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Now that Feng Qingxue had made up her mind, Lu Jiang sent a letter home asking Guan Cheng to come and pick up Lu Tianzhi and Guan Yu at the beginning of spring.
Although Lu Jiang was reluctant to live apart from his wife and child, he was clear that his wife had considered all the issues. Just as she had said, the priorities were the child, learning, and the interpersonal relations within the family compound.
Lu Jiang never felt that because his position was high, people with lower status must fawn over him and his wife and children. Respect was acceptable, but fawning was excessive. Such behavior was unwelcome, as it shouldn't become the norm in the family compound. Once such a norm developed, it would be difficult for soldiers and their families to interact as equals in the future.
