Well, that term doesn't fit He Teng, it would be better to say, He Zhilan was oblivious while in her sleep to him washing her. Even if she felt embarrassed the next day, it was only for a moment.
He Teng brought He Zhilan breakfast of soy milk and steamed buns. On her way back last National Day, he overheard a conversation she had with a young soldier where she mentioned that she really liked the army's soy milk. So, he intentionally got extra for her today.
After setting the breakfast on the table, He Teng urged He Zhilan to join him in the bathroom to wash up. He filled water, squeezed toothpaste onto the toothbrush before handing it to He Zhilan, then stood by continuing to pour water for her to wash her face. After He Zhilan slowly finished brushing her teeth, he quickly and neatly washed her face.