Chapter 34
Fairy Flower
Glancing at Hero, the waitress raised her lips, straightened her bust, and approached him with a tray of wine. He held back his laughter when her imitate the gait of world-famous supermodel. The handsome guy held up a glass of red wine. Hero treated the girl elegantly.
She flirted, licked her red lips, glanced at his lower body, was secretly happy that a shark was caught this time. Female stars and singers also joined the hunt prey. The waitress left angrily because she was of low status and did not dare to compete with a bunch of noble prostitutes.
The man god received the honorary guests, was gentle and sweet like pouring honey into their ears. The long-legged beauties were fascinated by the handsome and polite style of the romantic guy. Every girl shook her smiling eyes to flirt with him.
Hero's nose is blocked every day because of the strong smell of spring rolls. As long as he takes the bait, the beautiful woman with the "heart and soul" of eating will immediately provide delicious meat specialties, sweet water to his mouth causing numbness all over the body.
The scent seduces women, and the male god also attraction men, from TV stars, famous singers, sports superstars to business directors, corporation chairmen and mayors, they all shake hands with Hero, happy expressions and lively conversations like old friends.
The only one who doesn't wear a mask in front of anyone, doesn't care about pleasing the son of media tycoon. She is tall, slim, soft cloud-like hair that falls to her waist. Graceful in a pure black dress with apricot lace embroidery. Graceful velvet skirt lifts step by step pink heels.
The willow-shaped eyebrows gently slid along the slender corners of the eyes, sight line that sparkled like a full moon night shone on the vline moon.
White powder covered the cracked skin the weathered color, pink lipstick make up heart shaped lips, embellished friendly smile, leaving an indelible mark with opposite person.
She put her hands on her chest to cover her soul and greeted Hero. The man god was entangled with a bunch of flatterers, but he still maintained the image of a handsome man and replied with a smile.
The social interaction was simple and perfunctorily, everyone was focused on their own affairs. Hero was discussing the reunion ceremony with the guests with excited. She returned to a row of seats with velvet carpets near the podium stage and waited quietly for the opening party.
The "twins" Association felt itchy eyes for her behavior that went against the crowd, jealous eyes, scorning those who are different from themselves, but they still smiled calmly, normal expression expression concealed the jealousy - hate behind countless faces that were as similar as two drops of water.
Mixed in the brass is the metal that glitters with gold, gold, silver, gems are separated from the pile of scraps, eager to find the person they admire:
- Hi sister!
The girl looked up at six teenage girls, each of whom was as beautiful as a doll wearing a crystal-colored dress. She recognized that the girl band was Crystal Princess, which had topped the list of the most popular idols today. She smiled slightly, turned off her phone, and chatted happily. The girl band expressed their admiration for their senior:
- I have like the nation fairy since I was a kid!
- I never miss any TV show sister participate!
- I collect and save all sister photos!
The girl band chirped, showing their is crazy fans been for many years, they opened phone albums and showed for Idol wached all kinds of photos of superstar in the eyes of the younger generation.
She laughed lightly and self-mockery at herself, no matter whether it was the dominant brand or the souvenirs, she was just a decoration in life after all. The younger generation did not understand the feelings of the older generation, took turns to take selfie with the person they admired.
When they were fans, the girls would shout with excitement every time they were photographed or asked for an autograph. Now that their dreams of stardom have come true, the crazy fans of the past do not have to maintain their current public persona, girl bands are happier than when they were idols, laughing having just as before, enjoying watching senior pose cutely with themselve, the idol of the young beaming laughing, taking photos constantly.
Every time she took a "selfie" with other stars, she and the other party showed the most natural demeanor, but she was still embarrassed and felt that both parties were cleaning each other's names. Now is still the focus of attention, and all eyes are focused on probing and evaluating.
But the younger generation is not careful, the six princesses surrounded her, busy chattering, puffing their cheeks and pout their lips playfully. In the eyes of those who like to scrutinize, they are considered too overacting. Strangely, the shame that made her tired of the life she once longed for even despised herself did not appear.
