Even though they live in the same military-family compound, the families of high-ranking officers and those of middle-and lower-ranking officers are not housed the same, resulting in less contact between them. The families of mid-and low-ranking officers prefer to associate with families of comparable status.
Moreover, country people stick to their own kind, and city people do likewise, neatly divided.
These families that frequently associate with Lu Zhaodi, like Lu Zhaodi and Jin Feng themselves, are wives of middle-to-lower ranking officers who originally came from the countryside. They share similar outlooks and similarities in thinking, making their interactions particularly comfortable.
Even if they quarrel over trivial things, they don't fall out.