I am not that unreasonable.
The mistake was made by others, not by you.
You have never added pressure on me. Except for being related by blood, Si Xian's actions have nothing to do with you, and you have even protected your own relatives for my sake.
Even if I had really been harmed that day, I would only blame myself for not being strong enough, underestimating the enemy, and not being cautious enough.
My way of thinking might be different from most women, probably because I have always been on my own, so my thoughts have always been independent. I have never felt that I couldn't manage without a man, nor have I felt inferior to men. When facing danger, I wouldn't wait and pray for my other half to rescue me.
From another perspective, when I encountered danger that time, I was so blinded by anger that my first thought was to solve it myself. I even messaged Lin Mo and didn't inform you.