Trying to wrap your head about something like this is like wrapping and over stuffed burrito or wrap.
I also know this is the day I'm going to be crowned emperor/ general.
I finish dressing in the mandatory wine red uniforn that every general Is required. Dimitri where's the same thing but after he turns evily he where's only funeral black. Likely so he won't be haunted by the souls of those he slaughtered. Ecxept this time im going to what really happens that night because Dimitri may be ruthless and a absolute jerk he has good intention. So I used to respect him. And on top of that he always treated women as equals which most don't and his left arm even is a female.
Lilith Faibourne is the future wife and her loyalty lasts forever grows in strength every passing day even now she's the power house and fully dedicated to Dimitri for unknown reasons.
She's the main reason why know one could ever approach Dimitri even today.