But someone as proud as Rafael would naturally believe he hadn't done anything wrong during their previous meetings. However, Hera could see he wasn't a hopeless case. She noticed patterns in his behavior likely shaped by his upbringing, which explained how his parents were raising Minerva similarly.
She had heard from a friend that people often use their family as a benchmark for how others should treat them. In Rafael's case, being spoiled and coddled by his family led him to grow up arrogant and egotistical. This upbringing explained why Minerva became a spoiled brat and Rafael developed such a haughty attitude. Among all the male leads, Rafael was the most arrogant.