Ruo Hai insisted on leaving the two boxes of gold, silver, and jewels for Ruo Xuan.
Without arguing with him, Ruo Xuan turned and delivered them to Sister He.
"Husband and wife cannot be of one mind if they do not share wealth," her mother said.
These were rewards from The Emperor, and so many people had seen it when her eldest uncle had given them to her before his wedding. After Sister He married into the family and learned of it, even if she didn't mind, she would probably feel hurt, feeling that the eldest uncle was guarding against her.
Grandmother always said to her parents and to her second uncle and aunt, "When husband and wife are of one mind, their sharpness can cut through metal. When getting along, they must negotiate and compromise, and they cannot leave thorns in each other's hearts. The more thorns are left, the more scars both will suffer, and the farther apart the couple will grow."
