When it came to starting conversations, I made a conscious effort to keep things light and fun. I avoided typical small talk questions like "Where are you from?" and instead opted for more playful and unexpected topics. For instance, I'd ask something like, "Is there a celebrity that people say you look like?" This kind of question often led to laughter and more engaging discussions.
I also learned the importance of being present during our conversations. I made sure to put away my phone and give them my full attention. To show that I was actively listening, I'd repeat the main ideas of what they were saying, which not only demonstrated my interest but also gave them a chance to clarify anything I might have misunderstood.