The woman you've decided you MUST meet is wearing no
Whatzit? Can't find the host for the Whoozat technique? To make
matters worse, she's deep in conversation with a group of her
friends. Seems quite hopeless that you will maneuver a meeting,
doesn't it? You can't just say, "Excuse me, I just thought I'd eavesdrop in and say 'Hello.' "
No obstacle blocks the resolute politician, who always has a
trick or ten up his or her sleeve. A politico would resort to the
"Eavesdrop In" technique. Eavesdropping, of course, conjures
images of clandestine activities—wiretapping, Watergate breakins, or spies skulking around in the murky shadows. Eavesdropping has historical precedent with politicians so, in a pinch, it
naturally comes to mind.
At parties, stand near the group of people you wish to infiltrate. Then wait for a word or two you can use as a wedge to break
into the group. "Excuse me, I couldn't help overhearing that you
. . ." and then whatever is relevant here. For example "I couldn't
help overhearing your discussion of Bermuda. I'm going there next
month for the first time. Any suggestions?"
Now you are in the circle and can direct your comments to
your intended.