Perhaps, the innocent princess is like a crystal that reminds person of a fierce childhood. On that day, she was a little girl who was a passionate fan of artists of previous generations. She eagerly pursued her idol and dreamed one day signing autographs for fans until hands are tired.
The happy memories were repeated in almost the same way. Although people's hearts were complicated and it was difficult to tell whether the younger generation was sincere or hypocritical, she still put down all the pressure and lived out her own nature.
Somewhere, people whisper that the girls are acting better the real. The girl band manager raised his mouth to despise a bunch of brains just to decorate the frivolous place, the contemptuous smile turned into satisfaction with the real feeling.
Public figures always have to act like they are not acting. Princesses and queen are true to themselves when they must be sincere, so they have a chance to attract JK's attention - media tycoon are looking forward to family reunions. Dreaming of someone, that person will appear immediately:
- Yes, dear audience, today we gather in this warm place full of family affection to congratulate the model father - grandfather, who reunited with his filial and kind descendants after 33 years of separation. Yes, I am talking about JK - Today he is not the most powerful media tycoon in the world, nor is he a saint of the Prehistoric country. - The female MC laughed and towards the wings welcomed the protagonist - At this moment of destiny, he is simply the happiest man in the world. Yes, please give a round of applause to congratulate the descendants who have returned to their roots, congratulate the great father for receiving the blood flowing to his heart!
Fireworks flashed around the stage amidst the enthusiastic cheers. The "kind" father smiled brightly and came the stage with his "virtuous" offspring. Everyone cheered and welcomed the almighty who bestowed glory on the fame-hungry crowd, god had the magic to change lives and the ability to extinguish anyone's fame. The flatterers continued flattery to attract attention. Others judged people by their appearance and feel emotional to admire JK's family.
"Deep" or "shallow", no one wanted to offend the god who decided the fate of mortals, all everyone congratulated JK's family. The crowd around Hero was excited to put their hands on his shoulders and shake hands with the man god to share the fun. The people who lived with boneless tongues kneaded honey and mixed sugar into a soft and flexible candy in the this word:
- Family love is priceless, congratulations to you!
- A perfect family, I envy you, Hero!
Every word poured molasses into the ears of the father and son JK. Hero happily shook hands and thanked everyone who flattered him. He eagerly headed towards the stage, his sunny smile lit up his radiant eyes, younger brother to contemplate his sister and niece gather around the dearest person.
Every word poured molasses into the ears of the father and son JK. Hero happily shook hands and thanked everyone who flattered him. He eagerly headed towards the stage, his sunny smile lit up his radiant eyes, younger brother to contemplate his sister and niece gather around the dearest person.
Celebrating with his family and having fun with his friends, Hero smiled at the man who stood in his way with his arms outstretched. The man was short and stocky, wearing suit trousers and a green tie over an office clothing. Instead of a vest, he wore a black waist coat that contrasted with his white shirt. The two colors showed off his veiny six-pack abs rising from the inside of the first class silk shirt. The clothes were sewn tightly to hug his toned body like an athlete burly.
The man who likes to show off take care of the smallest details, wearing glasses to cover the dark circles under his owl eyes and applying gel to his shiny back-stroked hair dyed blonde. He raised his thick, dark brown lips to reveal a bright smile, and his friendly and confident demeanor perfectly portrayed the image of a successful businessman.
- A happy day like this cannot be without friendship, a warm hug, my friend!
The cheerful crowd watched the two men bump shoulders, pat each other on the back. Some covered their mouths and glanced at Hero's friend only stand arrive to man god's biceps. He still laugh happily this impolite behavior. Real friend urged close friend to reunite with families.
Hero said goodbye to her friends and guests and went on stage excitedly. Younger brother gently held his older sister and niece in his arms. At the moment of expressing family affection, Hero suddenly felt a chill down his spine. The strange feeling reminded him of the things that happened since the day they reunited, but the mother and daughter always ignored JK.
