"When you challenge the mountains, you may also come here to rest your feet."
"And when you wish to challenge the mountains again, to climb the highest peak, I will hold a grand banquet to send you off and then await your next visit, to share your adventures, your stories of challenges," Gaven proposed a compromise.
It's utterly foolish to coerce someone to change their habits with kindness.
On the contrary, it's easier for one to accept changes that are made indirectly while respecting their customs.
At least Gaven saw a wavering look on Kellysha's face, especially when he mentioned avoiding and banishing the old, weak, and sick; her expression changed the most. It was quite possible that someone close to her faced this situation, yet she couldn't change this unique custom of the Golia, not even as the Great Shaman of the Mountain Tribe.