"Why? Is finding a spirit a mindset issue?" Matt asked, doubtful, and she nodded.
"Part of it is. The fact that you came here that one time means that every time you enter the Spirit World, you come to a place nearby, because it's the only place you know. For people who manage to enter the Spirit World from your world, the first time they enter they will arrive together with a spirit they are compatible with. I originally thought you were an exception, but after learning that we are very compatible, I realized that was why."
"That first spirit they see tends to also be the first spirit for them, as rejecting a spirit is not an easy thing to do, and that spirit will know that the person in front of them is very compatible. So technically, I should be your first spirit since I was the first spirit you encountered; when that happens, we could use our energy to sense other spirits that are very compatible with you. But I don't know if you want to wait that long."