Xia Chu had hardly seen Lu Yiming these days, and even if she had, it wouldn't have been her place to pry into his private affairs.
After all, what adult doesn't have their own secrets? To refrain from making the other person uncomfortable is also a basic courtesy.
She thought for a moment then said earnestly, "Sijia, may I ask what exactly you feel about Yiming now? Is it just a habit and possessiveness from growing up together that you can't stand him not revolving his life around you anymore, and even less can you stand to see him with another woman, eventually getting married and having children?"
"Or do you feel exactly the same way about him as he feels about you, but you've just never realized it before, never understood his true importance? I think it's essential to clarify this first. You must be sure that your affection and love for him come from the heart before planning your next step."