They reunited not long ago so it was difficult to cultivate emotions, but it was really hard to understand that they didn't care about the people who gave birth to them. The indifferent attitude concealed the hate.
The dark father, always stoic towards his son, is now confused and shy towards his daughter, the old man bows his head in shame in front of his granddaughter, as if he has committed an unforgivable sin. All kinds of strange things happen on the big day.
The old man ignores the frozen face of his offspring, the masked father happily shares his joy with the world, the son must take the place of his father to bear the battle.
The cold air penetrates the heart and disappears in the warm embrace. Neither cold nor hostile, mother and daughter put aside their hatred and dedicate family affection to the innocent person.
Hero is not a devil, he is bone and blood, person with the same blood must live with devils, he is more pitiful than her mother and daughter, they can't hate person with the same blood who was given they a devil father by fate.
Hero hasn't stopped being at a loss because his sister and niece have suddenly become close, but everyone is watching every minute and every second, so the man god ignores the doubts and has to let the world admire the happiest family in the world. He speaks words of love at a volume just loud enough for everyone to hear:
- From now on, I am no longer alone! My sister and niece will fill the void in my heart and soul!
Warm words ignited the quiet atmosphere. Everyone and every family had tears in their eyes, praising the nation family. Tears stained the eyelids and eyebrows of the girl band. Nhu Y cried so hard that makeup overflowed.
The upper echelons of the $ corporation, from the chairman to his wife, from parents to sons, the family of three eagerly looked forward to the most unforgettable moment of the night. The couple and son thoughtfully drew the word "affection" on their radiant faces, as if they were about to enjoy more happiness than reunited.
Everyone expressed their feelings in their own way. The fairy had experienced moment love from the whole family. Today, unlike every time she attended the reunion ceremony, she felt that the emotions of the nation family were a little... reluctant, like a play, warmth and happiness became a mask to hide the cold soul.
It seems that no one is directing this play, from father, grandfather to descendants, from son to daughter, from mother to daughter, from sister to brother, from uncle to niece, everyone plays the role of family members. When Ngoc and daughter hugged her brother, the girls' smiles were full of sadness and grief rather than the joy of reunite.
The moment the mother and daughter expressed their affection for Anh Dao, the abnormality disappeared. It was not the sympathy when hugging Hero, nor the reluctance to show sincerity to JK. Whenever they photographed or stood beside him, the mother and daughter sketched a loving smile for the one who gave birth to them.
The world oh-so-praises its exemplary father for giving birth to filial offspring, a bunch of slaves for fame and fortune will white powder, lipstick, and make-up for the nation family. Most people don't need to know the insider who is hiding disgust.
For those who are completely unfamiliar with pretending, they are now aggrieved because they must be familiar with the most accurate way to wear a mask, the first lesson of acting is to control emotions, she and daughter are forced to lift their cheekbones and pull the skin around the edge of their mouths to create a real smile, the girls are not actors, they have not yet mastered the art, so their stiff eyes immediately betray their master, eyes refuse to smile and grievances because of the master's physical abuse.
Facing the Anh Dao, they eliminated all mental stress and returned to themselves. Bodies escaped from the compulsion, and cheekbones were raised high to share the joy with the eyes with traces of wrinkles. Each wrinkle contained a secret that could not be told to anyone. That wrinkle was once the pain of tearing the victim and hating the accomplice. The wrinkles of yesterday's pain are still bleeding, but no longer resentful the accomplice for drowning the victim in pain.
Anh Dao heard that if you want to understand the true feeling through a smile, pay attention to the wrinkles around the eyes. A fake smile can't have bones protruding above the cheekbones, it's even more impossible to have wrinkles and crow's feet at the corners of the eyes like a real smile. She doesn't believe the sentience research of imagination expert.
