Jinghan was also speaking with Mrs. He and the grandmother, "Grandma, we didn't know about Zifu getting married, so we haven't prepared any gifts for the first meeting. Mother, can you suggest something for us to prepare?" For such matters, of course, one must ask the mother-in-law.
Jinghan clearly remembered that when she got married, her second aunt-in-law had not given any gifts for the first meeting. If she didn't give anything now, she was afraid the second aunt-in-law would make a fuss again; and if she did give something, Jinghan really wouldn't feel quite comfortable. The reciprocity of social exchanges was just like that, it looks good when there is give and take, and if you couldn't exchange equal things, anyone would feel uncomfortable.
