In a nearby café, Li Weijie awkwardly explained his situation to Liu Shihan, and sighed, "I'm not an expert in dating."
Luo Xuan couldn't help but shake his head and sigh, "Your younger brother has a good appearance and a tall stature, but I never expected his dating skills to be so low. Truly, appearances can be deceiving and a gentleman's treasure cannot be measured!"
Li Weijie felt embarrassed and said, "Luo bro, why are we talking about my treasure? My treasure is not the issue here, it's just that I've never entered the home run stage."
"Oh, it's not that issue. It's really hard to argue with you about that. But it's alright, you have encountered me today. As long as you trust me, follow my advice, and I guarantee that I can transform you into a dating expert!" Luo Xuan said with an air of superiority.
However, to Li Weijie, it sounded a bit like the tone of a quack doctor or a street fortune teller.
"Do you want to learn?"
"Um... let me think about it." Li Weijie stirred his coffee.
"Hehe, you're still thinking about it? Master Luo rarely feels inspired to give you some pointers today. I promise it will make you a master of the dating world! What more are you thinking about?" Luo Xuan laughed.
But seeing Li Weijie's serious contemplation, he earnestly continued, "Your mindset towards money has already changed, that's something you figured out yourself. But why haven't you let go of your mindset towards women? What's the big deal? Failure is the mother of success. Instead of avoiding women after a heartbreak, you should transform your pain into strength and conquer more and better women. That's how you make your life worthwhile!"
"Conquer many women? Um... that ideal is too grand, it suits someone like you, a master. I just want to conquer a woman who is right for me," Li Weijie reluctantly said.
"Ah! I really can't do anything about you."
After a moment of thought, Luo Xuan asked calmly, "Since you are not ambitious, I won't force you. How about this, I'll teach you some simple theories on how to get along with girls and how to pursue them. Hopefully, it can help you win over the girl you like."
Li Weijie's eyes lit up, "Alright, hehe, this is more suitable for me."
Luo Xuan smiled inwardly, but maintained a serious expression, "First of all, do you currently have a girl you like?"
Li Weijie hesitated for a moment, "Not at the moment." He felt a bit ashamed because a moment ago in his mind, images of Su Keke, Chu Ling'er, and even Xu Rong, appeared.
"Then listen carefully. The first step is not to be timid or fearful. Be courageous and show your charm. Take the initiative to approach all the girls you know!" Luo Xuan's eyes flashed with cunning.
"Wait, isn't this about conquering many women?" Li Weijie became skeptical.
"Don't doubt the expert's advice, alright?" Luo Xuan said with a serious face.
"I didn't say you should conquer them. Since you haven't determined who you like, if you don't take the initiative to get to know, compare, and interact with all the girls you know, how will you know who you like?"
Li Weijie found some logic in what he said and nodded, "You're right, what's next?"
"The next step is to change your behavior. Even if you don't have my great conquering mindset, you should at least learn some sweet talk. I'm not asking you to deceive women with sweet talk, but to be proactive, humorous, and charming in your conversations."
There are many ways to do it, but the result should make people feel happy when they are with you. Think about it, if being with you is either dull or boring, who can bear it? That's why some people, even if their economic and physical conditions are not great, have many girlfriends, while others with better conditions struggle to find one.
There are also some things to pay attention to. Don't be timid, don't be stingy or lacking in charm, and don't lack assertiveness!" Luo Xuan lectured with a serious expression.
"That makes sense, I'll remember." Li Weijie also thought these were important, not just for pursuing girls, but for all social interactions. "But these are all theoretical, do you have anything more practical? Can you give some examples?"
Luo Xuan eyed him, "Do you want me to teach you how to sweet talk and be humorous? Are you insulting me?"
"How am I insulting you?" Li Weijie was confused.
"These are basic social skills that anyone can achieve as long as they are a little bold and willing to try. Do I need to teach you these details? Should I tell you how to speak when buying flowers or how to give them? You can figure out the process details yourself, as long as you achieve the desired result." Luo Xuan said sternly.
Li Weijie couldn't help but laugh, but seeing how serious he was, he nodded and said, "I'll practice on my own, Master, please continue."
"From now on, you should treat every girl you know as a potential girlfriend, imagine that they are suitable for you. Of course, if you like unattractive girls, I can't help you. Then remember the points I mentioned when interacting with them. When you reach a certain level, you should escalate things a bit..."
Li Weijie was earnestly listening and nodding, but when he heard "escalate things a bit," he quickly asked, "Won't escalating things create a bad impression on girls?"
Luo Xuan sighed, "This shows that your dating skills and experience are weak. Being too honest in front of girls who have some interest in you can easily make them think you lack charm, confidence, and abilities. Besides, when I say 'escalate,' it means a moderate level of physical intimacy. It's a kind of... very sexy and elegant level, not violence or vulgarity. It's not as vulgar and despicable as you imagine, like forcing yourself upon someone."
"This difficulty is too high, right? Can you explain in more detail?"
Li Weijie couldn't grasp what he meant by moderation, let alone imagine how he could beautify it as elegant.
"Ah, I can't expect too much from you. In short, the key is to be proactive. When it's time to kiss, kiss; when you can touch, touch. Don't pretend to be cultured, being cultured only makes you lose out and makes girls dislike you."
Nodding and learning, Li Weijie couldn't help but ask a question, "Luo bro, why didn't you mention money and power? Aren't they the most important?"
Luo Xuan pitifully looked at him, "Ah Jie, you were greatly affected. Money and physical power are not important, except for a certain power.
Although having some money can give people a sense of security, think about it, what kind of woman values money above all else?
Prostitutes and those who are vain.
Do you like those kinds of women?
As for physical power, it's not that important.
This is the age of the mind. If it were important, heavyweight boxers like Tyson would be the most desirable to women, and weaklings like me wouldn't stand a chance.
In short, women do not simply like you because you can fight or have special abilities."
It sounds reasonable, but who knows?
Li Weijie silently murmured to himself.
"The highest realm of picking up girls can be summed up in one word: heart!"
"Heart?"
"Yes, as long as you treat them with sincerity and love, you can win the hearts of beautiful women! Even win the hearts of many beautiful women!" Luo Xuan slowly said, as if unveiling the truth of picking up girls.