Witnessing the wrinkles forming crow's feet in the victim's eyes, the girls smiled tenderly at the woman who had buried herself under the mud. She realized that the theory wasn't ridiculous. The warm smile melted Anh Dao's heart - the Iron woman was always known for being cold and rational, but now she no longer felt the hot tears making the corners of her eyelids red, the joy the victim forgiven sins occupied her mind.
The mother and daughter of Ngoc welcomed their relatives of different blood with open arms. Anh Dao was motionless and stunned in front of the double joy, she smiled but her tears soaked the victim's shoulders - now they are a family.
The family affection seemed to be forever away when the biological parents dead. A new page in her life been turned, she is no longer suffering from loneliness from childhood to adulthood. The little girl who was an orphan in the past now has a true family.
The moment of emotion wiped away doubts, the fairy smiled at the habit of doubt and looked at life with dark eyes, what happened inside other people's families had nothing to do with her.
A group people who loved to gossip always made her allergic to unpleasant curiosity, but she nitpick the private lives those who needed sincere congratulations on their happiness, the fairy couldn't help but feel embarrassed, breathe out and watched JK's family cut cake, the banquet reunion begin.
Paper firecrackers flew throughout the hall, the orchestra played a quiet melody, and guests competed to express their feelings at the right time and in the right place. Emotions sparked a nationwide frenzy of admiration, millions of viewers clapped in front TV screen.
Countless netizens rushed to click the key to comment, shoot like,
give heart, shed tears, and then hugged beloved hearts, sharing to the point of flooding the virtual world.
Newspaper reporters took photos, live, and broadcast online to spread the heat to the world, various online newspapers, paper newspapers, newspapers crawling into tents, and newspapers sitting in air-conditioning all hung a large number of headlines on the front page:
"Fallen leaves return to their roots - Blood flows to the heart!"
"Blood flows from the heart, like a tree has roots, like water has a source!"
"Family reunited - like never apart!"
"Tears choked for reunion!"
"Tears shed for the warm father-daughter love!"
"Go and let come back!"
"Father and daughter reunited, happiness and tears!"
"Father's love is as deep as the ocean, mother's love is as vast as the sea and sky, children are more filial gentle than man saints!"
"Father, let's go home!"
"Daughter, go home with father!"
"After all, father is the best!"
A bunch of people who like to joke around and have fun compete with each other to splash water follow the rain, in just a few minutes, countless associations and groups emerged like mushrooms after the rain:
JK Family Official Fanpage
Official Fanpage Ice Frost
Official Fanpage Snow Orchid
Association crazy for the nation family
Association of people Who want to Date Princess Snow Orchid
Association for the prayer of Lapis safety
Group planted a ficus benjamina next to JK's daughter[1]
This group was created to express love to the beautiful spotless Jade Lapis
Group wants to Ice skating, glide Snow
The group wants to eat Snow, lying down Frost
The group ask for share photos and short videos of the four princesses
Want to say I love Suong, but afraid Suong won't agree
Want to confess my love to Orchid but afraid not worthy of Orchid
Anh Dao also became prey let the virtual life crowd to show their herd behavior, the number fan pages blonde girl soared. At the beginning, crazy fans even came in to praise the other associations and groups. A few seconds later, there was a bunch of trouble-making, sarcasm, the online world immediately exploded keyboard war in the thick stench of young buffalo thugs.
The war makers happily shook their shoulders and laughed to see which side was the keyboard hero. People who live on fame milk rushed in to suck madly, scrambling to set up a series of associations groups exclude and anti fanpages family JK:
Association against false family
The group wants to jade break, lapis broken
Association wants to melt ice, avalanches
The group wants to avoid dew more than avoid evil
The association wants to bury orchids extinguish willows
This page was created because hate someone and everyone knows it's who
Duck gourd turns into a swan - swans or ducks are both animals
We are serious young people, we hate lies
People's association does not believe the thirty-three-year figure
Countless with similar names followed the new but old trend: anti - crazy fans. Internet traffic jam due to sudden favor from netizens. A bunch of people with permanent residence on the Internet switched from TV screens to laptop or mobile phone screens, vying to curse each other's eighteen generations, demand to be chopped, demand to be killed, demand to throw waste into the home of the person being sacrificed alive[2].
