"Don't worry, Village Chief, though I am but a mere woman, I definitely won't let anyone trample over me," I declared with full gusto. "If anyone doubts that, let them try and see if I am a pushover!" Such firm words were necessary at that moment. Showing any sign of weakness or compliance would have simply invited bullying. Most people will take advantage of the soft and fear the strong.
"Erhu's wife, don't be like this," the old villager tried to soothe. "We're just discussing things. No one's trying to bully you. Why flare up? Sit down and have some water to cool off. Everyone in the village knows you're competent. We just want to seek your advice, that's all."