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Chapter 5 - You are beautiful

if i ask you guys, what is love?

you probably tell me with a thousands of definitions of love.

but there is no, one definition of love.

The meaning of love is different for each person. To know what love is, it is very important to have love.

sometime we are with someone over thousands of year but we can't feel love the way we feel, with whom we are just for few hours.

let me tell you something, once there was my friend asked me that, she fell in love with a person whom she met 2 hours ago in an event. but how this is possible, because she is already in relationship with her boyfriend over 2 whole years?.

so my reply was like, its possible but its your choice, it may be a mere affection.if you thought you really love this new guy, then tell your boyfriend truth how are you feeling tell him that you felt this way.

i know life is uncertain,unpredictable but life also gives us choices, it gives us chances, it is we, who ignores life chances.

i am not telling that she would choose the new person but how would she date someone, if she is not in love with him, and if she loved her boyfriend than how she fall for another person.

you supposed to be not fell in love with two persons at the same time, its not possible.

sometimes when someone say i love you, its not mean they love you.

sometimes people also use word love for time passing,and playing with your feelings.

so learn how to understand, the meaning of words and peoples actions more than just words.

the people who love you, shows their care, affection towards you. they show their love through their actions. they give you their time. 

these people don't say love you that often, but the usually says, you are beautiful, the way you are. 

your smile is cute.

sometimes i just want to hug you.

you made me feel things, i would never want to feel with anyone else.

Over time, the way we experience love can change and grow. While the initial spark of a new relationship might be intense, lasting love often involves deeper commitment, shared experiences, and mutual understanding.

Feelings can be messy and complex. It's possible to care deeply for one person while experiencing attraction or emotional connection with another. Navigating these complexities requires honest introspection and communication.

Always remember, love can't be just black and white, it's a whole rainbow.

Building healthy relationships relies on open communication and honest expression of feelings. Sharing concerns and uncertainties fosters trust and understanding, even when facing challenging situations.

True love often manifests in acts of care, respect, and support, not just empty declarations.

While I cannot provide a definitive answer to "what is love," I can offer some additional perspectives:

1. It's constantly evolving and growing through shared experiences, challenges, and communication.

2. Romantic love, familial love, platonic love, self-love – each has its unique significance.

3. Opening ourselves up to love means accepting the possibility of hurt, but the rewards are worth the risk.

It's a reminder that love is a journey, not a destination, and one worth exploring with open eyes and a genuine heart.

"Love is a verb, not just a noun"

"Love is a journey, not a destination"

"Love is not a destination, it's a dance in the rain, sometimes the sun shines, sometimes it pours, but you keep dancing." 

"Don't limit love to definitions, embrace its multifaceted nature, for it blooms in gardens of friendship, family, and even within ourselves."

"Empty whispers of 'I love you' fade, but consistent acts of care and support paint a vibrant portrait of true love."