Parents often use their children as tools to fulfill their own dreams. Yet, this type of love can be burdensomely heavy.
Kids are too scared to resist, because it would wound their parents. "We gave you everything. We didn't eat, didn't drink, didn't clothe ourselves. We lived such a harsh life for your sake."
"And now, how could you despise us..."
For instance, a little girl loves to play the piano. Her mother adores her and spent all her savings to buy her a piano.
From then on, the girl didn't want to play the piano anymore. Ever since her mother bought the piano, she urged her to play it every day.
When the girl is tired or doesn't feel like playing, her mother will start nagging. "I didn't eat, didn't drink, scrimped and saved, spent all my money to buy you that piano.
"And now you won't play, you won't put the work in? Not practicing properly, how will you pass the exams? Have I bought it for nothing? I...
