"What's most important for a girl? Her reputation! If a girl stays quiet and keeps to her home, embroidering and sewing every day without stepping outside, such a daughter will be liked by her future in-laws and men, and will have good suitors coming to propose marriage."
"Your mother indulged you in the past, and you couldn't do anything at home, never sewed a stitch and only knew how to play all day; she still put you in charge of the family's silver coin—what kind of behavior is that?"
"Little sister, you're not young anymore. Which girl your age doesn't have a household of her own? But look at you, finally settling a marriage, only to have it cancelled! You already had an unfavorable reputation; with this fuss, if you don't restrain yourself, how will you marry in the future?"
