Xu Qingyan wouldn't give her the time to "correct" things, once you loose the arrow there's no getting it back; before you know it, they've got a bunch of kids.
Ambiguity during the courtship phase is natural, but once that barrier is crossed, desire is a common human response.
The situation right now is just that, there's been kissing and touching. Delving in too deep... it's not that sacred, it doesn't always happen on a bed bathed in wine.
When the mood strikes, poking through that window paper is but a fleeting thought.
Ambiguity is about gradually placing the other person on a pedestal, then peeling them like an onion layer by layer until you're left with the creamy white at the core, ready to be stir-fried in raging oil.
Time flies, and it's early May.