The Lan sisters' classmates and schoolmates and a group of people who claimed to be Luu Ly's friends all madly inhaled and smelled drama, resulting in a bunch of people vying to create groups, associations:
Suong - Lan - Ly and friends
Dear friend, don't forget me
Looking forward to old memories
A bunch of friends posted photos with Lan sisters and her friends in the group association, attached a caption, and pinned it to the top:
Don't need many friends, just need a soulmate!
I'm not a princess, I'm just the princess' best friend!
Oh, is this my friend? Successful puberty is real!
Every photo in the classroom, birthday, the wedding day holding the betrothal gift[3], eating snacks on the sidewalk, going on picnics. In short everything was pulled out to be used as a decorative object so that the name close friend of Lan - Suong - Ly could fly high, fly far, fly to the whole world.
People who suffered misery due to illness also had the same fate. The photos of the past sympathized with the poor little girl, but now became a makeup tool for the beautiful and gentle face in the eyes of fans:
Strong younger sister, death will collapse at your feet!
Sister misses you, my angel!
The evil disease tortures her painfully every day, but the little girl still stands strong against the cruel fate. Brother dmires you, my little girl! Everyone loves you and does their best, little sister!
Everyone didn't notice the TV echoing the the female MC's expressive voice:
- Yes, ladies and gentlemen and friends, in ten years of MC, I have never been so lucky as tonight. There are thousands of talented MCs in the world, but Mr. JK gave me the honor of expressing the family innermost feelings of the nation. Yes, I have experienced all kinds of emotions because of the loss of my relatives for twenty years. God not let down person with heart, after so many years of continuous efforts to find my father, I reunited with the one who gave birth to me. The Supreme God once again makes people admire the virtue of good life, this time, the father of mankind leads the way for JK - the great father who reunites the descendants!
The female MC choked up and speak from the heart:
- I am not as be good talker as other MC, but Mr. JK still chose me. Maybe it is because we are in the same situation. Empathy can fully convey infinite joy! This joy has become the inspiration for parents and children in world to open their hearts to each other! - The female MC looked at the camera with red eyes, tender and affectionate as if she was admiring her father - Let's cherish every minute and every second with our dearest person!
The audience applauded for this meaningful message. MC smiled softly and thanked. She waited for JK and the offspring to walk to the center of the hall. The whole family gathered around the round table covered with velvet carpet. At this time, the flexible and delicate MC took charge of the stage again:
- We are all happy with Mr. JK's family, and I'm sure everyone in the world wants to express their sincerest congratulations. But not everyone has the opportunity to express their feelings!
Some people sitting at the banquet table interrupted:
- You congratulations on behalf of everyone!
- This is a good idea, do it now and always!
The guests and media responded enthusiastically, MC was modest:
- Thank you for giving me this honor, but it is difficult to express sincerity towards the nation family in thousands of words. Dry words are not as good as the voice that touches people's hearts. For ten years, the that song voice has been sobbing generations, whether it is adults who have experienced all the ups and downs, or dreamy youth, all love it, I have fully felt the song voice given by God at most other reunion ceremonies. Whether cherish your family or feel indifferent because you have been separated from your parents since childhood, as long as hear the that song goes into human heart, everyone will regard family as the only thing that exists in life!
The female MC turned her admiring voice to the star everyone was looking forward to the most:
- Yes, the owner of that God-given singing voice is a musician - Oriental legendary diva - National fairy - Hoa Tien Nu!
The hall burst into warm applause to welcome the legend, and the TV audience cheered excitedly to watch the Hoa Tien Nu. The diva smiled like a flower and went to her familiar position. The MC retreated to the wings and gave the stage to the fairy.
