But tradition dictates that girls cannot visit the ancestral tombs, and the two little nephews are too young. It's said that children are too pure and shouldn't visit such places.
Su Xiaowan felt it was just as well not to go, not so much because of what everyone said, but also because the children were too young. What if they got scared?
Therefore, my eldest cousin Song Yongyu visited the tomb once, and afterward, she stayed home to take care of Su Xiaowan, with all other matters being handled by the eldest cousin-in-law and aunt.
Now that the mourning period was over, it was already late April. The Guan family was supposed to have returned to Kyoto at the beginning of the lunar March. This trip took two months, so naturally, there were many delays.
Of course, the most important reason was that everyone was now free and naturally needed to think about how to live their lives in the future.