We can think of situations from different perspectives like when you are a teacher scolding a student you can think about it from the students perspective or when you are scolded by an elder you can think from the elders perspective like if one of your loved ones makes the same mistake how will you handle that issue , would you have done the same or would you have let go ? This is a way of understanding .Now we can also think of our problems from other's perspective lets say you don't have enough money to buy something you wish for but from a rich person's perspective it may not be a problem at all but they may have health issues related to their job. But you would never have considered that a problem as life has made you run too much. Now these are all some wild conjectures but from the perspective of a being far detached from humanity all humans live barely a hundred years and they all seem to follow somewhat same pattern, education in childhood then seek job then marriage then family if we think like that we are just like everyone else just living. Unless we want to try something else something different something worth living