracious young head to drink.

'Siccuro che capisce italiano,' sang Hermione, 'non l'avra dimenticato, la

lingua della Mamma.'

She lifted the cat's head with her long, slow, white fingers, not letting

him drink, holding him in her power. It was always the same, this joy in

power she manifested, peculiarly in power over any male being. He

blinked forbearingly, with a male, bored expression, licking his whiskers.

Hermione laughed in her short, grunting fashion.

'Ecco, il bravo ragazzo, come e superbo, questo!'

She made a vivid picture, so calm and strange with the cat. She had a

true static impressiveness, she was a social artist in some ways.

The cat refused to look at her, indifferently avoided her fingers, and

began to drink again, his nose down to the cream, perfectly balanced, as

he lapped with his odd little click.

'It's bad for him, teaching him to eat at table,' said Birkin.'Yes,' said Hermione, easily assenting.

Then, looking down at the cat, she resumed her old, mocking, humorous

sing-song.

'Ti imparano fare brutte cose, brutte cose—'

She lifted the Mino's white chin on her forefinger, slowly. The young cat

looked round with a supremely forbearing air, avoided seeing anything,

withdrew his chin, and began to wash his face with his paw. Hermione

grunted her laughter, pleased.

'Bel giovanotto—' she said.

The cat reached forward again and put his fine white paw on the edge of

the saucer. Hermione lifted it down with delicate slowness. This

deliberate, delicate carefulness of movement reminded Ursula of

Gudrun.

'No! Non e permesso di mettere il zampino nel tondinetto. Non piace al

babbo. Un signor gatto cosi selvatico—!'

And she kept her finger on the softly planted paw of the cat, and her

voice had the same whimsical, humorous note of bullying.

Ursula had her nose out of joint. She wanted to go away now. It all

seemed no good. Hermione was established for ever, she herself was

ephemeral and had not yet even arrived.

'I will go now,' she said suddenly.

Birkin looked at her almost in fear—he so dreaded her anger. 'But there

is no need for such hurry,' he said.

'Yes,' she answered. 'I will go.' And turning to Hermione, before there

was time to say any more, she held out her hand and said 'Good-bye.'

'Good-bye—' sang Hermione, detaining the band. 'Must you really go

now?'

'Yes, I think I'll go,' said Ursula, her face set, and averted from

Hermione's eyes.

'You think you will—'But Ursula had got her hand free. She turned to Birkin with a quick,

almost jeering: 'Good-bye,' and she was opening the door before he had

time to do it for her.

When she got outside the house she ran down the road in fury and

agitation. It was strange, the unreasoning rage and violence Hermione

roused in her, by her very presence. Ursula knew she gave herself away

to the other woman, she knew she looked ill-bred, uncouth, exaggerated.

But she did not care. She only ran up the road, lest she should go back

and jeer in the faces of the two she had left behind. For they outraged

her.