Everyone looks for you when it's convenient or when they need something. But no one is looking for you when you are alone, when you are sad, when you are unemployed, when you have nothing. Everyone looks for you when they have something to demand from you and expect to get it. When this does not work, he stops behaving well, ignores, avoids, neglects.
And what is the conclusion:
when you fell
you stay alone
when you're high
better choose to be alone.