Notes
[1] Planting ficus benjamina is understood as "take root" to attract the other person's attention without having to express feelings. In addition, planting ficus benjamina is also a way to compare the mood of a person pursuing someone. Even if you are not sure whether it will be accepted or rejected. But still infatuated and a little blind.
Figurative meaning: This phrase means cursing, extreme hatred, and contempt for an opponent. It is more serious than many other insults. It also implies being aggressive and not afraid of anyone.
[3] Holding the betrothal gift is also known as the ceremony of holding the gift or the ceremony of holding the fruit. It is a traditional custom held during the engagement ceremony of the Vietnamese people.
This ceremony is performed in two teams, male and female. During the engagement ceremony, the man's team holds the betrothal gift and hands it over to the woman's team. The man's team is mainly selected from the groom's relatives and friends.
This team only includes single men and is usually younger than the groom. Similar to the groom's team, the bride's team is mainly composed of the bride's friends, colleagues and relatives. At the same time, this team is also all female, unmarried, and often younger than the bride.
The groom's family will prepare some engagement lacquer boxes to welcome the bride to her husband's house. After these betrothal boxes are prepared, a team is needed to transport them to the bride's house. The girl's family also needs a female team to receive the betrothal gifts from the boy's family. This ceremony is collectively called holding the betrothal gift.
The wedding ceremony of holding the betrothal gift is an extremely important ceremony in Vietnamese wedding customs, because it means giving good fortune and wishing the couple a happy future.
Offerings at Vietnamese engagement ceremonies usually include:
Betel nut and betel leaf box: Vietnamese people have always believed that betel nut is the beginning of all stories, so betel nut is an indispensable offering in Vietnamese engagement ceremony.
Not only that, betel leaves and betel nut also symbolize intimacy, husband and wife love, stability, auspiciousness.
Tea box: It is a box that the northern Vietnamese are very familiar with. When talking, the teapot will help the story to be more open and convenient.
Wine box: A glass of wine will take the place of blessing for the soon-to-be-married couple.
Husband and wife cake box: husband and wife cake box is a cake that symbolizes a couple's strong marriage, passion, harmony, and everlasting attachment.
Fruit box: Used on the ancestral altar to inform the ancestors of the upcoming wedding.
Lotus seed box: It is a token of gratitude to parents for giving birth and raising us.
Gac fruit glutinous rice box: It represents abundance, luck, and also good news for the family.
Roast suckling pig box: It is a symbol of abundance and wealth. On the other hand, it is also considered a blessing for the bride and groom to have many children.
The correct way to hold the box is also important in Vietnamese wedding ceremonies. The order of holding the box is mainly based on the number of boxes prepared by the groom's family.
The boxes consist of 5-7 items: betel nut - wine and tobacco - fruit boxes - and tall boxes (such as the box for flat rice cakes, the box for husband and wife cakes, the box for lotus seeds and the box for tea).
9 to 11 boxes: betel nut - alcohol and cigarettes - suckling pig box - flower box - glutinous rice box - soda/beer box - and tall boxes (such as green rice cake box, husband and wife cake box, lotus nut box, tea box).
After completing the handover procedure, the delivery and return of the gift box, the bride and groom need to give the lucky money to the team that holds the box. To perform this ceremony, the bride and groom should also pay attention to how to give the lucky money correctly.
Because this is considered to be a greeting, greeting and meaningful blessing to the bride and groom, the bride and groom hope that the two teams can also find their own happiness in the future. According to ancient customs, this is a way to give predestined and help single people maintain love path. Because they believe that if they don't give lucky money, they will make lose the love path of the person who holding the box.
Preparation
The two families will come together to agree on the number of engagement boxes.
The groom's family will hold a handover ceremony.
Before arriving at the bride's house, the groom's family will prepare a team in the order of grandparents, parents, and groom, and finally the team that holding the box.
