There's a guy I dated for twelve years he promised to marry me , we dated for complete twelve years.
This guy almost succeeded in ru!ini!ng my life. He made sure no man comes my way.
Because of how serious he was my family told me to forget about any other man. I waited for him to finish his internship , used my money to pay certain bills for him and also paid for his project.
2016 he said his uncle wants to see him, he didn't even have tp, I gave him eleven thousand naira which I stole from my mom's shop, I gave him when I did not even know why his uncle called him. That was the last time both of us sat together and do things together. He told me he would stay for some days ,days turned to weeks , months and years. He did not even look back, he did not come back for any of his things, he went to his wedding which I was so naive to see.
This was October 2016
We kept communicating and he never mentioned he's married until december 2016, I knew no matter where he is he must come home to see his mom. So I asked him during one of our chats if he's coming home he said no that his mom is coming over to his uncle's place. That his uncle wants him to be the manager in his company so he's there for training. And his mom is coming over to Lagos. I told him I wouldn't mine coming over too and lodge somewhere he said no that I should send money to him if I have that his uncle's wife is not giving him food.
I sent him 20k all the money I had.
December 24th I decided to go to their family house knowing his mom won't be around but maybe his sister's so we could cook together and eat.
I bought foods items and went there.
From my place to his village is about 4 hours journey, getting there I took a bike and stopped in their house. The first person I saw was his mom, she went inside the compound just when she saw me, unlike her she would have come close and collected the bags I came with.
I saw my boyfriend coming outside and he blocked me from getting inside the compound. I did not still understand what was happening. He said his uncle doesn't want to see him with any woman yet till he's done with the training.
I almost went back but I asked him why didn't he tell me he's coming, he said it was urgent that they came last night..I said ok
I was about handing him the things I came with when a lady came out and put her arms around him, the whole thing cleared. I demanded to know what was going on.
He said he will come and explain, the lady said he won't do such a thing, that he should explain it right there. I don't even know why I looked at her fingers and I saw a new ring she even brought out her fingers and told me to look very well that she's Mrs **
I peed on myself , they saw it. Quietly I left to a round about sat there for hours without knowing where I was or what else to do. When I regained myself it was already evening I got home around 11 pm. Changed my clothes bathe and went to bed. My eyes were opened till morning of 25th. 2016 December will always remain my heart.
He kept calling, apologizing, he said I will find a good man, that he had to what he did. He said we were not destined to marry.
I kept reading his messages but they didn't mean anything to me. For two years I lived in regrets and h!ate, he did not come to see me or apologize physically. The messages he sent stopped just few days after. He changed his line , because months after I tried calling him.
Last year I saw him when I went for a program in pH, he was also there because we were in the same department. He walked up to me and said his marriage did not last and tried coming close. He said they divorced and he has two kids. That his wife che!ated on him. I listened and sympathized with him.
Since then he keeps calling, sends apology and wants me back, he said am the only one who can take care of his kids like they are mine. I said ok. I will think about it.
January this year I called him and told him I have decided to come back to him. He was so happy. After all forgiveness is divine. I have learnt that being forgiving gives you a kind of peace no one can imagined. He said he's so happy and wants to send me money, he sent me 100k. I told him we should meet that weekend. He was so happy.
He came and I met him at an eatery. Sat down and we ate, I ordered for fried rice and chicken..
Told him I want take away when we will be leaving. I made a huge order with tons of ice cream. He knows I love ice cream.
When we were about stepping out, he said he wants to call a bolt I said ok. He called. When the bolt came, I told him I have something to give him. I brought out an envelope. He opened.
It was my wedding invitation.
I told him he's invited. Crossed over to the other side of the road stopped a Keke and went home to the man who rescued me from heart d!is!ast!er.
We ate the ice cream together and I did not tell him where I went to. But now he knows what I did
That same day I gave him the invitation, I blocked him everywhere...I do not forgive