Sometimes, people are just unable to change what they see before their eyes, and lovers can only reluctantly accept these realities.
When faced with situations that can no longer be specificly changed, the belated realization, and the consequential intense regret becomes a means that is too late to employ.
Someone must figure out the right course of action to address the issue at hand, a means capable of resolving the problem.
It's not to say that all decisions and judgements are effective in resolving the dilemmas we are faced with.
Only when others have demonstrated a specific response, can one determine whether it's right or wrong, an approach that ultimately proves untenable from the start.
People can fully rely on their inner estimations about everything happening before their eyes to gain a clear understanding of the nature of the situation.
However, not everyone has the capacity to act correctly from the onset when faced with an issue.