After the two families greet each other, they exchange the box and bring it into the house. The bride's family receives the box and opens it. The groom's family representative will make a few statements during the ceremony, and the bride's representative will thank and finally accept the box brought by the groom's family to complete the ceremony. Finally, the groom's mother and the bride's mother will open the box together.
The bride meets both families
The groom obtained the consent of the bride's family and welcomed the bride to come to greet both families and relatives from both sides.
The bride and groom held ceremony to worship their ancestors.
The bride's parents will place the gifts brought by the groom's family on the ancestral altar. The bride's father lead the bride and groom close to the altar and perform the ceremony of worshipping the ancestors.
Two families discussing the wedding
After completing the above ceremony, both parties will discuss the ceremony on the wedding day.
Give back gift
The bride's family will give back gift and then return the box to the groom's family to take home. This is the give back gift ceremony. When refund the gift, pay attention to the following points:
Do not use scissors when sharing the give back gift, tear it with your hands.
The give back gift should be an even number, not an odd number. When returning the box to the groom's family, the lid of the box must be opened and never closed.
Clothing
When choosing clothes for the bride and groom's family, choose only polite and formal clothing styles that are suitable for traditional Vietnamese culture. The clothing of the team holding the box must always have the same color and design.
The groom's family team
Choosing attire for the groom's family is relatively simple. White shirt, slacks, a tie and luxurious western shoes are perfect enough.
But when choosing shoes, ties and other accessories, pay attention to synchronization to create a harmonious effect. Especially men can also wear traditional men's Ao Dai, not only matching each other in design and color. It also helps to make the ceremony more formal and traditional.
Traditional or innovative Ao Dai is always the most popular dress for the bride's family. Girls are always slim and pay more attention to appearance, so the choice of clothing also needs careful care.
When choosing the bride's family Ao Dai, should also pay attention to the color and design to synchronize the image and make the ceremony more harmonious. When choosing the formation, should pay attention to the following factors:
Height
Height is one of the most important factors when choosing a formation. Whether it is the bride's family or the groom's family, they need to be of the same height.
It is best to choose a formation that is lower than the bride and groom. This will make the bride and groom more outstanding on the screen.
However, if you can't choose a formation that's shorter than the bride and groom and of the same height, then choosing outfits that are less popular than the bride and groom is also a good idea.
Body
Similar to height, the body shape of the team should also be chosen to be the most flattering. Don't let too thin people stand near too fat people in the team, because this will make the team disproportionate.
Number of people holding boxes
The number of people who hold the box will depend entirely on the number of offerings prepared by the groom's family.
In northern Vietnamese provinces, the number of boxes is always an odd number, such as 3, 5, 7, and sometimes even up to 11, 15. In contrast, southern Vietnamese people require an even number of boxes in their engagement ceremony, usually 6 and 8 boxes, because this number represents wealth and fortune.
Things to avoid when holding boxes
In order for the wedding to take place in the most favorable way, the bride and groom should also pay attention to things to avoid when holding the box, such as:
It is not suitable to get married on a lonely, widowed, or empty day...
Because these days will bring misfortunes to the wife, such as loneliness and few children.
It is not recommended for brides to get married at the age of Kim Lau to reduce the risk to children and wealth.
July is not a good month to get married - it is the month of ghost month and the month when the Cowherd and the Weaver Girl separated.
The two teams must be young, unmarried men and women. Do not select married people or those with children to participate.
Should I holding the box more than 3 times?
"What if I hold the box more than 3 times?" According to our ancestors, a girl who holds the box more than 3 times will lose love path and it will be difficult for her to get married. Because when you hold the box, you give your lucky fate love to the bride and groom. Therefore, if you hold the box too many times, you will "lose your love path".
However, with today's modern lifestyle, people are more open-minded. Therefore, if you hold the box more than 3 times, it will not affect the love path of holding the box. This is just an old concept without a proven basis, so there is no need to worry too much. .